Is it acceptable to someone you don t like?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    They all don't like him anymore, doesn't accepting him belittle their own self-esteem and pride?

    When you say don't like it, you don't want to be with him, right? Since you don't want to be with him, don't give him the illusion that "we still have a chance", otherwise you will all be hurt to varying degrees in the end.

    If you say that he doesn't like him, he is a colleague, and the hater must have something to hate, if he has to be relative because of work, just maintain the most basic way of getting along, and for those who don't like it, there is no need to have too much etiquette.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on the situation, if he is very good to you, and likes you very much, and the conditions are excellent in all aspects, I think you should give him a chance, and at the same time give yourself a chance, maybe after further getting along you will find that you have liked him!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, love is cultivated later. As long as he has knowledge, ability, good character and quality!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not accepted. Don't do anything you regret!

    Find someone you love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't accept it if you don't want to hurt him.

    Because then you will be separated one day.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Really can't, don't force it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    No. Unless you're taking advantage of him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This still needs to be asked. Of course not.

    But if he doesn't have money and doesn't hate it, he can make an exception.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think feelings can be cultivated, but it's not that you have to wronged yourself and the future, but if you don't hate it, you can try to contact and understand more, although some people are also married first and then fall in love, but that's extremely lucky, most of the time we still have to have a certain emotional foundation, as for physical contact is slowly and gradually, and when there is a feeling, it is slowly possible to accept, now is to open your heart, don't think about your ex anymore, give yourself a chance, and age is not a reason to imprison us.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since your first impression of him is that you don't like it, there will be various problems after accepting it, which will affect the relationship between two people, and it will not be good for each other, so it is better to think about it carefully.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's possible, and it's very likely. In the past, there were many couples who didn't have any feelings for each other at first, and some still felt that each other was very annoying, but after living together for a long time, they slowly established a relationship, and later their relationship was very good.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Change can be changed, but it's harder because you have formed an inherent impression of this dislike of him, and you want to change this inherent impression. It takes a lot of change and perseverance to do that.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Touching and love are two different things, you have to figure this out in advance, and then choose, it is not easy to love someone for a lifetime, and it is not easy to have a good impression of someone, so my advice is to follow your heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Find a good person and get married! But how innocent he is, without you, he can have a perfect love, instead of becoming someone else's second-best place. Two people can fall in love for a long time, provided that you don't dislike him, even if you don't have a good feeling, it doesn't matter, but now it's different, you start to dislike him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's possible, don't talk about what will not be done, you should be friends for a while, and make it clear to him that you understand for a while, if you feel that two people are suitable, they will be together, and if they are not suitable, they will not be together, just like you said that you and your ex are impossible, you always have to look forward.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your heart is still with your ex, you won't like anyone, no matter how good that person is to you, his kindness to you will only become a burden or guilt for you, and you won't like him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello, it won't turn into liking, because you don't like the other person, then trying to accept it is also forcing yourself, and you may also reject the other person.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, you don't like them, the two of them get along for a long time, and after a long time, they will slowly like him and fall in love with him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's hard, it's really hard, don't settle, it's going to be the end of this life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This should be adjusted according to your own situation, and others can't help you much.

    Theoretically, it is possible to cultivate feelings slowly, as long as it is not annoying, it is always acceptable.

    However, you said in the title that you can't accept physical intimacy, and this may really affect your relationship.

    Feelings can be cultivated slowly, but the body will not lie, if you can't accept it, I advise you to cut through the mess quickly to avoid embarrassment for everyone!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Don't settle for now, because it will lead to a day when you won't go down, there are many reasons why you don't like a person, don't care how good his own conditions are, don't like it is not like, you can't let go of your ex is the main reason why you don't like him or even like others, the root cause is that you can't let go, you already know that the result is impossible to be together, you have to adjust yourself, 32 years old is indeed not small for women, but you have to go longer in the future, don't blindly marry for the sake of marriage. It's not easy to meet someone who likes you and likes him, you just met someone you like, and someone who likes you, and you didn't meet someone who likes each other, don't be blind, don't like it is not like, it's very man's conditions have nothing to do with it, because that doesn't belong to you, I wish you to find your favorite person as soon as possible.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's okay, and he respects me too.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I always want to find someone who likes me, and it doesn't matter if I like each other or not.

    You can try to accept it, if you don't want it in your heart, then say it as soon as possible, life is so short, why not live your life according to your own will.

    I wish you happiness. <>

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Hello, beauty, no matter what the conditions, of course, you shouldn't accept a person you don't like, so that two people are not happy together, and they also delay each other, and they delay themselves, you must choose what you like in terms of love, and the other party can also like yourself, so that two people can really be together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You shouldn't accept it, because you don't like that person yourself, why should you accept it, a marriage without love will never be happy.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Of course not. Because feelings can't be forced, it's impossible to be happy with someone you don't like. Some may just hurt each other. So it's better to give up this relationship as soon as possible.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    No, the road of life can be lonely, but don't go reluctantly, if you don't love others, you will ignore a lot of details, you can't see the good of the other party, like or dislike is the most reflected in the other party is in difficulty, you may not be able to do long-term companionship, because you don't like it, so it's easier to feel self-oriented.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I can't accept it, being with someone I don't like will only backfire and make my life more and more uncomfortable.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    This kind of thing must be analyzed in detail.

    The first is that the other party likes you, but you are not familiar with him, in this case, you should give the other party leniently and give yourself a chance to get to know each other.

    Secondly, you like each other, but the other party may not like you very much, so you should also give yourself and the other party a chance to get acquainted with each other, in case you are a good match!

    Third, if the other party likes you, but you confirm that you don't like each other, then you must make it clear in time, refuse to be alone, and let the other party understand that you are not suitable for each other through a third party, but don't insult each other's enthusiasm, after all, it's okay to be friends if you can't be lovers.

    Fourth, if you like the other person, but the other party confirms that he doesn't like you, then you have to work harder, but there must be a limit to your efforts, you can disturb his life but don't disturb his work, and seriously try to talk about a love that makes you feel good, even if you don't succeed, there will be no regrets in life.

    In short, in the face of a person you don't like, don't easily reject the other party, give yourself a chance, and give the other party decency!

    FYI!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It stands to reason that it shouldn't be, because if you know you don't like it and accept it, you will be considered to be used or scum, but I think everything should be looked at from both sides, from your point of view, do you hate him very much? Still not disgusted with a little bit of good feelings but not to the extent of liking, let's talk about it from this level (because if you hate it then directly refuse, this is as it should be), you should know that there will be a long-term love, if the other party has a good character, three views, good character, and you have some common language, and can really care about you, you don't hate him, disgust him, then why not learn from friends first, girls don't just look at appearance, can really care about you is the best.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You have to think about it, it doesn't matter if you're in love, you can do it if you want to, you don't want to do it, if it's a marriage, then you have to be cautious, this is a decision that can change the trajectory of your life, and there is absolutely no regret medicine to take.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Why do you want to accept him? Lonely or do you need his help? Accepting someone you don't love is not only disrespectful to yourself, but also a deception to the other party, and it will be ugly to break up in the future.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It must not be, don't accept him if you don't like him, you should tell him, tell others what you think, and let people give up on you like this.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    A relationship has to go both ways to have a perfect ending, you can try to contact the other party first, see what you really think in your heart, don't wronged yourself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I don't think you should accept someone you don't like, if you really don't like him, if you want to deal with someone else, you won't be happy every day.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The first thing you need to ask yourself is: What do you care most about in a relationship?

    Figure out what you need, and your questions will be solved.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It is unacceptable that a person's life is very precious, and he cannot swallow his anger like this.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    It shouldn't be more painful the longer it is for both parties.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Summary. 1. Accept the facts.

    Once you accept the fact that you won't like everyone and everyone won't like you because of differences in values, your emotions will become extraordinarily calm, and you can even get along better with people you don't like by accepting differences.

    2. Do not ignore, do not abandon, and tolerate.

    You may be afraid of someone's constant criticism and disgusted with their bad jokes to the point of gnashing your teeth, but disliking people is not the worst thing.

    3. Be polite.

    No matter how you feel about someone, they will be highly consistent with your attitude, behavior, and feedback to you as it is. If you are not inferior to them, they will surely repay you with rudeness. Therefore, the responsibility is on you, always be fair and impartial, and calm and calm.

    How would you treat someone you don't like?

    1. Accept the factsOnce you accept the fact that you won't like everyone and everyone won't like you due to differences in values, your emotions will become extraordinarily calm, and you can even get along better with people you don't like by accepting differences. 2. Don't ignore, don't dismiss, tolerate that you may be afraid of someone's constant criticism, disgusted with his bad jokes to the point of gritting your teeth, but disliking others is not the worst thing. 3. Be polite to each otherNo matter how you feel about someone, he will be highly consistent with your attitude and behavior, and give you feedback as it is.

    If you are not inferior to them, they will surely repay you with rudeness. Therefore, the responsibility is on you, always be fair and impartial, and calm and calm.

    4. Turn inward and focus on yourselfNo matter how hard you try, some people will still annoy you. So, when someone annoys you, learn to deal with your emotions. Don't think about how angry that person is, focus on how you react.

    Sometimes, it's often the way we don't like ourselves and we hate others. 5. Express your own needsIf some people keep you off, you can calmly tell them that their behavior and communication style are a problem for you. Then you may find that the other person doesn't realize you're not done yet, or that your colleague is so excited about your idea that they can't wait to break into your conversation.

    6. Keep your distanceIf all the above efforts fail, smart people allow themselves to keep their distance from people they don't like. Find an excuse to leave and continue your path. If you're at work, move to another office or sit at the other end of the conference table.

    With a little distance, angle, and compassion, you may soon come back and interact with people you don't like, as if you weren't distressed.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    One. I can get married to someone I don't like, first of all I think it's a matter of how you choose, you can choose to follow the idea of most people and not accept it. Or maybe you take a small number of people, under the polish of life, over time, gradually change the minds of their youth.

    I also had a time when I was young, when I was young, everyone wanted to rebel and didn't want to listen to the wishes of my parents, but often, the so-called blind date introduced by my parents is someone you don't like, in fact, it's not that you don't like it, but because you are rebellious and hate the choices your parents make for you, so start with this matter. It negates the process, and thinks about the result in advance, so that the things you don't like about this person spread in your mind, resulting in fear or hate when you hear about the blind date. That's my first point.

    Is it acceptable that you are in love and marry someone you don't like at the time or don't know if you have feelings? This problem is very different, which is also one of the possibilities of his existence in this problem. If that's all there is to it, then we should be in a second state of mind, before getting married and in love, we don't know the strengths and weaknesses of the other person, that is, we deny it before we recognize his inner being, which is a very rude state.

    But if you find out when you come into contact with him slowly. He's not bad. And the standard that he's not bad about is that he has exceeded your own expectations.

    After slowly getting in touch, I found that he was a person worthy of trust, so in this way, this problem was naturally solved.

    Three. I want to state that before falling in love or getting married, you hate him, or you don't hate him or don't like it, to put it bluntly, you don't feel it, which is the premise of this question. However, the follow-up is that you are forced by all kinds of pressure to date him or get married, and the moment you are sure to fall in love with him, I am sure that he slowly begins to shine in your eyes.

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