I m mentally ill, who can point out my mistakes

Philosophically, "motion is absolute, and rest is relative". So the law you summarized is likely to be just suitable for your situation for a period of time, if the law does not adapt to the change of the situation, but you are still persisting, the law will become a burden. The so-called "if you are poor, you will think about change, change will be successful, and if you are poor, you will be able to do it for a long time".

1.Movement is absolute. Everything is in absolute motion, and laws cannot be absolutely static.

2.Cognition is repetitive, infinite, and ascending, and the laws you summarize are only cognitions at a specific moment, and cannot be used as truth. 3.

Laws are objective, and people can make use of them. However, it is important to give full play to the subjective initiative on the basis of respecting the law. Listening to the description, I feel a little obsessive-compulsive.

Listen to the destiny" may have some truth, but I prefer to "do my best" to be worthy of my only life (personal opinion, don't spray if you don't like it).

I've been in that situation with yours too, and trust me, it'll be fine after a while.

1. You must make more friends, even if you chat with strangers online, talk about things, look at each other's opinions, and feel much more comfortable.

2. Go out with friends more often to divert your attention.

3. Cry out if you want to, cry out loud, sometimes tears are the best way to smooth out the pain.

4. Don't drill the tip of the horns, if you keep drilling the horns of the horns, it will only backfire.

5. Find something you like to do, I know that at this time you definitely don't want to do anything, try to do it.

6. Go out often, have fun, find a close friend or ordinary playmate, in short, you must be the kind of person who will not put pressure on yourself anymore.

7. Before going out, you must pay attention to your appearance, even if your heart is haggard, your appearance must be comfortable, don't let people who don't like you see how pitiful they are, and make them happy in their hearts.

8. Slowly build up self-confidence and do something you are good at.

At that time, I committed suicide by taking medicine, went on a hunger strike, did everything, and didn't want to go anywhere, and kept fiddling with the ** computer every day, I hope you don't be like me, don't repeat my mistakes. Meals must be eaten, even if it is once a day. Don't think about suicide!

There is no hurdle that cannot be passed, time is a knife to kill pigs, but it can also heal your wounds.

I advise you to relax your mind more.

Depression - Find a good friend to share your thoughts. Those things are in the past, forget about it and start again. Have some time to vent, lay down a pillow or something, or climb a mountain. You can also go to the Internet to find some more tragic examples than yourself and make comparisons.

Find other hobbies and communicate with friends.

Read more, sleep more, and spend more time in the sun.

Did you drink something you shouldn't drink?

What you estimate is up for debate. There could be many reasons why people don't pursue your wife:

1. What if people already have wives?

2. What if someone else is as beautiful as your wife?

3. Turnips and greens have their own loves, what if people don't think your wife is beautiful?

4. What if other people's female friends are as beautiful as your wife?

Therefore, your assessment of the "hypocrisy" of other people's male friends is not valid. If this assessment is not true, then the reason why you are reluctant to engage with her male friend is also not valid.

Your psychology may not really be your psychology, or it may just be an excuse.

There is nothing wrong with this kind of psychology, simply put, opposites attract.

Here's a suggestion for you.

First, whether there are grandparents, and if so, go to the grandparents' house for a while.

Second, find time to have a good talk with your dad and talk about your biggest psychological fear. And your ideals.

Three, she is your reaction force, study hard. Spend time with friends or classmates or roommates when you're away.

Fourth, learn to be independent.

Fifth, build a good relationship with your stepmom as much as possible. Like taking care of your younger brother.

It's not a phobia of stepmothers, it's the kind of rural women's vice, in fact, I teach you a solution to your fear of her, but *** is also big, that is, talk back to her, quarrel with her, fight, don't be afraid of her, but then the old village woman may clean you up, you can do it yourself, either turn your face with her, or be tortured by her, in fact, as a family, she is a latecomer, you should be respected, but she is a village woman, hateful temperament, not polite, but the most important thing is that in fact, your father doesn't care about you at all, Otherwise, he will manage the old village woman and not let you be wronged, I think you still read good books, and in the future, you will have a high academic diploma, so that you can stand on your own feet and get rid of this family, otherwise it will be difficult for you to survive in the future, now the world in China is getting more and more difficult, it is not easy to find a job, it is not easy to find a job, it is not easy to find a job, you can only be endlessly self-reliant, in order not to be beaten, you can do it yourself!

Communicate more, talk to friends, talk to your dad, have time to travel, relax, and release psychological pressure. You mainly don't have a confidant right now, so find someone who can keep secrets. You are scared in your heart, relax and make more friends.

Don't put everything at ease, you don't say that others don't know, you need you, your father, your stepmother to communicate together. You can also talk about your own mother.

Sister, for your own sake, let's talk to a counselor.

According to your description, you can only feel your depression, helplessness, depression, anxiety, withdrawal, sighing, heaviness, loneliness, and even anger, etc., which can only be temporarily judged as mentally unhealthy, and cannot be confirmed as a mental illness. Your suffocation should come from your situation, but also from your character.

It is recommended to try to let go of all the water around you, exhale all the inferiority, withdrawal, complaining, pickiness, hatred, etc. in your body, and blow as far away as possible, otherwise they will not only "pierce" yourself, but also "pierce" others. Reach out all the friendly, soft tentacles you can reach, and at the same time convey warmth with a smile, respect and acceptance with your eyes, and tell those around you that "you are good, and I am not bad." ”

Learn to accept yourself. Accept what you can't change even if you work hard, and acceptance is not necessarily liking, but facing reality.

About character: Everything in the world is relative, there is no absolute good, and there is no absolute bad. Extroverts are generous and organized, while introverts are good at thinking and inventing; People who are anxious are quick and decisive, and people who are slow are methodical and not easy to make mistakes; Easy-going people are popular, and old-fashioned people often have an upright side.

About appearance: What parents give, it has nothing to do with their acquired efforts, nor does it have anything to do with ability and IQ. The problem of appearance is not my own fault, nor is it my parents', so there is no need to be unhappy about it.

It's like having no wings to let yourself fly like a bird, and you're depressed about things you can't decide and change, and your face is full of bitterness, but it's actually hard for yourself.

Ability. The ruler is short, and the inch is long. Three hundred and sixty lines, the line is the champion. There are many kinds of abilities, rather than worrying about their inferior abilities, it is better to find out their strengths and interests, work hard, run all the way comfortably, all the way freely.

Accept yourself, accept others.

Feel free to ask.

Hello friends, it seems that you are currently tired of life, so you can go to the nearby gym to practice first, and then I will give you another **!

It may be that you need to see a psychiatrist. I wish you a speedy escape from such troubles.

Dear, don't be impatient.

You feel like you're living in a glass bottle full of water, and no one wants to be with you. Hey, there are so many people in the world, you have to believe in fate, although this doesn't seem to be very scientific. You say that the people who are with you don't feel easy, but in fact, my feet are right, the problem is that you feel that you live in a glass bottle.

Because of your feelings, your consciousness subjectively seals yourself in that bottle, and the imaginary picture is full of suffocation. If you want to break the glass cover, it's yourself. You have to think for yourself first that I've come out of the bottle.

Time is good medicine, and everything will be fine.

Go to a tertiary hospital, see a psychologist, and exercise more.

It's good to be chased and bitten by a Tibetan mastiff, your feeling is purely full.