I want to know a man who betrayed himself and is now divorced, but what can he do to get it back?

If he loves you, you love him, and there are children between you, you can talk to him directly, after all, there is still your love crystallization between your feelings, that is, your children, and you will have to be together well for your children in the future, you can't let your children have no father's love since they were young, so that your children have a complete home, and you still love him.

Let him think about it for himself. And the two of you children are a common language together. If he really cares about you and the child, I believe he will come back!

You just have to show your heart. For the rest, I don't think it's up to you right now. But you can go for it! That's all.

Speak your mind, your thoughts. If he misses the old love and has some affection for you, he will naturally come back.

Of course, there is a lot of work to be done, and you don't necessarily have to give points, so let's talk about a breakthrough first, that is, children.

The child is your common child, take the child as the starting point, no one can say too much of a problem, the more contact, the more opportunities will naturally be more, more opportunities are afraid that things will not be settled?

If you love him, you have to pay, the key is that he loves you or not, this has nothing to do with the child, a person who doesn't love you won't consider your feelings, it's useless to pay more for him, I also have your experience, it's also very painful, and I pay no less than you, but when the person comes back, can his heart come back?

I don't really want to scold you... You're so cheap... Even if he tells you that he is unhappy, it has nothing to do with you ... I hate a mean woman like you the most. Destroying people's families.

There's a pit up there, and you have to jump down, and if you get back the man who betrayed you, you have to prepare for his second betrayal.

What's wrong with women now, being so spineless, do you have dignity???

For the sake of children? Is a father like this worthy to be a father? Don't hurt your own children and tell you.

What is called the upper beam is not correct and the lower beam is crooked, you won't not understand.

It seems that there is really no nonsense, men are really a cheap virtue and say the same thing, hehe. What's even more sad is that there are some stupid women who eat this...

One is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer, this is how men think of women...

Don't redeem it, what else can you redeem if you betray you??

A man who insists on divorce after betrayal will definitely not be able to escape these retribution!

Men and women outside of marriage are not good matches after all, those men who want to divorce their wives for the sake of women outside of marriage will give an answer at the last time, they will not be able to escape these retribution!

1. The marriage is not going well.

The man who abandons his wife for the sake of an extramarital woman, he thinks that he can get true love, but in fact, his relationship with the extramarital woman will not last long, because the beginning of the relationship between the two people is not a legitimate way, and most of the subsequent marriages are full of problems.

Men will recognize the true face of a woman outside of marriage and begin to regret their decision, or they will not be able to control themselves and continue to betray the marriage. And extramarital women will find it difficult to trust men, or if they can't get what they want, they will take the initiative to leave, how can such a marriage last.

2. Parent-child relationship breakdown.

A man who insists on divorce, even if he takes the children himself, is a kind of harm to the children, and his father abandons the whole family for his own selfish desires, making him a child of a single-parent family, in fact, these children are all known.

A man marries an extramarital woman for his own selfish desires, which satisfies himself, but for the child, the father's behavior disgraces him, and he is also very painful when facing the hurt mother, and how to face his stepmother, these wounds are difficult to repair.

3. Reputation is damaged.

There is no impermeable wall in this world, and it is not a trivial matter for a man to insist on divorce and marry an outside woman, and his relatives, friends, including colleagues, must know that he is a woman who abandons his wife for the sake of an extramarital lover.

In this way, a man will face a "social death", and his reputation has been bad from now on, and when the people around him have dealings with him, they must think that this person has a problem with his character, and he must be careful when working with him, and those who gossip behind his back, the man's reputation has long been bad.