The more people who think they are smart, the stupidest they are, right? 10

Yes, self-righteous people seem to be smart, but in fact they are ignorant, always condescending to others, feeling good about themselves, but in fact they are nothing in the hearts of others, pretending to be lonely.

A truly stupid person, on the contrary, has the following five manifestations of being too clever, and if he does not overcome them, he is likely to cause disaster.

1. Abuse of cleverness.

Some people always feel that they are smarter and better than others, so they often abuse their cleverness, especially their cleverness, but they forget the truth that "there is a heaven outside the sky, and there are people outside the man", and as a result, they often make very stupid mistakes and invite disasters for themselves. Therefore, these overly smart people are actually stupid people.

For example, Yang Xiu during the Three Kingdoms period was indeed very smart in the eyes of ordinary people, and he was smart enough to see through things that others couldn't see, and easily guess what others were thinking. However, he is too smart, he is stupid, so stupid that he doesn't know how to protect himself, blindly abuses his cleverness, and drives himself to a dead end. A person like Yang Xiu, in the eyes of ordinary people, even if he fails, can be regarded as a smart person, but in the eyes of his colleagues, in the eyes of people who understand politics and human nature, they are actually very stupid people.

2. Talk about your pride in front of the frustrated.

Of course, you can talk about the things you are proud of, but you should talk to the people you are proud of, you praise him, he praises you, wouldn't it be happy! However, some people who are overly smart like to talk about their pride to the frustrated, and always feel that by doing so, they have a sense of accomplishment, but in fact, this is a very stupid performance.

Talking about your pride to a frustrated person shows that you are not only blind and uninteresting, but also tantamount to sarcasm and ridicule in disguise, and the impression of others will only become worse, thinking that you are a villain, and may secretly stumble on you, and when you are frustrated, they may beat the water dogs. Is it smart or stupid to do this compared to your little sense of accomplishment, which doesn't mean much? The answer is self-explanatory.

3. Excessively presenting yourself as smarter than others.

People who are too smart often have a problem, that is, they are afraid that others will not know their intelligence, so they always try their best to show that they are smarter than others, which can only show their stupidity in life. In this regard, the famous British politician Sir Chesterfield in the 19th century once advised his son: "You should be smarter than others, but don't show that you are smarter than him."

Indeed, really smart people are always accustomed to cleverly hiding their cleverness, and will not let their cleverness become the best that hurts others, while those stupid people who are too smart are just the opposite, always excessively show that they are smarter than others, and as a result, they often end up with a sad end that everyone hates.

The more people who think they are very smart, it does not necessarily mean that such people are very stupid, although some people think they are too smart, indicating that such people have some arrogance, but it is not excluded that such people themselves do have the objective fact that they are talented, but to measure the quality of a person, it should be all-round, and modesty and prudence are an important virtue of a person, although some people may be gifted and smart in life, but the more in this case, the more modest and cautious they should be, Instead of being complacent, because pride and complacency is the biggest enemy that hinders their growth and progress, people should have a certain amount of self-confidence, but if the self-confidence is excessive, it is not a good thing, and some people should also have a self-knowledge of themselves, do not overestimate their abilities in daily life, as the so-called strong in the strong more strong, to know how to respect others, otherwise excessive arrogance, think that they are very smart, it is difficult to have a good relationship with the people around them, the right way, I personally think that even if I am very smartIn the process of getting along with others, more low-key, modest, so that it is easier to win the favor of others, and from practical point of view, this is also a real wisdom, a real wisdom, real wisdom is not manifested on the surface, real wisdom is actually a state of great wisdom and foolishness, real wisdom is based on a kind of peace in their own hearts, a love for life, On the basis of a kind of self-confidence and relief in their own hearts, they will not deliberately care about others' evaluation of themselves, and truly smart people understand what they need and what direction they should work towards.

No, it's an affirmation that I think I'm smart. Wang Po sells melons.

Self-selling and boasting may have a certain amount of positivity, and the more people who think they are smart, they are actually the stupidest, which is too absolute, and there may be people who are really smart. Some people are blindly confident, which is the stupidest thing. If you think you are smart, you have to speak with strength, and you can't imagine and fabricate out of thin air, because there are two sides to everything.

Everyone should live well, face the world well, look at the people and things around them positively and optimistically, take your time, and meet each other slowly.

It can be said that this is the case in the vast majority of cases, so people should not always be consciously smart, because the so-called smart is mistaken by smart.

This is certainly not absolute, smart people naturally have self-knowledge, and some pretend to be smart, both of which are both, so it's not that you say that he is stupid when he says he is smart.

Nor can it be said in a nutshell. But if you always show your cleverness and let others pay attention to you, you are often just a little smart, and there is no great wisdom.

It's not absolute, some people are indeed smarter, but he is also self-righteous and thinks he is smart.

It's just a feeling, smart people don't care about the long-term gains and losses in front of them, and stupid people often think that what they have in front of them is good, so it feels like that.

As the saying goes, "smart is mistaken by smart", the smarter the brain, the more thoughtful, do things forward, sometimes it is counterproductive, unsatisfactory, and the brain is not bright people, will not think so much, straight to the point, serious work, step-by-step, no heart, often more reliable than doing things.

Smart people don't necessarily have wisdom, so they will be stupid when they do things, and the more stupid people seem to be, the more wise they may be, which is called great wisdom and foolishness.

Is that so? I don't feel it, I just don't think that ordinary people are stupid or smart in doing things. In terms of learning, some children are very smart.

People are not born smart, people's intelligence is exercised in the living environment, and different environments to train what kind of people. The smarter you feel, the smarter you are. The more stupid people feel do.

things, consider the problem cautiously, modestly. That's what really cleverness is.

Maybe it's just a personal opinion, not everyone is like this, some people may look so smart on the outside, and most of the other ways of doing things are related to the people and things that they come into contact with every day.

Maybe one thinks more and the other thinks less.

For example, there is a column called "Doing More", setting up some mechanisms to turn on the lights and so on.

Now that technology is developed, many public places will place many self-service machines in order to provide better convenient services.

The advent of self-service machines has really provided us with convenience and saved us a lot of time. However, not everyone can use "high-tech" things, so many people will not know how to operate when they use it for the first time, and the speed is relatively slow. Those who have used it will be more experienced and know how to operate.

But this has caused some impatient people to be particularly "high-spirited". He may have felt that the self-service machine would not have to wait.

I often encounter this kind of person when using these self-service machines. I often poke my head at the back to watch you operate, and I don't even know how to avoid taboos when I enter the password, I always urge you to end it with my eyes, and I also remind you how to do it from time to time. I often point out behind others, but when I do see that the other person doesn't understand, and he also wants to ask for advice, I will patiently teach him how to operate.

But the kind of person mentioned above is not, with an impatient face, an attitude of urging and disgust, and a sentence at you, "ABCDEFG is fine!" ”。As if he knew that everyone else was stupid.

Hey, that's a coincidence, I just don't like people looking down on me with a great look. So usually when I encounter this kind of person, I will deliberately slow down, and occasionally take a few more steps by the way, and I will let you see if I can.

You may have low self-esteem! Seeing that the other party is so smart, intelligent, and understandable, but I still don't understand after listening to it several times, I will blame myself and feel inferior, and I will lack confidence. You might think to yourself, it would be nice if I could too.

We can take excellent people as an example to set goals, firm the direction of progress, learning can not be achieved overnight, then take your time, do not accumulate steps to thousands of miles!

It's love and hate.,I feel like I'm not as good as others.。

People who can look at problems from 10 angles must be more likely to have insight into the essence of things than people who can only see things from one angle, and this is the difference in cognitive ability. Evolution has given us a brain that can continue to learn, allowing us to learn from past experiences and draw lessons to achieve cognitive evolution.

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For more than 40 years, Bridgewater's founder, Ray Dalio, has been reflecting on pain and writing down the record of the review into more than 500 principles to form the book "Principles". If you wish to establish your own principles and maintain the ability to know and do. Well, "Principles" can be said to be the most appropriate, it is to upgrade your underlying operating system, help you speed up the speed of evolution, over time, like a snowball, so that your advantages become more and more obvious.

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There are two idioms, which can be explained.

First, if he is wise and foolish, it is precisely because he is more shrewd that his approach is different from ordinary people, for example, everyone goes to grab plums on the roadside, and he does not rob them, which shows that he has profound morality and will avoid harm; He also said that he understood at a glance that the plums on the side of the road were not delicious, or they would have been snatched up by his predecessors a long time ago, and his thinking speed could be described as a spark, very fast.

Second, self-knowledge. It is precisely because he is more shrewd, so he is less vulgar and impetuous, less than ordinary people, and less of a superficial arrogance, so he is more cautious and cautious when doing things, and he seems to be stupid, stupid, timid and afraid of things, in fact, he is afraid of what he should be afraid of, and he is afraid of what he should be afraid of, but he is really brave, but he is bold and careful, he is really smart, and he is really wise.

When a person is ignorant, he thinks he is smart, and when he discovers his insignificance and inadequacy, he realizes his naivety, stupidity, and shortcomings.

Blessings and misfortunes depend on, and blessings and misfortunes depend on them!

Smart and stupid are relative, as the old saying goes: Foolish people have good fortune, and smart people are mistaken by smart!