If you are stalked, how do you get rid of it?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Deal with this kind of person, anyway, you and Heqi have a good talk with him, salute first and then soldier, if the talk doesn't work, don't pay attention to him. He is pestering you, and you should also keep a little distance from you, and don't be soft-hearted. Don't be polite when you speak, but don't scold or anything like that, or it's not good to provoke him.

    Since he said that he would wait for you, you said to him:"Okay, just wait, you love me, it's your business, love you or not, it's my business, I can't stop you from not loving me, but I have the right not to love you, so please don't interfere with my life, ok?Thank you so much for your love for me!

    But I also already have a boyfriend, please give your love to the person who loves you, you really don't deserve it for me. Then he said something to bless him, and then comforted him by saying that since we can't be lovers, we can be friends. Ordinary people will accept your statement, but there are also some people who just don't leave, some eat soft, some eat hard, see which set he eats, just give him which set, since he has already come to your house, you can talk to him outside, ask him not to visit and harass your family, if he dares to be bad to your family, you will never accept him or anything like that, you can also say that your feelings can be handled by yourself, you don't have to go to your house to find you, these things have nothing to do with your family, please don't go to your house again.

    By the way, you don't deliberately find a fake boyfriend, let him know, know that you are deliberately avoiding him, and he will not give up on you.

    Hehe, the above are my personal ways to deal with it, but let me deal with such things personally, I can still solve it, I don't know if the above can help you, if you still have anything unclear, you can send me a message, I hope I can help you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If he is kind, then it is easy to do, and you can cry in front of him and beg him to stop pestering you. If it's a scoundrel, it's even better, if you can beat it, you can fight, and if you can't beat it, you can run.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Oh, my God. He has no self-esteem! Hopelessly.

    Call the police.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If your boyfriend is very kind, go find a friend (a man) and go with you and tell him that you want that friend to get married, and if he is a scoundrel, call someone to beat him up or call the police.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Is it? What kind of people do you have?? I haven't seen it, I don't know.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    After a breakup, is there still a chance to salvage the situation? If you want to win her back, you must first retreat to ordinary friends!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Share it with everyone who has just broken up or is on the verge of breaking up.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think this kind of person will definitely be able to be replaced after the stalking.,It must be.,Well, it's a person with a short temper.,He'll regret it after he's over.,This kind of person is generally an elephant.,It's okay after a raiser.,It's definitely irretrievable.。

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    General feelings, after you stalk and fight, others will be very disgusted, as if they didn't know you before, so if you want to save it when you encounter this situation, it's really troublesome, because the wound has been produced in other people's minds, and you want to heal it, it's really special and difficult, I think it's normal, and anyone in this world can live without it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Why do you have to stalk when you can't be together, don't cherish it when you're together, don't stalk when you break up, have a little dignity, get together and disperse is the best choice, even if you stalk people are soft on you temporarily, and you don't treat people well at that time, you will still be separated at that time, why bother, divide it. Don't dwell on it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If it's a stalker, there's no way to get it back in the future, so you'll definitely feel very happy when you're with him, so try not to use the stalker.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Basically, there is no drama, you not only lose love, but even the last dignity.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think so, if you stalk it, it will only make people more disgusted and annoying.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There are two kinds of suitors who will stalk, one is that they really like you very much, so they keep pestering you. There is also a bit of a psychological illness. They think you're his, so they've been pestering you.

    The first one can cause a lot of distress in your life, and the second can even cause some damage to your psyche.

    For the first type of stalker suitor, you must be very firm to say "no", as long as you give them a little hope or opportunity, they will be endlessly entangled with you, they will feel that it is only a matter of time before you accept them, they will not realize that your rejection is not because they don't like it, they will only feel that you are holding and hanging them. As long as they work hard enough, they can touch you, and eventually you will be together.

    For the second type, it is also necessary to refuse, but do not speak too fiercely, many times the stalker suitor is easy to become angry, from love to hate, will cause some harm to your person, and threaten your person. While refusing, you must protect yourself and try not to meet two people alone, because you don't know what the other person thinks in their hearts and what they are going to do to you.

    In fact, I want to say to those stalker pursuits, there is nothing wrong with liking a person, but don't let others bother because you like others, make each other feel uncomfortable, so that both people will be hurt, I know that real love is not willing to be only friends Li Zhiyuan, but, love starts from being friends, don't let the other party feel uncomfortable, if it affects others because of your like, such a like is selfish, and the other party clearly says that he doesn't like you, I hope you don't get too much pestering and then stop in moderation. Let yourself go and let go of others.

    I once read a news "In the university library, there is a girl reading a book, the boy thinks, the girl likes him, so he has been pestering the girl to WeChat, thinking that the girl is here to follow him together, the girl wants to chase him, but he is embarrassed to say, so let him say" This is the man's statement after the girl called the police, but the girl just came out of the library to borrow a book, and the boy didn't know him at all, and didn't even notice the boy's existence, The boy doesn't say that people like him, and then follows the girl all the time, asking the girl to add his WeChat, which can be regarded as the second kind of stalker we define, they are selfish and self-interested. Thinking about yourself is always yourself, to let others identify with you, if the girl in the article did not choose to call the police, she chose to ignore the boy and walk out of the store. Boys follow girls, and this news may be a different ending.

    Therefore, for what you don't like, whether it is a person or a thing, you must be very decisive, brave and firm to say "no, you don't like it, you don't want to do it, you don't want to". Let everyone know what you think, so that you can avoid things that are harmful to yourself to the greatest extent.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you want to get rid of the man who stalks you, it's actually very simple, there are many ways and means to defeat the banquet, for example, you can directly explain your attitude towards Shanla, but the attitude and position must be firm, let him understand that it is impossible between you, and let him completely die of this heart.

    You can also be indifferent to him and ignore him, so that he will slowly lose the power of his pursuit of you, so he will not be stalking you, and he must be so resolute in terms of feelings, and he can't waver, and this kind of vacillation is an act that harms others and himself.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hurry up and find someone else to marry.

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