What is it that is difficult to grasp and control the familiar and unfamiliar?

It's hard to control the familiar and the unfamiliar, as if each needs private space, or one party needs space, and the other party still depends on the other, and when two people have different opinions, conflicts will start to appear. It is difficult to control the familiar and the unfamiliar, and after getting along for a while, the shortcomings and flaws between the two people will be exposed, and slowly there will be dissatisfaction, pickiness, complaints, and suspicions, and these are all stumbling blocks to the relationship. It's hard to control the familiar and the unfamiliar, and if you don't solve these problems well, then the relationship is likely to start to deteriorate.

It is difficult for me to control the familiar and the unfamiliar, and the unlimited quarrels, unlimited disputes, and finally become relatively speechless.

It can be said that familiarity and strangeness are inherently difficult to master, because what about familiar people? Sometimes if you offend because of something, it is easy to become strange, or the relationship will fade.

If he says that, you can say that you are very right, and there is only a thin line between the familiar and the unfamiliar.

I don't think it's hard to control the familiar and the unfamiliar. You're just that, you say familiar, it's just ordinary familiarity, strangeness is that I don't know him at all.

The meaning of this sentence is that in fact, there may only be a lost distance between the familiar and the unfamiliar, if two people are too familiar and do not care about some subsections, then it is possible to cross this boundary, and from then on the relationship between the two people will become strangers farther and farther away, and if the stranger controls well, it can also become a familiar person, which is a dialectical relationship.

Why is it difficult to control strangeness, so ah, it depends on fate, for example, fate, everything can start again.

Then you should talk to him if you are familiar with him, then you should also keep a little distance, and if you are unfamiliar, you should also keep in touch. The issue of scale between this should be maintained.

Familiar and unfamiliar, it is difficult to control, how is it, at this time, you have to see how you understand the familiar and unfamiliar.

You can say that then you should slowly understand what is said and what is said.

Of course, the relationship between familiarity and strangeness is difficult to control, because it is only one step from strangeness to familiarity, just like a layer of window paper.

Familiar strangeness is easy to grasp and control, because familiarity is familiar with strangers, and you can't control it.

In fact, I think that familiarity means that the two of you have a very good relationship and have common topics, but strangeness generally feels that it is impossible for two people to get along more amicably.

It's hard to control with strangers, and when strangers spend more time together, they become slowly familiar.

Familiar and unfamiliar, coming back to grasp the control of this is mainly a lack of self-confidence, self-confidence, you can grasp the control very well.

Familiar and unfamiliar, difficult to control. Yes him. After being together for a long time, they become familiar.

Because you don't know how the other person feels when you're a stranger, it's hard to grasp each other.

If it's hard to control, then you can take the default way, you can have something to say, not is also a kind of thing.

It is easy to distinguish familiar from unfamiliar cars, that is, we always meet, and many characteristics are very familiar, and if you are unfamiliar, you are basically unfamiliar and unfamiliar.

There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but it cannot be said; There is a kind of love that I want to give up, but I can't give up; There is a kind of love, which I know is tormenting, but I can't open it;

The words familiar and strange are opposites, and there is certainly a difference between a stranger and a familiar person.

Actually, no, if you are positive, the strange will become familiar.

Familiar and unfamiliar are difficult to grasp and control, how can you? How so? It depends on the fate between two people, and it feels like some people are strangers all their lives. Some people can be familiar at first sight.

We always meet a lot of people when we go to our own way, and the relationship between people is familiar and unfamiliar, and between the familiar and the unfamiliar, the difference is only one you, and the same is true for love!

We are changing every day, constantly moving in a certain direction, just like the clouds are always moving in the direction of the wind, and when people lament the unpredictable changes of the clouds, it is because people can't figure out the movement of the wind!

And between the familiar and the unfamiliar, it is not that you ignore me, I ignore you, these childish behaviors with youthful atmosphere, but the distance between hearts and hearts, we can clearly feel the real emotions from each other!

The farthest journey is from one's own body to one's own heart, from one person's heart to another's heart! This quote comes from Hayao Miyazaki's "Valley of the Wind". Familiarity is not something that can be achieved simply in time, sometimes it is just a simple action, at that moment, it is already clear, and from that moment our relationship has gone to the end!

However, strangeness is not ignorance, the reason why strangeness is only because there is a reason to be strange, some strangers even know him better than himself, and the distance between strangeness and familiarity is only one person!

Most encounters are from strangeness to familiarity, and then it is not so important whether they are strange or not, and some people are familiar from the moment they meet, that is a kind of distance between hearts, two hearts that can be extremely close!

If you ask me why this is the case, I don't have an answer, because there is no reason for it, and you can't explain it, all we can do is to get along with everyone who can get along comfortably, and too much entangled in the relationship is a kind of distrust of the relationship!

From strange strangers to familiar strangers. Just draw a circle back to the starting point, some people understand love, some people can love, some people dare not love is very helpless, the beginning is always sweet, and then there is boredom, habit, abandonment, loneliness, despair and coldness. I used to long for a day to be with me, but later, how glad I left.

Not long since. For a short time, we thought we were deeply in love with someone, but later we learned that it was not love. That's just lying to yourself, someone you think you can't lose.

It turns out that it is not impossible to lose. Your dry tears, only one other person makes you laugh. You're heartbroken and then find out that it's not the one who loves you.

It's not worth your grief at all. Looking back today, isn't it one?? When the love is over, there is only a new realm, and all the sorrow is just history.

Love is always more beautiful than reality. The same is true of each other. Farewell.

Have you waited? If you've waited, you might understand me; Have you really been in love? If you've loved it seriously, maybe you can understand me.

Not all waiting is rewarded, and not all love can be explained. Maybe one day, you wake up a sleeping love, you will ignite a fiery care...

The lonely waiting is silent, silent as a mountain, but there is magma rushing and earth fire running under the mountain laughing; The lonely wait is calm, the traditional Chinese log, calm as a glacier, but there are rolling waves and rough waves under the glacier. In the lonely waiting, there are times of anxiety and anxiety; In the lonely waiting, there is a deep love for longing; In the lonely waiting, it is inevitable that there will be a sigh of depression.

In the mountains and rivers of the years, my lonely state manuscript awaits you, maybe I can't have it for the rest of my life, maybe I will wait for it alone for the rest of my life. That's how stubborn I'm stubborn, so obligatory.

Put my heart in your hands, and maybe tomorrow you will be gone; Put my true feelings in your arms, and the wind and rain can't blow away my greetings; Put your name in my heart, and look forward to the meeting on that year, month, and day. I hope to hear from the bottom of my heart.

When we focus on each other, we always magnify the good in each other; When we give up on each other, we always magnify each other's shortcomings. Where there is no thing that does not seek the best socks, the reputation only seeks better. With a normal heart, to tolerate love, understand love, and treat love.

How far is the distance between the strange and the familiar? Is it possible to switch between the unfamiliar and the familiar?

Sometimes, you will feel very familiar with a person, and that familiarity makes you feel grounded and at ease. Maybe in fact you are not familiar with it, and some are just a few interactions; And then there are strangers who have never met.

People often say that a familiar stranger should be a kind of regret or sorrow. Some people get along with each other all day long and accompany each other for life, but the voice in the other party's heart, the flowers in the other party's world bloom and fall, how can he hear and see. A couple, an old couple, a pair of girlfriends, how many lead bridges do the three friends know each other, and they are in love?

It is not easy for a person to understand another person, and it is precisely because it is not easy that it is precious.

Do we need each of us to be understood? I don't think it's needed or needed. A person's heart belongs only to himself.

This small world, Xun Jixu is an acre of land in his heart, absolutely private. I believe that no one wants to be presented to someone else in full view, even if that person is his close lover. However, paradoxically, many times, people especially want someone to know themselves from the bottom of their hearts.

Whether he is male or female, familiar or unfamiliar. It seems that only when someone can understand can people's hearts find sustenance, and people's hearts can be stable and stable.

It's much harder than you think to find someone who can talk to each other. As I get older, it seems to be getting harder and harder. I don't know if people are forced by the pressure of life and are unable to pay attention to others, and being able to calm down and listen to what the other person wants to say has become a luxury for everyone.

I can't finish listening, how do I understand? If you can't understand it, how can you walk in?

As a result, people become more and more lonely, their hearts become narrower and narrower, and the world becomes smaller and smaller. Therefore, too many people have similar feelings: there are a lot of people in the circle, but they don't know who to call after flipping through the address book, and they don't know if your sharing is showing off?

Grievances and sadness, and I don't know who has time to sit down and listen quietly?

People can only become stronger, more solid, more sensitive and stranger. Distance is a good thing, it allows you to stay in the middle when you need it most, buffering your emotions, and making the strange and familiar so natural.

As soon as I thought of it, the end of the world became close at hand. Whether strange or familiar, it is worth cherishing.