I really don t want to live anymore, aggrieved, lonely What should I do

Updated on society 2024-04-08
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Man does not come into the world for anything else, because everyone dies. Since there is no special pursuit, why not be happy? Find a few close friends to go out for a walk.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There is no threshold that cannot be crossed, although I don't know what difficulties you have encountered, but I still have to advise you not to be so pessimistic, there are two sides to everything, don't blindly drill the horns, try to find the other side of the problem.

    I will send you the "Three Laws of Worry-free", hoping to make you clear the clouds and see the light again;

    1》Don't worry about the little things.

    2 >> Anything is a small thing.

    3》In case of a big event, don't worry, refer to Article 2.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What's wrong with you, if no one loves you, I'll love, want to open up, the world is full of love, talk to me if you're bored.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You know, people have to learn to be strong, have you ever watched the American movie "Forrest Gump"? A person with an IQ of only seventy-five was discriminated against and experienced war, but he believed in his life and finally got happiness, remember one sentence, God is fair to everyone, Forrest Gump's mother once said that miracles happen every day, if some days you get true happiness, you will be grateful for the current suffering to create your warmth, God will always be by your side, I will bless you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't be afraid, there is nothing that you can't pass, do more good deeds, and naturally turn evil into good fortune.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The guest asked Master Xiqian. How is liberation? Answer. Who binds you? Asked again. How is the Pure Land? Answer. Who is the dirt of you? Ask again. How is Nirvana? Answer. Who will live and die with you?

    Nam no Avalokiteshvara Bodhisattva Mahasattva!

    Reverently recite Avalokiteshvara. That is, to be free from all foolishness, horror and curse. Great auspiciousness.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The root of human suffering and disappointment is often to care too much about oneself. Only by forgetting oneself and serving the public can we achieve ultimate happiness.

    Like a dew drop under the sun, although it is crystal clear, it is always worried that it will be evaporated and dissipated into nothingness, so it suffers from gains and losses, depression and does not feel happy. In his short life, he is always shrouded in feelings of depression, pain, and disappointment. Why not let yourself be in the middle of the ocean?

    Forget yourself and blend into the sea, no longer a dewdrop, but a part of the vast sea. When the dew melts into the sea, life is sublimated, and the bliss of life is here.

    Paying attention to one's own pain and helplessness all the time is easy for people to lose their happiness and go to extremes. Forget about yourself, pay attention to others, help others, integrate your life into the immeasurable and boundless beings, serve them, be anxious about what others are anxious about, and think about what others think. Instead, you will get real happiness and a sunny life.

    So, when you are depressed and in pain, go and help others and use your own strength to help others solve problems. Care for others, be grateful to others, help others, and magnify "others" to the infinite toiling masses and all sentient beings. You will be amazed to find that your own problems are solved.

    Your own pain is no longer pain. Dissolve ourselves into the world, and each of us will sublimate from the dew to the sea, and life will gain eternal brilliance and brilliant sunshine. All the gloom is gone, and all the pain is gone.

    I think that the morning glow, the dewdrops, and the comet are short-lived, impotent, and miserable, and I think that the sun, the sea, and the universe are splendid, happy, and eternal.

    When you encounter pain, despair, depression, frustration, or helplessness, help others, and after a long time, your own problems will be solved. Some people say that I have nothing and can't help others. I don't want to help people.

    However, when you truly dissolve yourself into the common life, you will find that you are a valuable person. No matter how good you are, there is always someone better than you. No matter how painful you are, there will always be someone who suffers more than you, and there is always someone who is worse off than you.

    As far as you can see, you can always help some people. In the beginning, you can make a plan for yourself to do a few good things every day. Slowly, it became a habit to help others.

    Over time, you will find that you have become sunny and energetic, and you have seen through the things you couldn't see through before, and you have figured out the things you couldn't think of, and the things that made you desperate have become nothing more than that.

    Friend, maybe you're having a hard time. But as long as you give yourself and integrate yourself into the sea. You will discover the meaning and value of life, and you will also get real happiness.

    I wish you happiness.?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    People cannot be resurrected after death, it is better to die than to live, no matter how you die, you will not be happy. Time can't stand still, so there's no need to be sad. A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

    The road of life is very long, and there are many troubles. Adjust your mindset. There is no straight road in life, and there are ups and downs in life.

    Life is immeasurable, and there are countless troubles. A good mood is heaven, and anger is hell, and if you want to be happy, forget the unpleasant, and the unpleasant things are in the past. Don't think about it anymore, it's like a calendar you flip through and don't turn it back.

    Go climb the mountain, see the blue sky, white clouds, listen to **, and dance. Time will dilute everything, and there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed. After the rain, the sky will be clear, and the rainbow will appear.

    As long as you adjust your mentality, everything will be fine.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think no matter how much you say, you may not be able to listen to it, alive, everyone will bear a lot of pain brought by life, some are spiritual suffering, some are physical suffering, some are both physical suffering and spiritual, and most of the time, it is nothing more than loneliness, emptiness, loneliness, lack of love and being loved, as well as material poverty, as well as disease, congenital deficiency, when encountering these situations, most of the time you can only bear it silently, because it is difficult to find someone to empathize!

    Go out for a walk, go to exercise, get out of this emotion, you need to save yourself, to release your negative energy, exercise is the best way, exercise can produce dopamine, when the exercise is over, you will feel much better!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't want to live in this world, but I still have to live strongly, what should I do?

    Hello, it's a pleasure to serve you to have a reason to live. To know who is your concern, who will be sad and who will cry when you are gone. If no one loves you, then you love others, and only being loved and loved is the reason for our existence.

    I'm from here, and time can indeed hurt everything, and it takes far less than you think.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hehe, let's give you an example.

    You see the swan swimming gracefully in the water, how elegant, how leisurely, but do you see the hard work of its feet underwater?

    People are like this, you see that others are doing well, and others still see that you are doing well, and envy you.

    People are always less than the top and more than the bottom.

    So you may not see the efforts put in by others, but only see the enjoyment side.

    Sometimes people are more popular than people, more tired than you, grab a lot of pain, in the eyes of others, pediatrics, you sometimes don't look at the pain.

    The so-called bitterness is sweet, a pay is not necessarily a return, but to believe that nine pays, there will definitely be a return, and the bitterness will not be bitter for a lifetime, it is always a period of time, people, just like that, solve problems when encountered.

    Sometimes if you think too much, your brain will be messed up, change the angle of things, and do them one by one, prioritize, you will find that in fact, no matter how difficult things are, no matter how many things are done, as long as you do it, it will naturally slowly decrease, and slowly find that the original big problem is not a problem.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    At the end of 13 years, the heavy snow has covered my city, and the voice of my own self-questioning in my head has driven me crazy, I don't want to talk to people, let alone meet acquaintances, I can only play games on the Internet every day to exhaust myself to fall asleep. At that time, I hadn't picked up my parents' ** for two months, and at first I was afraid that the fragile heart at that time would hear some sharp reproaches, and then I didn't dare to pick it up. But I'm also afraid that my parents will be overly worried, so I will call my friends at home and say I'm fine, and let my parents know that there is nothing wrong with him through him.

    The money I earned before was spent in two months, and when I only had a few dozen yuan left in my pocket, I began to reduce consumption, and in the last week, I supported 2 steamed buns a day, I remember the feeling at that time, and I wanted to take a bite of everything I saw. When I felt like I was about to die, my friend brought my parents and asked him to help me give me money and came to me and gave it to me. In this way, I have lived 13 years, and I have never returned home, and I still live aimlessly day after day.

    The day before the Lantern Festival, I rushed back in a panic when I received the news, and I cried when I saw that my thin mother was swollen due to illness, and I cried, and my tears couldn't stop flowing. Fortunately, the mother has been ** for a year later. I've also been working for 5 years, because of the nature of my work, I rarely go home every year, I hate this real society, when dealing with people, it shows vividly, oppresses others for their own interests, and promises are just lies.

    But I've met many people like me. Recently, I often have all kinds of pessimistic thoughts that I can't suppress and want to cry. In the past, at least there were games that I could devote myself to, but after 18 years, I didn't even have the heart to play games.

    The emotions of the whole person could not be suppressed in the dark night, and he was confused all day long, and decided to change his life next year, no matter how good or bad the world was, he just wanted his own peace of mind.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's too tiring to live, we're all the same.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Life is an accident.

    Death is an inevitability!

    The process of being alive.

    That's life!

    Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

    I just hope that every step I take is without regrets.

    Life is enough!

    Find the value of your existence while you are alive!

    Make your life a little fuller!

    Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once!

    To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life!

    If you can't find the value of your own existence.

    Just think about yourself.

    Give yourself an account.

    To parents and friends.

    The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her!

    Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

    Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

    The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

    1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself.

    Meaning is working towards one's own goals. Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy.

    On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

    3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Come on, friend!

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