Do I want to redeem this love, how else can I redeem her and redeem true love

You should start by saying how old are you and do you need to bear some necessary responsibilities for love?

Your feelings are confused not because of her, but because you are not clear about your position, she needs a tree to lean on, you have to give her a tree, not a leaf;

It's up to you whether you want to redeem it, and if you don't have an embrace, don't hurt others; If you have a hug, let others feel it.

If you have chosen, why do you want to redeem it?

First love? Children, let me tell you, you fall in love a few more times, believe my words, you will slowly mature, you will know how to love the person you need to cherish, when you know how to love the person you need to cherish, your love will end, find the person you really love.

These things are caused by you not taking the initiative, since this is the case, you should choose to let go, even if he is willing to continue with you, you will not be the same as before, instead of suffering, it is better to go your own way, although you love her very much, but in his eyes it is nothing, people are slowly growing up.

In fact, there is no need to keep it, because the two of you have long lost love, and some are just self-righteous responsibilities, or an ordinary feeling. Judging from the above content, your love seems to be very ordinary, and it doesn't look like it's in love. Give up early and start over early.

Her first love doesn't seem to be love!! You better don't look back. She doesn't care about you anymore. Let it go.

To love someone is to hope that she will live well.

If you think you can give each other happiness, and you love each other deeply!

I believe that zhi will definitely have a day to get together! Even if you don't get together again, as long as you see each other happy!

I'm a girl, and girls should know what girls think. If a girl falls in love with a guy--- there are two scenarios. First, everything revolves around boys; Second, go against each other and take every opportunity to quarrel with each other.

Maybe some people don't notice these problems at all, but these two methods can increase the knowledge of each other. The result is only the best and the worst, and there is no broken thread.

I am also a college student, and I have been dating my boyfriend for more than 3 years, and the reason is very simple, that is, he works in one place and I study in one place. I haven't seen each other for a long time, he didn't even call **, I called him and his number changed, don't you say it's owed? It was like I had been dumped.

In fact, it is nothing, which shows that our love cannot stand the test. It's not worth any nostalgia. We don't quarrel, it's not like you.

But I think you're still happy, at least you know she loves you!!

I don't think such a person is worthy of you to redeem or be nostalgic, are you true love? Zhi she was able to because of her family's.

DAO opposition is easily shaken.

Specialized, it can be seen how superficial her feelings for you are, she can't stand any test at all, even if you are with her in the future, she will not love you very much, and it is easy to leave you, it is too unreliable.

Love is not a one-sided effort, it takes two people to work together and persist in encountering difficulties, do you think she has done it? Did she do that duty to you to love someone?

Where is there no grass in the cliff? Giving up is the best option.

Do you want Bai to know the reality or du?

What about unrealistic? zhi

In fact, there are some things to be honest, not inside.

Worth it Maybe you don't think so now

A few years ago, we also experienced all kinds of love, pain, discomfort, and discouragement

But now, sometimes when I think back to the so-called efforts or the so-called hopes that I have done, I am only naïve

Maybe people look at problems in different ways and methods at different stages, but people will always grow up, and after a few years, in fact, what is love, love is no longer the focus of life

Do you need to find a girlfriend and throw it to society after a bite? Or do you need to find a daughter-in-law?

Love? What is Love? How many people can talk about love now? To put it mildly, is it also called "love" to humiliate oneself or the love of the other party for the sake of so-called "love"? Can love be "love" without any foundation to support it?

Finally, a word of old man, remember that you are a man! Got it?! It's not that men have to be how they are, how big they are!

But at least you have to understand that in your world, or in your world, you have responsibilities, there is not only love, love, not just her

You see, there are only two words in this world that can be equated with men, and that is responsibility

I'm sorry to live like a man

Go and see a 70-year-old man who goes to the street to buy groceries with his boss, and you will know what true love is!

Break up for the sake of breaking things.,Where is the love?,Lie to yourself all day long.。。。

I cried when I saw it, what a hard mandarin duck.

What you need is time.

Let's develop our business first.

Fate won't just be scattered.

Give her time, give yourself time, time is the medicine of healing, I have the same experience as you, I just want to separate from my boyfriend.

There's no way to love him, you have to let go and let him think for himself.

Don't do anything, don't bother her, if one day she finds out that she still loves you, she will turn back, if not, you have to start a new life of your own, silently blessed, it's also a kind of love, it's all happy, let's do it.

Make a promise with each other, since you love each other, why don't you have a chance, give each other a year to change, don't seek to change many aspects of personality, but at least it was beautiful, fate will make you come together again.

Friend! Don't you think your story is beautiful, touching, and memorable? This is the life you have experienced together, the so-called life should have the taste of sweet and sour, I think you have all experienced it, so do you have any regrets?

In fact, it is more difficult to choose to give up than to redeem, if you have worked hard and still can't get anything back, then you should learn to give up, let go of yourself, let go of her, and see that if she can be happy, it is the happiest thing for you. There will not be only one chance to love in life, but as long as there is true love, sweet love, ruthless love, love without regrets, and love with all five flavors, it will not be a beautiful thing in retrospect. Maybe you, not just you, that feeling of love has not passed, but time is really a good medicine, it will be your **, I believe that she you care for will also be healed, as for the waiting time, you can choose freely, maybe it will end soon, so that everyone has a long pain is better than a short pain, maybe before your next relationship begins, let everyone have each other's calm space to interpret, maybe forever, here forever means that you will permanently carry this beautiful memory, into your future brilliant life, maybe.

If you don't move forward, you will never know what will happen next, don't be quiet in this memory, memory refers to the past, so it is meaningless, maybe your next period is more beautiful, you can try a different feeling, and there is more than love in life, you can share happiness with friends, you can use study or work to pass the time, you can also find a suitable way for you to relax, as long as you have worked hard, have fought for, learn to give up, Enter the next part of your life. Maybe someone appreciates your naivety, your calculus, your arrogance, maybe then you get rid of these so-called faults, but others can still find out what she doesn't like, be yourself, naturally someone will appreciate it. Forget what should be forgotten, maybe this will preserve a beauty.

How sad can you be? Just like a river of spring water to the east. We don't know you, and we don't know her.

Young people, how can they mature if they are not "injured"? Forget it, do a good job in your studies, and finally do a good job in your career, good woman? And much more!

Fight for this girl, come up with a plan, and show him action

Give him a little time, don't contact him for a week, if he loves you, he'll look for you, if he doesn't, you look for him in a week, ask him about this time, he thinks about it, do you want to continue, if he really loves you, he'll be okay with you, but don't push too hard, so he doesn't have time to think, he just gets annoyed.

Don't wait, I've experienced it, I'm a woman, since you chose to give up, it's useless to wait no matter how much you wait, even if it's redeemed, there will still be a day when you break up, she has already hurt you once, you can't give him a chance to hurt you a second time, don't be stupid, there are a lot of good girls, you have only been in 1 year, do you know how long I and I have been in love for the first time??For 3 years, we were humble to each other and never quarreled, but once I found out that she had another woman, I proposed to break up, he kept me, I didn't agree, so we separated for 1 year, we contacted again, at that time my anger disappeared, so I agreed to him again, but the previous feeling, that kind of trust, can't get it back, after more than 2 months, we don't know why, broke up again, and after half a year. His friend persuaded me, I didn't know what I thought at that time, and I was together again, and he was deceived at work later, and he didn't dare to contact me, so I was suspicious of him, so I broke up again, hehe, my emotional experience was very bumpy, right?

Feelings can't afford to toss, and the more they toss, the weaker they become. I didn't lie to you, it's all true, now we are friends, friends who talk about everything, there is no love anymore, this may be the passage of time, if you believe me, the good horse does not eat the grass, and tries to find the next one, her, You will feel that he is more suitable than the woman who did not know how to cherish you before.

I have had the same experience and am deeply sympathetic to what you have been through. She doesn't love you anymore, think about it, people who love each other will overcome a lot of difficulties in order to be together, and if they love each other, they will stay together, how can they propose to break up? Obviously, I don't love you anymore, my ex-girlfriend was like that at the time, saying that she still loves you is just lying to you, I don't want to hurt you, face the reality bravely, she has changed her mind, you can't get it back, giving up is the only thing you can do.

There is no need to do it back. Redeemed love will not be happy.

Depending on your relationship, if it's good, you should keep it.

If you like him very much, he will redeem it, and if you don't like it, forget it!

He said he didn't love it anymore, why? Emotional redemption.