Can the most familiar strangers become friends again?

Since you can't get it, don't touch it anymore, there is no need to give gifts, and you know that you can't be friends, continue your stranger status.

Because you still love him, if you get too close to her, any little thing she does can hurt you. In line with the principle of protecting oneself, it is best to stay away.

The sadness of the present is only temporary, time will erase all of this, sometimes the miss is not necessarily love, but loneliness, you have to prepare to find the next love, let another love fill your heart ......So you won't think about her all the time.

If you love to love seriously, it's actually hard to say whether you really love her like this, so it's normal for her to reject you.

In your case, you can be friends.

You don't have to think too much about it, as long as you feel good and give it to him.

Being a man is most afraid of being unprincipled, although you can be friends with her from scratch, but is it important? I wouldn't be like that if I were to do it, because if you say it, you can do it.

It's better to give up, women are like this, the more you care about her, the less she cares about you, there are many good women, don't fall from a tree.

I'll just say three words: no need!

In the process of growing up, the reason why many friends who were once good will drift away is mainly due to the following factors.

First of all, in the process of interacting with each other, two people have a certain estrangement and contradiction, which has not been resolved in time, which will cause a crack in the relationship between the two people, and eventually lead to a complete breakdown of the relationship between the two people, so that the two people have become strangers from very good friends, and may even become enemies, we must cherish the friendship between ourselves and friends, and we must have more mutual understanding and tolerance, and more mutual trust.

Secondly, when we are at different stages of development of life, such as when we go to college, work by ourselves, or get married and start a family, we often have little time to interact with our former good friends.

Another factor is that their best friend and they chose to go to different places to develop, the two people are far apart in terms of distance, but they will also come and go less, and they will gradually drift apart, but I think that real good friends will not be separated by time, distance and other positive factors, and the real friendship can still stand the test of time.

There could be a number of reasons for falling apart from your former best friend, but here are a few possible reasons:

1.Changes in life experiences: As we age, our life experiences and social circles can change a lot. This can lead to distancing us from our former friends about common topics and interests.

2.Geographical distance: People may move to different places due to work, family, and other reasons. Increased geographical distance can make friendships difficult to maintain, as meeting and communicating becomes more difficult.

3.Changes in values: Over time, our values and outlook on life may change. This can lead to disagreements with our former friends on certain issues, which can affect friendships.

4.Lack of communication: Sometimes, the dilution of friendships can be due to a lack of communication. As the pace of life increases, we may neglect to keep in touch with our former friends, leading to a gradual drift of relationships.

5.Shifting priorities: People may have different priorities at different stages of life. For example, during the stages of getting married, having children, or focusing on career development, we may focus more on these areas and neglect our relationships with friends.

6.Social pressures: In modern society, we face pressures from work, family, and others. These pressures can cause us to neglect our relationships with our friends, causing them to drift apart.

At different times, we will meet different people and make different friends. As time goes by, you will drift away from your former best friends, and your relationship with each other will gradually fade. ......There are many reasons why this is the case.

Specifically, it includes the gradual estrangement of friends due to different concepts, the fact that different living and working environments make each other less and less common language, and the change of identity and status between friends will affect the relationship between friends.

1. Different concepts will lead to the gradual estrangement of the relationship between friends.

When I first made friends, I was like-minded with him, and the communication was smooth and the relationship was close. ......But as we get older, our perceptions change, and we no longer have the same or similar perceptions of each other as they used to. ......This change in perception will make the relationship between himself and his friend Shi Paoling less close, and even drift apart.

2. Different working and living environments make the common language between friends less and less.

When we graduate, we will enter the workforce and start our working life. Since different people will choose different work statuses, the work and life conditions of each of us will have very big changes. ......This change in the working and living environment will directly make us have less and less common language with our friends, and it will become more and more difficult for us to communicate smoothly with each other, so that our relationship with our former good friends will become weaker and weaker, or even no longer interact.

3. Changes in identity and status between each other will affect the relationship between friends.

When you make a good friend, you must be the same or similar to each other in terms of identity and status. Only in this way can two people communicate smoothly and become friends. ......However, as one's work experience changes, the gap between friends in terms of identity and status will become wider and wider, which will lead to more and more difficult communication between each other, and once good friends will gradually become estranged from each other, and eventually become strangers.

The main reason why acquaintances turn into strangers boils down to one: a lack of contact. The so-called acquaintances are nothing more than the following relatives, relatives, friends, classmates and colleagues.

A common feature of these relationships is that both parties spend a long and short time together and then separate. There are many reasons for separation: either due to the breakdown of the relationship, or to a change in the place of work and study.

In the first case, it goes without saying that there will be no contact at a later stage due to the breakdown of the relationship. After a long time, it naturally turns into a stranger.

It should be noted that in the second case. Separation was originally a spatial separation caused by objective causes. During separation, there is usually contact, which remains very tight, and over time, this contact gradually becomes loose.

Slowly, there will be almost no contact. For a long time, both sides barely remembered each other, so they became strangers. In fact, this is also a normal mental process.

When they first parted, the two sides were still in a loop, and the human relationships in the new environment had not yet been established. Due to the needs of working, studying and living in the new environment, they gradually establish a new circle, and although they occasionally come into contact with old circles and old friends, they will have less and less common topics until they finally have nothing to say. Finally became a stranger.

The saddest thing in friendship is that we have cried and laughed together, seen each other's most embarrassed appearances, and said the most sensual vows to each other, but we are still no match for time and distance. When I think of you, I don't dare to poke you in the stool of Chunzhen without hesitation, I am not sure that after saving for a long time, there is only a strange travel in the middle and politeness, this is the most regrettable thing, but there are really too many such things, it is regrettable.

The relationship that pulls into the blacklist is mostly decisive. It is a good ritual to agree with each other not to get along with each other in old age and death. Whether the relationship is good or bad, I have my own hands to put an end to it.

However, most relationships end in failure. There are no problems between you, he is still updating your circle of friends, and you will occasionally like him. But it's been a long time since I opened the dialog box to talk, and even if I did, I couldn't find a topic.

Many people have no sense of boundaries when they interact with friends, and they feel that what they are friends is their own. To the small, do not refuse the subsection, to the big pickpocket, like to take advantage. As for those who think that their friends should help them if they have money, they are people who do not know how to be grateful, you are good to him, he has to make inches, you don't help him once, but he remembers it in his heart, a typical white-eyed wolf mentality, not worth socializing.

From friends to strangers, it is not accidental, but inevitable.

If when you are together, you can't help but set the scenery in front of you as the destination, and all the good things are done, leaving no space for each other, then, when your own scenery appears, you can't tolerate each other, and it is bound to become strangers, which is the most regrettable ending. The fate between friends comes to an end, and there is no need to keep it. The so-called strangeness is that you don't know each other at first, and you don't know each other in the end.

The daughter had a conflict with her best friend, and in the end they broke up.

Her good friend said: "To be a good friend, a good girlfriend must have the same hobbies, the same personality, and be the only one for each other." "However, there are many differences between them.

My daughter's point of view is different, she thinks that even if you have different hobbies and different personalities, you can be good friends and girlfriends. Moreover, there can be many friends at the same time.

Just because of their different ideas, they have gone from inseparable good friends to the most familiar strangers.

In between, they have suffered and struggled. I asked my daughter how she felt, and she said, "It's sad. "Yes! After all, it's been so many years of relationship, how can it not be sad?

I understand my daughter's discomfort because I have experienced this before. Fortunately, the wound has begun to heal after it heals itself.

Seeing my daughter's current situation, I couldn't help but want to remind her of two points.

Because, this will make your change very cheap. If you don't get her approval after you change. You will also feel very self-blaming, uncomfortable and dislike yourself. At the same time, you have to be prepared to change and she still doesn't like you.

No matter what, no matter what, at all times, we must be our own masters and live for ourselves. Don't be dominated by others, don't live in bondage to them. Because in this way, you will have no confidence, and you will not have self-confidence, and you will slowly become an object that can be manipulated at will.

No one can dominate you like that except yourself. Because your own destiny is in your own hands, and your own character is in your own hands. You are an individual.

Only when you live well and become better, when you cherish yourself. Then, others may truly love you and cherish you.

You must remember:

Because it's a sign of respect for each other, and it's also a sign of respect for the friendships you once had.

Finally, I told my daughter: others can not like us, but we must like ourselves; We have to accept our current imperfections, and at the same time, we have to strive to be perfect.