Should I tell him about my past, does my past matter with him?

If he really loves you, he won't care about your past, and you should cherish it when you meet someone who loves you. People are always learning and growing through continuous mistakes, and you will become mature. Everyone has some secrets of their own, which cannot be shared by others, and enough of what you tell him.

There is no need to have any psychological burden, love is not a balance, love is in the present continuous tense.

Seeing that your experience is really too similar to mine, I have also come from that time, and you are lucky compared to you. I was with my former boyfriend for three years, and during the three years I listened to him for everything, didn't go to any parties, I went to the supermarket to buy things, and he bought everything for me, and didn't let me make friends, not to mention men, not women, not to let me go shopping, to say that there was chaos outside, in short, he had his reason wherever he went, and then my work was also limited by him, because he I quit two jobs, and it wasn't until this year that I really understood that he didn't love me, he was too constrained by me, I didn't have anything, I didn't have a friend when I was in trouble, only him. Later, he also used death to force me not to break up, he masochized himself and knelt down for me, but my heart hurt at that time, but I still broke up.

After that, in order to ambition me, he slept with two women in two days, proving that he has the strength to give me the best life, making me regret it, he bought a car, and now we often hit **, but he keeps saying that he is right, all for my good, saying that it has always been my fault. Now that I have a boyfriend, and I have told me about our past, he has been very nice to me and knows what I have suffered, and what I have suffered. Sister, in fact, you should ask him these things, do you want to know about my past?

If he doesn't want to know, don't say it, I've heard it sad, if he wants to hear it and then tell him, there must be an inevitable way to everything, it depends on how you choose, ask his opinion and then say what you think. I think it would be better!

There is no need.

If only there were a lot of things to understand. Don't overthink it.

As long as you love him enough, it's not unfair to him.

Believe in yourself and believe in him, this is what is fair to you and to him.

He loves you and doesn't care about anything else, only your person. My husband knows all my stories, he is my safe haven and we are very happy. He won't talk about my past.

Don't say it, men will mind.

Don't ask.

Why are you so self-respecting as a girl! Alas. Immature? And revenge?!!In the end, it's not you who will regret it!

Confused! Don't kill anyone, you two!

That boyfriend of yours is basically the same as mine, and I'm annoyed by that too.

Tell him! Or you'll regret it!

Everyone has a past, not only lovers may have, you may also have, the most important thing in a relationship is not how you have been in the past, because those have happened, the most important thing should be how the present is. If your partner is genuine and considerate to you at the moment, and loves you very much, then his concerns about his past are not so important.

There is no fixed order of appearance in life, it's just that he met someone he liked just before you, and they didn't have fate to go to the end, but now he met you again. No one can say for sure about fate, not that whoever appears first is superior, so we don't need to take the "past" too seriously, what is more important is how you feel about getting along in the present, and then the plan for the future. After all, we can't travel through time, but we can put me in the moment.

As long as the other party has dealt with the past feelings, the past is just a vague memory. People don't have only one heart-warming moment, and they can chase many stars after stars, so as long as the other party has dealt with the past feelings, no longer contact, no longer cling, and truly loves you at the moment, that's enough.

Your happiness is in your hands. It is true that the past is difficult to completely erase, but the initiative for the happiness of the present is entirely in your own hands. I believe that most people will choose to look forward and cherish the people around them.

Instead of being too entangled in his past, it is better to grasp the present moment, do more meaningful things, have more common experiences, grow more together, and fill the thoughts of the past with the fullness of reality, people's eyes are always looking forward, so as long as you want, the present is the best time.