I hate it when people order me and yell at me

Face it with an objective mood, you will meet all kinds of people in life, but you just need to think clearly, what kind of people will deal with As the saying goes, when you see people, you talk about people, and you talk about ghosts

Why do others command you and yell at you? It's nothing more than him (she) is your superior or he (she) can do this to you, you belong to his (her) jurisdiction, I work in a Korean-funded company, there is a director of the sales department, is a Korean woman in Jilin Province, she is just like you said, there is nothing to do always to yell twice, it is the affairs of her department, she is not in charge of the affairs of her department, she also manages, and there is nothing to do and always yell at people, sometimes she yells at people in the office, I go out, I summarized a few points, first of all, she works in a factory run by Koreans, And she is a Korean ethnic in Jilin, the language she speaks is the same as the Korean Chinese, she has a sense of superiority, that is, Ha Han, and then she has no real learning, no different from being around Koreans and a translator, not yelling at people is not enough to satisfy the emptiness in her heart, and the boss with real leadership ability will not order and yell at people.

Character is like this, the person who holds back is the one who has a good temper, or the kind of person who has a strategy.

You can't hold your breath, you're born, and you can only control it yourself.

Me too, but I'm slightly better than you, and I just hate people yelling at me.

Bear with me, that person is still young, don't change your attitude in response to her behavior.

Well, you have to learn how to control your emotions

It's a matter of character!

You should learn to take control of your personality slowly.

You're going to suffer if you're out there.

Who wants to be yelled at! But sometimes you have to endure it.

She's an anxious person.

I'm in your own situation. I seriously thought about it. The reason for being so sensitive to the commanding tone may be that when you were a child, your parents were always commanding to force you to do something, and these unpleasant experiences have always been in your mind.

When you grow up, other people's orders are blunt, because the chain reaction evokes the unpleasant feelings of your childhood, you will instinctively resist, you are not against things but against unpleasant feelings, so what you were willing to do becomes unwilling, this is not mean. ^_

It's normal, I hate it, but if it's a ruthless person, it won't, and that's a sign of closeness to you

Again, I can choose to do it myself, but don't ask me to do it.

Such a character must be a disadvantage in society.

Haha, yes, and then don't do it, I won't order you if I do it a few more times.

Anyone will hate other people's orders to you, after all, being ordered is not a good thing, some people are so self-righteous, so good delivery strength, in fact, they are not management, and they are not leaders and not bosses and are willing to be willing to be this kind of person in other people's three rivers is really speechless, I have also met such a person, so it's good to ignore him, after all, he doesn't care why you want to point fingers at you, really, well, just ignore him and he'll be finished, he's nothing, There's nothing wrong with what he says if you think it's air, so sometimes it's like this, if you listen to him, he'll be arrogant in the future, and if you don't listen, forget it.

I also often encounter such a problem, some people just like to put on a show, a tone of no one in their eyes, in fact, treat this kind of person, just ignore him, especially when he asks you to do things, he generally ignores him, and he can't do anything about you

In fact, sometimes the person may just be used to talking like this, and not intentionally. In fact, you can look down, if it is deliberate, you just ignore him.

Our growth is always accompanied by a lot, among which there are joys and sorrows, as well as comforts and troubles! My advice is: if you can't refuse or the consequences of resisting are too serious to bear, then it's best to learn to adapt!

If not, you can think about how to get it back!! At the same time, I do not propose to fight ......

Find an opportunity to fight back, order others, endure if you don't have a chance, can't help but break off the relationship, talk if you can't break it, and continue to talk about it if you can't talk about it.

To be serious, when you give orders, he thinks you can be controlled, ignore him (three days, five days), shake his self-confidence, and you are in control.

If it's a leader, fire him, if it's a friend, don't dump him, if it's a family member, dump him.

The leader said that there is no way, and you can ignore it in life.

You have to communicate with him and let him change his style and tone.

Don't care about what others say, it's really someone else's wishful thinking that annoys you, and it's her who is annoyed on the contrary.

Normally, just ignore him!

Ignore him, he said that if you go east, you will go west.

and thou shalt govern others as they would have done unto others.

Left in and right ears out, without birds

Hehe, life is like this, you have superiors and subordinates at work, and it is normal to roar, unless you become the boss and the problem is solved.

Learn to empathize. What would you do if you were him.

Go back and raise a turtle and call it your enemy.

Smile on the surface, know in your heart, hide a knife in your smile, and wait for revenge.

Nobody likes it.

But work thing.

No one can be hippie smiley.

Maybe it's a problem of personality, it's easy to get acquainted, it's hard to get along, give some patience, learn more about each other, and reflect on yourself by the way, to see where the problem is**, if the other party has a short temper, then you can make the right decision decisively. So as not to regret domestic violence in the future!

I like to yell at you, this is quite easy to judge.

Personally, I feel that it is very dangerous if a person cannot control even basic emotions and behaviors. This is often how domestic violence is exposed.

Yes, if I love you, I won't yell at you.

Yes, otherwise he wouldn't have yelled at you.

Not necessarily, it needs to be carefully considered!!

The temper is a little bad, and then look at it, and you will know it slowly.

It's possible that he doesn't want to be with you.

What if I like you, my temper is so bad, I may beat you in the future, and I am not happy.

Of course, it will be soft to the person you like.

What to do after a breakup and can't be together.

It's normal for people to have emotions, shouting loudly to vent their emotions, as long as they don't do anything illegal.

I also hate it when people talk to me in a commanding tone, and I can't stand it when I want to take the initiative to do something. Habits are hard to break, communicate slowly to change!

Beat her eight times a day, women can't stand the fact that men are good to them! It's just beating and scolding, it's the best.

I really want to be ordered by my wife! Born in the midst of blessings, you don't know blessings.

I'm also very introverted, I originally thought that there would be less communication when I entered the factory, and I always met the nail head, and I was a new employee, and the eight women always came to you, not that I was sloppy and said that I was nosy, I didn't ask her anything, and I said that I was cheap, and I wanted to scold her and beat her, otherwise I would die by myself, I was too angry,

Sit more when you're fine. Do some activities that can control your temper and temper your heart.

Go to the fence and nail it, nail it once you get angry, and then pull it out when you lose your temper at the end This is a little story.

It's all about your own control.

I used to be like this for a while, I didn't need to be angry, I told myself not to send it, and then told myself that adults don't remember villains! If a dog bites you, do you want to bite a dog again?

No need to control, no need to solve, it's easy to do, just learn from people, fight violence with violence, tooth for tooth, gentle to comfortable, Cowherd to Weaver Girl, understand?

When angry, don't make any decisions. By doing this, you are ahead of many people.

See if you want to change it, try to restrain yourself if you want to change, calm down, be a little more yangguan, if someone is fierce, you will treat him as if he grew up eating