Is it my fault that I yearn for marriage? What kind of marriage do you yearn for?

There's nothing wrong with that.

It's just that if you go to a boyfriend with such thoughts, it's hard to find the right one, and not only will you spend useless thoughts, but you will also waste a lot of time.

I say this because, in my opinion, the purpose of your search for a marriage partner is to be aroused by the happiness of the people around you and the desire to repentance for your past boyfriend, which is in stark contrast to your current self, so that your inner loneliness and hidden dissatisfaction with life are induced and exaggerated, and you begin to want to be loved by someone you rely on.

Or in other words, the purpose of your partner is more to fill your current emptiness and all the places where you feel unsatisfied, in your opinion, the arrival of your partner seems to mean that these problems are solved, or it can be said that the need for a partner is a kind of self-fantasy placebo for the pursuit of a good life, and you also unconsciously feel that you will get these things when you enter marriage, so you take marriage as a goal, but in fact, what you hope for is not marriage, but the kind of beauty in the "fairy tale" story.

This can be seen from the fact that you have already begun to demand the qualities of your partner.

This process of conception is like in the green and hazy stage, when we have not even begun to describe our love prospects, and become anxious about their desires, just to get love and fantasize about it.

It's as if you're creating a beautiful intention for your own ordinary life, which you can use to soothe your soul in your spare time, not so much that you yearn for marriage, but that you want to escape from the lackluster state of life at the moment.

Finally, your requirements are not demanding.

I know a 26-year-old mm who, like you, is desperate to find a male partner and demands more than you.

There are a lot of people chasing her, and compared to her requirements, all of them are beyond them, but she doesn't even like them, she doesn't even have the desire to be friends with them, she even tried to ask for marriage on the Internet, but it is difficult to find a destined person, no matter what kind of desire she desires, no feeling is no feeling.

Like you, the condition is just to make your partner more concrete, not really, such a person is enough to make a promise without thinking.

My advice to you is, when you meet something you feel and try to do it, and if you don't meet it, focus on your career.

Don't lose your career when you regret your feelings, the emotional thing is indeed a matter of fate.

I'm a little boy. I think it's human nature to answer this question, because when people reach a certain age, they have a kind of yearning. But don't be in a hurry, life events can't be child's play.

Such a request is quite normal, I am also a girl, every woman will yearn for marriage, but I hope you don't get married because you yearn for marriage, so you will regret it in the future, who everyone will be with is doomed, it's just that you haven't met that person yet, keep your eyes open, you will find a good man,

In fact, 24 years old is very young, not too demanding, but those who meet the conditions seem to have someone - - about the relationship may really not be able to consume, maybe the previous relationship you think is right or wrong or good in the past, just as a memory, the word fate is not credible, sometimes you still need to fight for yourself, you say you have to have a car and a house, say that your conditions are not good, why not try to share the burden but the man has the conditions, you don't spend your boyfriend's money But in the future, your family should not be so clear Why should the house and car be so clear about the idea of getting married, just find the right one to be responsible for your children

As soon as I say this, you can listen to my thoughts.

1。I have money, I am a very emotional person, and when I see your request, I don't consider 100 of them, because I don't want the closest people around me to be gone when I don't have money. That's what you're asking for.

2。I'm rich, I'm a hearty person, I saw your request, I already had it, and I wanted to find you to get along with it, just forget it if it's not suitable. I don't really care about things in the first place. Withdraw as soon as you reach the pass, trouble!

3。I don't have any money, but I have self-motivated people, and when I see your request, I am confident that I can do it, but I am not interested in doing it for you! I'm also worried that you will refuse! Why bother to suffer for yourself?

It is still recommended that you let go of the standards in your heart and contact everyone with a normal mentality, until you feel that this man is good and worthy of your reliance. If you marry someone, you don't marry a house, a car, or something, although your standard is very good, but you don't have the confidence that you will work together to create a better material life than your ideal standard in the future? Now it's not the old society, there's nothing shabby anymore.

You can try to meet some strange men, I think it's very popular to find them online now, but... But.. Definitely want to go to that kind of formal dating**, I don't know if you have watched TV, the Hunan Satellite TV's "Let's Date" column and the Jiangsu TV's "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" column, many of which are known through a**.

Recommend a "Century Jiayuan" network is really good, you can try to register a user, maybe your fate comes through this way. I wish you the happiness that belongs to you soon!

I think it's my imaginary marriage. Because the two of them get along very harmoniously together, and they are also very happy. Although they are usually busy with their own work, they get along very well when they get along together.

If you want to have a happy marriage, you need to do these 4 things well.

1. Travel with each other.

After getting married, two people must have the experience of traveling together, which can keep the freshness of love and allow both parties to love each other all the time. After all, married life is very boring, and without these adjustments, it is easy for you to not feel that the other party still cares about you, and even the feeling of companionship is lost. At such a moment, who can say that they are happy, only if the husband and wife know how to maintain the freshness of love in marriage, can two people be happy enough.

2. Find a common purpose in life with each other.

It is very important for couples to have the same goal, so that the efforts of two people can go in the same direction, and the more they work, the more they can get the happiness they want.

If you don't find a common goal with the other person, then both parties will only drift further and further apart and feel alienated from the relationship. This is a very terrible state in marriage, which can make the relationship between two people colder, and it is getting colder and colder. How many couples maintain this marriage relationship because of their children.

If you don't have children, you may have divorced a long time ago, and this is precisely because of the tragedy caused by the inconsistency of life goals.

3. Show care and love.

Caring for each other through actions is much more useful than saying nice things in your mouth, many people just don't understand this, and even more so, sweet words are saved.

If you really want your marriage to be happy, then you must pay attention to your own methods of managing your marriage. Caring for and loving your partner should be shown through behavior, so that the other person can feel your love and will naturally reciprocate. If neither of the husband and wife cares about the other and does not like to express it, then do you say that there is love between the two parties or no love?

4. Confess your experience to the other party.

It is very important to be honest with each other, no matter what happens to you, you must tell each other positively, if you hide it, then it is easy to have a crisis.

Tell each other about your past love history, the happiness and unhappiness you experience every day, and the new opposite sex you have met. If your emotions, your experiences, are kept in your heart, then you will only lose the sense of trust between the couple. Maintaining a sense of trust is an important way to manage the relationship between husband and wife, and only when you do this well can you be happy.

The married life that <> yearns for should be a strong alliance between two people, each of whom is very good, and it should be the icing on the cake when combined.

The two people who are rich in the spiritual world are together, learn from each other's strengths, improve each other, provide each other with nutrients, and work hard to grow together.

In addition, I also hope that two people can communicate well when they encounter things in their married life, understand and tolerate each other, and respect each other.

Most people's marriages are actually firewood, rice, oil and salt, chickens and dogs, if two people can live an ordinary and trivial marriage into a poem, it is a very enviable marriage.

1. When I am injured, I can have someone who can rush to my side as soon as possible.

There are many things that we cannot predict, and bad luck or luck are not beyond our control. Sometimes when we are hurt or have a setback, we should talk to the people closest to us, but when our parents are old, we don't want them to continue to worry about us.

At this time, I want to have someone around me who can rush to my side as soon as I am injured when I am injured.

2. The desire to find one's own home.

In fact, our desire for marriage is to have a home and a home of our own. We look forward to relying on us when we are tired, comforting us when we are sad, sharing when we are joyful, where we have one of the lights of ten thousand homes waiting for us, and the hot soup that comes home late for you.

No matter how many grievances there are in the outside world, no matter how much wind, frost, rain and snow have been experienced in the outside world, I only wish that there would be a place to take me in, and only that one person would embrace me. When tears and laughter can be poured on a willing shoulder, then it is happy and lucky.

3. I want to have someone who can understand me.

In life, only husband and wife have such a tacit understanding: the hard work and helplessness of fighting outside, if someone can share it with you, you will not be lonely and helpless; And the trivialities of housework, with your understanding and care, naturally will not feel hard.

This is one of the reasons why I yearn for marriage. Life in the world, it is not a simple thing to have your own confidant, husband and wife are the same forest birds, supporting each other, understanding each other, is a touch of temperature in the world, so I hope to be able to have.

Yes, I never thought about being lonely until I was old, and I never wanted to be unmarried all my life, so I yearn for the love of choosing a person for the rest of my life, even if love becomes family affection in the end, I feel that love is an indispensable thing in life when I am young, at that time, I take love very seriously, I mind the feeling of heartbeat, I mind love, so I have always longed for him to be able to grow old together in ignorance, from school uniforms to wedding dresses is the love I have always longed for, but it may be that I am getting older, I have seen more and heard more, I understand more and more what life is, so at this time, the cautious answer to love is not only heart-pounding, but also cowardly.

But many people sometimes, they may get love and marriage wrong, many people always say, I want to marry the person I love, I want to marry the person I love, but many times you will find that the person you love may not be suitable for you, and the person who is suitable for you, you may not be so deeply in love, so I think marriage and love, it is best not to be confused.

Marrying the right person, I think there will be a lot less contradictions, but marrying love may have a long run-in period.

But love and marriage still have a choice, but the most desirable love and marriage is the same person, from the beginning of the encounter and acquaintance, to the bland after the baptism of the years, there is no tired of each other, there is no vigorous, but when you are together, there will be that heart-pounding feeling, in the long years of companionship, even if the two are white, it is you who make him laugh again, I think this is the love that most people yearn for. Lift the bend.