It s a person who says, who would you like to talk to?

No matter who you play with or who you spend time with, you must pay attention to the fact that you have to put yourself in the other person's shoes.

I think it's the latter, and I think what he said is quite right, so if you're really confused, ask him what he means.

Who to say, and your parents because it is your family will analyze and consider for you, I have always reported good news and not bad news, happy things will be said to family and friends, when encountering bad things, it is good to know by yourself, only let them see my happy side, mainly I don't want to let my relatives and friends know about negative emotions, I don't want them to worry.

That is to say, you should not run to other people's houses every day, for fear that other people's parents will not like it, because others have other people's lives, and generally do not like outsiders to disturb them, and go to other people's homes, don't inquire about other people's homes, for fear that others will be disgusted, and it is better to keep a certain distance between people, if you are not particularly good friends, you must get along with each other at a certain distance.

I also think this is hinting at you.

Going to other people's houses every day to play is also a kind of harassment for others, it is recommended not to always go to other people's houses to play, you can go once a week, but it is really not good to go every day, and you will be praised if you are satisfied, thank you.

I think you should still find a reliable friend, so that the two of you can talk about the same topic in the world.

I choose the second person, all human beings have privacy, and the first person violates the right to personal privacy.

I guess it's the second scenario you think.

This is a very challenging question because the situation is not carefully specified, so I have to assume some background to make it right.

What comes to mind here is that if this person says to you, "Listen to me if you want," then it probably means that there is some kind of intimacy between you. Maybe you've had a bad conflict before, or a relationship that seems to be over on the surface, but one party still has hope for the other and wants to start getting along again.

The meaning here is that he will support you in whatever you do, and you should respect his opinion. After all, the reason why he said this was because he believed that you could understand his feelings, and you should respect his thoughts accordingly.

So, if someone says to you, "Listen to me if you want," then they may want to start a more genuine relationship again, hoping that you will follow his advice, respect his ideas, and support each other.

There are too many classics about human beings about the story of feelings. But for thousands of years, love, hate, sorrow, joy, greed, hatred, and resentment have been staged alternately and never stopped. It is said that the most important thing in a relationship is communication, but many words and many things cannot be expressed in words.

Behind a simple sentence, there may be countless unspeakable subtexts.

For example, when a person says to you, "Do you have anything else to say to me?" do you know what kind of mental activity is behind it?

When it comes to phenomenal TV dramas in recent years, "Flower Thousand Bone" is definitely one of them. Anyone who has read the original will know one of the details. When Hua Qiangu came back to life and regained her memory, the first thing she said to Bai Zihua was: "Is there anything else you want to say to me?" ”。

And when the East heard a word, he knew. Hua Qiangu is still attached to Baizi painting.

Coincidentally, in the author of "To Our Dying Youth" - Xin Yiwu's other ** "Shanyue Doesn't Know the Bottom of My Heart", there is also such a plot.

Ye Ling, who had emotional entanglements with Ye Qianze, also asked before leaving: "Is there anything else you want to say to me?" ”

In the movie "This Killer Is Not Too Cold", every time the heroine parted with the male protagonist, she would ask him: "Is there anything else you want to say to me".

When I was young, I never understood this plot and this sentence that appeared frequently in many stories.

After many years, I suddenly realized: If the fate is over, there is nothing to say, if the relationship is not over, there is still hope after all, can you say something to me.

So, when a person says to you, "Is there anything else you want to say to me?", it means that they still have expectations of you.

In many film and television scripts, the party who finds that the other party has something to hide will always not poke it but will do everything possible - "Do you want to say anything to me", after all, I still hope that the other party can say it in person, rather than the final showdown.

When the lovers are not full, they cautiously test each other, "Do you have anything you want to say to me?"

After all, it's because I have you in my heart.

Cherish the person who said this to you. The people who say this to you are usually expecting from you. That expectation may or may not be there.

If you love them, cherish them; If you don't love them, at least don't hurt them.

At the end of the day, you will find that both loving and being loved are lucky. Throughout our lives, there is not much love we really encounter.

Summary. Dear, I have some feelings about your question. 1. When he is chatting with others, he will say so-and-so, but what he says is a little related to us.

If it's really about us, I suggest you have less contact with him next time, and you can say anything to our face, but you can't say bad things behind our backs. We don't have deep friendships with such people. 2. Maybe he was talking about another person, we heard it wrong, but we also had to guard against what he said was us.

At this time, we should think about the bits and pieces of our contact with him to see if his character is like this. If we can believe in other people's character, then forget it, but the human heart is not **. Maybe it's a little thing that breaks the relationship between us and him.

Dear, I have some feelings about the question that is higher than yours. 1. When he is chatting with others, he will say so-and-so, but what he says is a little related to us. If it's really about us, I suggest you have less contact with him next time, and you can say anything to our face, but you can't say bad things behind our backs.

We have few friends with such people. 2. Maybe he was talking about another person, we heard it wrong, but we also had to guard against what he said was us. When we read the worm, we should think about the bits and pieces of our contact with him, and see if his character is like this.

If we can believe in other people's character, then forget it, but the human heart is not **. Maybe it's a little thing that breaks the relationship between us and him.

For such a thing, we can ask him face to face. Otherwise, what should we do if we are wronged, it's just a big deal to lose a quiet friend, but we still try to speak calmly, after all, we can't see anyone when we look up.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.