What do you think are the pros and cons of college students early exposure to society?

Now a sophomore, before high school, he studied in a fully closed aristocratic school, and there was no value reproduction except for learning skills. In the past two years, I have traveled to 37 countries, and I suddenly feel that I used to live a very narrow life, and I have a better appreciation of the customs of various places, the philosophy of the East and the spirit of the West. When I was in the Middle East, I met a child who was not skinny, but obviously unhealthy, and left except for some medicine at that time, and the next week I passed by and heard that the child had been hit by a stray bullet.

To say this is to say that life is actually very short, and it is always good to experience more and see everything in society.

In fact, I personally recommend that under the age of 16 is not to be exposed too early, maybe you see the good side, but the bad side have you considered, have you asked, at this time the mind is actually still growing.

The old people often say that the unavoidable things should be decided as soon as possible, done as soon as possible, and try to do it as well as possible. So, be sure to do it early, even if it's an idea that is on the rise right now. It's time to act!

In fact, the main thing should not be to distinguish whether you are an adult to contact society, but whether you have the ability to make a living in society. It's hard to say a lot about the age, only when you can have a little understanding of the society, and you have the ability to survive, it's good to get in touch with the society again, and the society is cruel. There are many disadvantages to the future of the road by exposing yourself to society too early.

One of my college classmates, because he was exposed to society too early and came into contact with some more utilitarian behaviors, also had some tendencies to mislead himself. In the following student working life, it will inevitably have some influence on some of the following ministers or officials.

In my opinion, when college students come to university, it means that they have entered a small society! Sometimes you don't know if it's a teacher or a student, but you may also be an outsider. In short, I would suggest that you can get in touch with society earlier, but it is more important to learn what you need to learn.

The first year of college is an important transition period for college students from secondary school to university. College freshmen at this turning point are facing a lot of psychological confusion.

1) Confusion caused by unfamiliarity.

When new students come to college campuses, everything is so new and unfamiliar. From a psychological point of view, the external unknown can make people more alert and sensitive, which in turn leads to internal insecurity. The life field of middle school students is relatively narrow, basically from home to school, learning is the center of life, and campus life is single.

The field of university life has greatly expanded, and many freshmen feel at a loss in the face of the rich and colorful campus life.

2) Lack of adaptation to learning.

There are obvious differences between universities and middle schools in terms of curriculum, learning content, and learning methods. Many freshmen are nervous and anxious because they can't adapt to the fast-paced college learning format. At the university level, emphasis is placed on self-esteem.

Study-oriented, more spare time. Faced with a large amount of spare time, some students are overwhelmed and do not know how to use their spare time to enrich and improve themselves.

self, showing emptiness, boredom, and inexplicable troubles.

3) Inferiority due to a change in status.

When freshmen come to a new school, the changes in the environment have made the "top performers" who were favored by teachers and envied by their classmates suddenly become very ordinary members of the new collective, and the "head of the soldiers" has become the "tail of the generals." Without the glory and aura of the past, the psychological advantage is gradually lost, and the contrast between the present and the past produces a strong contrast, resulting in a sense of loss, emotional sensitivity, and psychological anxiety and inferiority.

First, the learning mentality is not adaptable. Many college students are at the top of their class or even school in middle school, and they often experience a sense of superiority. After entering the university, I found that I had no advantage among my classmates, and the new competition made many people lose their position and sense of superiority as "top people" in the past.

College students feel anxious and confused when they first enter the workplace, mainly because they don't know enough about themselves, don't know enough deeply, and don't know themselves well enough.

When I was a student, I was always full of longing and yearning, thinking that once I entered the society, I would be able to achieve great ambitions and achieve both economic and psychological freedom, but when I first entered the workplace, I would find that everything was not as expected. The job is not what you want, the salary is not very high, and there is no way to change the status quo quickly, and you don't know what you want to do and what you should do.

Anxiety and confusion come uninvited. My advice is to communicate with people more.

Talk to your parents, listen to what they expect from you, and see what advice they have for you, even if you don't want to follow their arrangement.

Communicate with people who are envious and praised by everyone in your relatives, either who started their own business or who are recognized as good as working outside, and pluck up the courage to ask for advice, talk about their current confusion and anxiety, and see what advice they have.

Talk to people in your classmates who think they have found a good job, find out if they are satisfied with their current situation, find out what long-term development plans they have, and find out how they are doing what they are now.

After graduating for more than half a year, I now have a stable job and have a certain plan for my future. College students entering and exiting the workplace should have three points to get rid of the coke oven and confused mentality. 1. Ask yourself what kind of job you want, whether it is a state-owned enterprise or a public institution, a civil servant, etc., and only then can you have a plan and hope to complete your goals.

Second, don't be in a hurry to find a job, you must find a suitable job, if the family conditions are good now, look for it slowly, and think long-term. 3. Keep a positive and optimistic attitude, you are very good, but you also need to be humble to learn.

We have just entered this society, we are very simple, we have dreams, we have hard work, but the society will also smooth out your edges and corners, you may become a very slippery person, but you have to remember what your original intention is, don't follow the crowd and go with the flow, go against the current to be a successful person, let yourself live a hard and happy life.

College students who have just entered the society will have some discomfort, and the pace of life will become faster, the pressure will increase, and it will be easy to be busy. You have to learn to adjust your mentality and try to adapt as much as possible.

For example, I always want to rely on others, and I speak very politely, and I am clumsy in everything. It's best to be able to learn some social knowledge in advance.