Ask the Emperor of Feelings for help, and ask the Emperor of Feelings to show the way

He likes you, but he's embarrassed to admit that he's not ready to fall in love, and he's too shy to make the relationship public.

mmtme: Minifoxk's advice is not to try it! A misstep becomes a thousand hatreds...

Treat her as an ordinary friend, and the relationship needs time to cultivate to last.

At first glance, she is smarter than you, holding hands, and eating in a bowl, this is already a girlfriend fact, but she refuses to be "formal" with you, but she already accepts you very much in her heart, do you still have to be obsessed with this name?

Keep chasing. This is the legendary one who is testing you, observing you, and seeing if you are the kind of monkey anxious, of course, the premise is your PS, what you say in PS is right, that's it.

Teach you a way. Confess again, the words are sincere and touching (that is, the kind that can move people's hearts, and the feeling of her from your heart). Then kiss her. Don't let her break free. After the kiss, it's fine.

In fact, this situation is very normal, and there are generally two possibilities.

First of all, as you said, she is out of town, and she can't misunderstand this when you say this, and she doesn't have the heart to misunderstand. Because she is already very lonely, even if you like her, it is not easy to talk to her. Moreover, the current girl doesn't care too much about these at all, so the landlord doesn't have to worry too much.

In both cases, first of all, it may be that the girl's mood has eased, and she is not as lonely and lonely as before, and she may not pay too much attention to you, because women need the most men's care when they are lonely, and she is not so lonely now, of course, she has let go, and it is normal not to take the initiative to chat with you.

Secondly, it may be that you are too worried about something, the more you worry, the more anxious you are, and the worse you will do. I've been in this situation before, women, if you can guess it, it's not a woman. Don't take it too seriously. It's all about it.

It's okay to keep talking to her.

It's a bit of a fire, but it's okay, it's all up to you.

It's okay, you have to believe that you haven't said anything excessive, and then just pay attention to what you say.

Your situation is very simple to solve, but the analysis is troublesome, I will put it simply:

1,You don't belong to the type of person who has been together in the past,Then separated,And then get back together,You have too little contact with her reality,I'm not denying junior high school,It's just that it's too long.,At that time, each other didn't face each other with a "like" attitude.,To put it bluntly,The accumulation and memories of "love" are too little.,What you have.,It's estimated that only the text message communication records of the junior year.。

2. Have you ever taken the initiative to like her from beginning to end? If there is, then look for the encounter of that time; If not, then read on.

3. Even if you haven't taken the initiative to like it, have you ever had any fantasies in the process of communication such as text messages and QQ? I'm referring to fantasies about two people living together, or fantasies about a future family, including, of course, sexual fantasies, if not at all.

Please break up decisively.

There are no memories, no encounters, and no opportunity to create these two people's things now (you go back to school + you don't feel it), this is obvious, please stop thinking that you are kind enough to harm the girl's youth.

Of course, it is not so easy to break up, maybe she will show you a diary because of her long-term admiration, and will do some trivial things to remind you, then you should weigh yourself with contemporary values, after all, there is a type of woman who used to be very clingy and annoying because of her love, and she can pay a lot for the family when she matures. Remember, this is a judgment of value, and you must not treat it with something you can't bear to bear!

ps: If the previous points make you gradually stop feeling annoying to her in the process of recalling, then it means that you are the kind of person with super emotional intelligence, this kind of person is extinct, and if you are, you will also do what you want to do in the future.

This is the end of the tirade, and I will give you a piece of advice: what do you want to do in the future, what do you want to do, will she be a help or a hindrance, and whether you want to train her to be a helper, these should be carefully considered. After all, breaking up is such a thing, you have to think about it and make up your mind.

If it's decided, it's a quick fix, and the longer it drags on, the more terrifying it becomes.

Then you can get back to your original feeling, anyway, my girlfriend and I are also junior high school classmates, high school separated, and we started to contact in college, she is already working, I am still in school, but we are still walking very well She loves you so much, I can't live up to it, come on

I shouldn't have been with her in the first place. The most important thing is to communicate with her. Give her a clear answer.

If you really don't feel it, it's broken. Better a finger off than always aching. The longer it takes, the more painful it will be for you and for her.

You shouldn't have given her hope because of loneliness in the first place.

Since I really don't feel it, don't delay the girl's time, let's make it clear.

Long pain is better than short pain.,The girl who really loves you.,If you don't like you, don't accept her because of loneliness.,So girls don't hurt.,It's better to give a clear answer.。。

You don't love her, what else?

First question.

Time is ** Piling back painkillers.

When happy, everything is the grief of sacrifice after falling in love and breaking up.

She's sad because she's too concerned with her ex-boyfriend when you have to do the hunger burner instead of her ex-boyfriend - but that's not to say that her boyfriend, but her ex-boyfriend is the one to give him a joy and people's happiness and take her out for a memory. Try a new sensation.

Remember. No one can occupy a person's heart forever.

Second question.

Now that you've made up your mind to be with her, you're here to ask. You are in awe.

Afraid of hurting her, she refused to be afraid, afraid of your relationship, because she was afraid that your confession would make her and she still didn't fit in the past. In short, you are cowardly.

If you are not in a hurry, then according to the answer to the first question, give him happiness.

If you don't, she'll immediately think you're in love with you, but her heart leaves a little seat for you.

Then things are slowly expanding the seat a little.

How to do your own thing, after all, the girl's personality preferences and habits do not know the specific way, and we can't help either.

When the time is ripe, confess to her, don't be afraid of hurting feelings and being frustrated, you can't always stand the taste of time.

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