Emotional troubles, come over and help, thank you

Blow it and find another one, and Bao Zhun will be cured.

Sometimes it has to be! Don't force it at all times!

Don't get too attached to it, sometimes giving up isn't necessarily a bad thing! I have just experienced that my wife is much worse than you, and my wife has divorced me, we have been in love for 7 years and she said she wanted to get married, but she has only been married for a year and she said she wants to divorce! Ask her why, and she says society is realistic!

I said, am I not good to you? She said no! I asked her why she married me in the first place, and she said she didn't know!

Hehe, who can you blame me for being like this now? Feelings are too difficult to figure out, so let's go with the flow! Back then, I didn't agree with my family and friends, but I gave up too much for her just for the sake of feelings!

I said, "On the first floor, do you have such a good credential?"

Maybe she's in a bad mood now, and she's lost the kind of good wishes she had before in love, she looks down on this, and doesn't believe in others anymore, or maybe her personality is not very cheerful, and she doesn't want to endure it anymore, what is the personality of a person that will change, and now she doesn't know if it's not her three years ago, in fact, we don't know, if she doesn't want to say anything to you, you don't have to ask, you can say something that you were happy when you were a child, or you can say something else, It will be better to care about it often, and when she knows that you are the person she is talking to, she will share everything with you.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family and marital relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

You can pay the money! Find a way to find her to set some money out, after all, it's the two of you who live, your girlfriend is a bit realistic, then you should also be realistic, pretend according to your own ideas, don't spend too much money, 2 years is actually quite long, people's hearts will change, you think about it yourself, is she the person you are looking for to live your life.

You should be considerate of your girlfriend and sit down with her to have a good talk about what exactly you are getting married for? What did she think about your family situation? But if it's really unpleasant, then break up, and if you want to divide it, you can simply divide it.

If you decorate now, as a woman, it will be the home of the future, so she will definitely be psychologically unhappy if she does not participate, if she participates, because it is your family who pays for it, and now there is actually no husband and wife, so she is embarrassed to participate, or afraid of participating and feeling that it is a loss. So the best thing for her is not to decorate now, and she will preside over or participate in the decoration after your affairs are decided. I think the main thing is that she may not be ready to get married, after all, women are very careful in choosing their husbands, which is good for you and her.

So, be patient, be nice to her, the house has been bought, the decoration is not endless, the decoration is new after a few years, just as the new house, and the style of the decoration is changing, it is not only a matter of money, my suggestion is that this kind of thing is discussed and decided, and it is not a big problem to decorate after earning money now, after all, your feelings are the most important. I wish you happiness and hope it helps!

Wait a little longer to get married, I don't think you're all fit to get married yet.

This kind of thing, if you are not very strong in terms of feelings, then discuss it, after all, you have to live a lot of life in the future

If you are not satisfied with this, rest assured, she will talk to you for the rest of her life, and women hold grudges, especially before getting married, hehe

Why is this not thinking about you.

。。Brother, why don't you open your eyes before marrying a daughter-in-law??

Your family and you are emotionally and blood-connected, and there will always be similarities, so, think carefully about what aspects of your girlfriend and which details have touched you, and then, create opportunities for your family to see this side of her and impress them. Also, don't go-for-tat with your family, it will make them hate your girlfriend even more, they will feel that it is because of her that you target them, and they will blame her even more. Therefore, you should try to make yourself calm with them, and tell them that the reason why you can talk to them gently is because your girlfriend tells you to deal with the relationship with your family, so that they feel that your girlfriend is very sensible and will help your family harmony.

Also, make it clear to your family that what you want is not a cold home built with money, but a home that may be small but warm, and if they don't want you to live in pain and regret for the rest of your life, ask them to understand you and accept you.

It is impossible to reach an agreement in a heated quarrel with your family, so talk calmly, say the opinions and ideas of both parties, and understand all their ideas, so that you can break them all! Come on!!!

Life is your own, find a good partner and be happy for a lifetime. It is better to tear down ten bridges than to destroy a marriage. Persistence is victory. Do ideological work for her family, find an opportunity for her family to know how good she is, and change her family's opinion.

You can't let down a good girl because of this, you should show the momentum of a boy to convince your family. Now you have to take responsibility for your own business.

I suggest that you do the work of being a parent first, it is best to let your parents and girlfriend sit together and talk openly, it is best not to let the relationship between them be too stiff, I think your parents are not made of ice, sooner or later there will be a day when it melts. Besides, your girlfriend, from your description you love her very much. Moreover, there is such a woman who is willing to pay for you, you must cherish it, looking for a daughter-in-law to see the family background is one aspect, but the future life depends on the two of you to live together.

I think you will definitely be very happy in the future with her, and you will go down with her ......

You have to try to communicate with the family and tell them how good she is to you, how much she has done for you, and that you can't be so powerful. Your relationship is tested, and finding someone rich can't be so nice to you. The man is more responsible, and if she has a baby for you, she will be even more responsible for her to the end.

Otherwise, how will she marry in the future? I'm sure reasonable parents will approve of you.

My whole life is decided by myself, and if you are a man, you will stick to it than wavering I am optimistic about you, but pay attention to moderation and safety.

It's very difficult for men to encounter such a thing! I've been in your situation before, and I was struggling with it at the time! But years later, if you had given up, you would have regretted it!

So in order not to leave yourself with regrets, you should choose to stick to it! After all, the wife is the one who wants to live with him for the rest of his life! Whether the shoes fit or not, only the feet know!

First of all, you should communicate more with your parents, talk more about her advantages in front of your parents, how to really care about you and take care of you, and secondly, take her home more, behave better in your house, help your parents do some housework or something, buy some good things for your parents, and have a sweet mouth, I believe they will accept her.