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First of all, it depends on what they say, if it's just general, it's nothing, which means that you are beautiful; If you say no, you will turn your face on the spot, and absolutely no one will dare to say it in the future.
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Go your own way and let others do the talking! You're not wrong!
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Don't be so suspicious, they (she) may also be talking about your good, don't you just see it, now the times are different, and no one doesn't know. It's okay, I'll forget it in a few days. Some things aren't like that, depending on what you think.
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Let them say, men are like that, there's nothing to mind.
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Go your own way and let others say go! Ignore them!
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You can be proud of it.
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Ignore them, anyway, men will always talk about women in their free time, and they won't talk about it after a long time.
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Ignore it! What an era.
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Men are envious, and women are jealous.
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When you hear it, tell them face to face, it's inevitable that people will be embarrassed.
For example: Can you stop talking about it, people are embarrassed, and you are not careful.
After all, you're a girl, so it's not too much to say, and they understand.
There is no need to break the relationship, after all, they are friends and colleagues, what is wrong with everyone getting along well, not to mention that they have not done anything wrong in this matter.
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You're angry, ......
Say you, I'll tell you about your wife and girlfriend, or change jobs.
This kind of thing is very much about the reputation of girls.。。
Reputation is more important than jobs.
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Don't worry too much, if it's your own bad work, just correct it, if it's not your own problem, then don't let others affect you.
Be sure to remember:
1.Calmly analyze the reasons.
If we encounter a situation where others say bad things about us behind our backs, we should not react too violently, but first analyze the reasons to see if we have offended this person before, or if our performance is too eye-catching and jealous, and then get along with each other.
2.Coping with a normal state of mind.
In the face of being framed by others, we should respond with the right attitude to others saying bad things behind our backs, not too sensitive, but should be lenient and rational in response, and be generous, which will make some rumors become unmarketable, and the more intense the reaction, the more unfavorable.
3.If you don't make trouble, you will suppress yourself.
If someone says something nasty about us behind our backs, or spreads some gossip about us, we should try to restrain ourselves, but we should not sit idly by, and if the other person goes too far, we must also refute it.
4.Can't afford to hide.
Another point is that if we really had a holiday with this person before, the so-called grievances should not be settled, so if we don't want to further intensify the conflict with him, then we can choose to stay away from them and try not to deal with them.
5.Stand up to criticism.
If the other party has bad intentions, we should not be like them, as long as we do our best, I believe that the eyes of the masses are bright, and we will not be affected by the criticism of the villain, and good people will have their own good rewards.
6.Don't tolerate it unprincipledly.
If others are too ruthless in doing things, or they make a lot of trouble out of nothing, and often talk about people behind their backs, we should stop this kind of behavior in time, not encourage their atmosphere, and cannot tolerate their practices.
7.Fight back at the right time.
If the other party has bad intentions, we should take countermeasures in time, whether it is a tooth for a tooth, or a proper counterattack, in short, we can't let the other party be too arrogant.
All in all, the premise of everything should be to protect yourself and not let yourself get hurt, whether mentally or physically.
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Summary. First of all, I would like to tell you that this feeling may be due to the fact that you are upset about your performance or appearance, causing you to be overly sensitive to what others are saying. Secondly, your guess could also be because you have a misunderstanding about other people's attitudes and behaviors, which is why you have this guess.
Finally, I advise you to maintain a confident and positive attitude when interacting with others, and not to pay too much attention to other people's evaluations, so that you can get along better with others. At the same time, you can also eliminate the uneasiness of this speculation by communicating more with others and understanding what they really think.
First of all, I would like to tell you that this feeling may be due to the fact that you are uneasy about your performance or appearance, which has caused you to be overly sensitive to the evaluation of other stools. Secondly, your guess could also be because you have a misunderstanding about other people's attitudes and behaviors, which is why you have this guess. Finally, I recommend that you maintain a confident and positive attitude when interacting with others, and do not pay too much attention to what others say, so that you can get along with others better.
At the same time, you can also eliminate the uneasiness of this speculation by communicating more with others and understanding their true thoughts.
Why do you always feel like someone else is labeling you?
Because, you're too sensitive!! Dear, be confident, don't care too much about other people's opinions!
I always feel like others are laughing at me.
Feel like I don't speak.
Think I'm stupid.
Dear, Pai Gao, you are too sensitive, thinking too much! In fact, it's just that you don't speak, so that everyone thinks that you don't fit in well and don't have much opinion of you, so you have to change yourself, be bold, lively, and integrate into their circle.
I have my own circle.
That's right, then it's okay to get along with friends in your own circle, as for outsiders, it doesn't matter what he thinks I'm happy.
<> dear, don't be too sad, each of us can't make others like themselves, this is normal, there is no need to worry too much about this, as long as we feel that there is no problem with our own behavior, and we have a clear conscience, then whatever others say, what can we do! It's good to be happy, whatever, if you can't get used to it, you'll be angry.
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Extended information: This may be because you feel a lack of self-confidence or are overly sensitive to other people's perceptions, and you are susceptible to external influences. It could also be that you don't have enough confidence in your performance, so it's easy to feel that others are judging you.
If this happens often, it's a good idea to think about whether your attitude and behaviour are disruptive and cause people to talk about, and try to improve your performance and boost your self-confidence. At the same time, you must also learn to face possible criticism and discussions, and stay calm and confident.
Why do you always feel like someone else is labeling you?
Because I can't understand your specific situation and feelings. But if you always feel that others are labeling you as a good relative, it may be because you feel that you have received some fixed and unfair evaluations, which may come from your appearance, personality, gender, race, religious beliefs, etc. This feeling may make you feel discriminated against and pressured by others, making you feel uncomfortable and uneasy.
If this is the case for you, it is advisable to seek the help of a professional, such as a psychologist or counselor, who can help you with this stress and discomfort. At the same time, you can also communicate with the people around you, so that they can understand your real thoughts and feelings, and may get more understanding and support.
I always feel like others are laughing at me.
Feel like I don't speak.
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No one says behind anyone's back, don't take it too seriously! It's better to be optimistic! There's nothing you can't get by, find something to express your feelings, and don't put your mind on distress. Learn to divert attention, learn to be strong! Try to do it well now.
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Go your own way and let others say go! Be the best version of yourself and present the most perfect you. When talking about you, it's not about talking about you, it's about envy.
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It's better to pretend that you don't hear it, and boring people will talk about people behind their backs.
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Take the quiet road of regret and self-repentance, and let others say go and sell the former scum!
Regardless of what others think, live your own life, think crankily all day long, be restless all your life, live a tight life.
The best way: take some neuro-regulating drugs such as vitamin B1 tablets, gamma oryzanol tablets, and tranquilizers and tranquilizers, which can be adjusted after 7-15 days.
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