What do you do with gifts from your ex after you break up?

As for how to deal with the gifts given by your ex-boyfriend after a breakup, we often see in film and television dramas that after breaking up with your ex, you will throw away or burn everything they send, or even send it back to your ex directly. If you still keep the things that your ex-boyfriend sent, you will think that you still have a lot of love left, and you keep the things they sent just to keep a memory.

Actually, I think it's an extreme act to burn or throw away something from your ex-boyfriend. After all, everything has a value for its existence, and those things are given when you are still in love with each other, and they are valuable. Regardless of who gave it or what the meaning of that thing represents, the value of the item itself cannot be ignored.

Of course, if you are afraid to avoid your ex-boyfriend and things related to him, you can also give useful things to those who need them, if you don't want to, it may mean that you can't completely let go of his feelings, so it's not a good way to destroy them. If it is something more valuable, and you really don't want to keep it, you can give it back to others, after all, it was bought by others with money. It is better to destroy the tower than to let him play his due value in others.

Even if the ex-boyfriend is at fault, there is nothing wrong with what the ex-boyfriend sent.

The reason why you want to throw away or destroy those things is nothing more than the fear of touching the situation, and that is because you have not completely let go of your feelings for your ex, so even without these things, you will be sentimental. Don't blindly follow and worship the plot of the idol drama, even if you break up, you are still a former lover, no matter how you want to erase him from your past life, it will leave a mark. Leaving the things sent by your ex-boyfriend does not mean that you are reluctant to give up these things or your ex-boyfriend, and after a few years, when you see these things again, you will inevitably have a different mood and feelings.

I lost them all in another city, knowing that I wouldn't forget them so easily, so I wouldn't keep the things he gave me anymore, let myself think about them, and let myself remember the happy and painful days every time I saw them.

In the few years I was with him, he didn't give me any gifts, at the beginning we were all students, and my parents needed to provide living expenses, and I never expected him to give me any gifts. Later, after graduating and starting to work, he almost didn't say anything, and even one year on Valentine's Day, we passed by a flower shop, and he directly said "I won't buy flowers for you, no money, it's too wasteful", hearing him say this, I sneered twice in my heart, still pretending not to care, and walked over.

Perhaps, all along, I have not been as important as I think in his heart, and I can buy gifts with my own money, but what I want is his attitude, and even he can't give me this. Now that I think about it, it seems that I have received a total of three gifts from him, one is a bouquet of flowers he gave me when the quarrel is very fierce, another is an external keyboard, and the other is glasses. These three things are all the things he's given me in the last five years.

At that time, I didn't think so, naively thinking that as long as he loved me, it didn't matter if I gave something or not, but now I feel that what he loves should always be himself.

Later, I left the city where I was with him, and the flowers had already withered, maybe the flowers were not a gift at all, and I didn't take the two gifts with me, because I was afraid that seeing them would evoke my memories and recall the aggrieved and sad days I had had. A friend broke up and packed up several boxes of things from his ex-boyfriend, and at that time, looking at the two lonely things in front of him, he was very chilled for a moment.

Stay, just make a memorial, if you really let go of your heart, these will not be so dazzling, if you feel uncomfortable, you can put it away first, even if you break up, the previous love is also there.

If you both break up peacefully, you can put these things in a corner first, after all, they are commemorative things. But if you don't spend me counting, then throw away what you can.

There are too many, except for a few things that have special meaning, and basically all of them are disposed of. Everyone is gone, why do you still have things? Do you want to make yourself sadder?

Fall, throw away, burn Let him have me in every one he loves.

Don't even look at the direct trash can.

This situation is normal, after all, it is someone who has loved each other, even if you break up, there is no need to make a fuss, you can tell him what you think, if he still wants to accept it, then you can also return his things to him, after all, you have broken up, there is no need to worry about these problems, if he refuses, then don't worry about him, after all, everyone has their own privacy, it is impossible to say that after the breakup, you have to bring back each other's things, so it's too stingy, you don't have to take it too seriously.

There are some people who keep gifts from their exes just because they don't want to waste them. Because these gifts are very valuable, it can be a pity to throw them away, so many people choose to keep them. If you have started a relationship again, you can also choose to give these things to others.

In doing so, it is also a kind of respect for the incumbent, and at the same time, it will not cause contradictions with the incumbent. <>

I believe that many people will receive gifts from their boyfriends during their relationship, which will also make everyone very happy at this time. But when the two broke up, what to do with these gifts also became a doubt in everyone's hearts. If you throw away gifts, it can be very wasteful, and it will also cause pollution to the environment.

If you leave the gift, it may also let everyone see things and think about people, and it will also affect everyone's mood at this time. Some people keep gifts from their exes not because they are stupid, but because they know how to conserve resources. <>

If you can choose to return the gift to your ex after breaking up with your ex, it will not cause waste and will not make everyone entangled. You can also choose to give gifts to your friends, which can also make your friends very happy at this time. Especially after everyone starts a new relationship, they still keep the gifts from their ex, which may also make the current one very angry.

At the same time, it will also make the current incumbent feel that everyone does not respect them, and even cause a lot of conflicts. Therefore, after the breakup, everyone must learn to say goodbye to all the things in the past. <>

Although the two people are very sweet during the relationship, they will not have much contact after the breakup. At this time, keeping the gift from the other party may also affect your own judgment. There are also people who don't want to lose these gifts because they haven't forgotten the relationship.

But after the breakup, everyone should also try to start a new life. Although the last relationship was very sweet, everyone did not come together by fate, and at this time we must learn to let go of ourselves.

I don't think it's stupid, it's a nostalgic way to remember the past, it's a reminder to keep getting better, and it's also a sign of respect for the other person.

I think this practice is very silly, since the breakup, then the gift can also be thrown away, out of sight is clean, there is no need to keep his things.

It's not a particularly stupid behavior, but an experience of two people's feelings, and they also want to relieve each other in this way.

I don't think there's any need to find any reason, you can give him a ** to tell the other party that he wants to return the things he once had, and if he doesn't want them, throw them directly into the trash.

Just call your ex and tell him to give him something back, and if he says he doesn't want these things, then just throw them in the trash.

You can tell each other that since two people are separated, they can't take advantage of each other, and the gift should be returned.

If you want to deal with the gift given to you by your ex after the breakup, you can return it to him directly, and if he doesn't want to meet, he can directly express it to the other party.