If a woman betrays a man, will that man still forgive her?

The so-called clean officials are difficult to decide family affairs, you should not get involved too much, just care about your friends properly, the key decision still depends on your friend!

Most men should mind this kind of thing! But most doesn't mean everything! Now that the social atmosphere and people's thinking changes are hidden, maybe this friend of yours has more considerations of his own!

Speaking of feelings, it is difficult to say, who will know the final outcome?

Let's wait and see what happens!

For me, I don't forgive someone who betrayed me. There are several main reasons:

First, if you forgive someone who betrayed you, if you forgive him, there will be a second and a third. People will have a fluke mentality. If you forgive once, he will think that he may forgive the second and third times.

Second, even if you try your best to forgive each other, because of betrayal, the relationship between the two deteriorates, and there will always be a little pimple in your heart, and you will never be able to go back to the past.

Third, forgive someone who betrayed you. The other person will not feel that you are generous and forgiving, and will not cherish you because of your forgiveness. On the contrary, they will think that you cannot live without him, emotionally worthless, humble, and wantonly trample on your dignity.

Fourth, because of betrayal, there will be no more trust, but more suspicion and suspicion. Forgive the betrayal, and you will worry about the betrayal of the other person again. You live in this worry and doubt all day long, and you don't trust each other.

Fifth, betrayal is a shameful and hurtful thing. Even if betrayal happens, we can't allow ourselves to suffer. If we look at betrayal from a different perspective, it is not necessarily a bad thing for us.

Secondly, the betrayal may be okay now, you can leave decisively, which is much better than the betrayal after marriage, and it will be really difficult to solve when the time comes.

So, in the face of betrayal, I will not forgive. Betrayal means that there is really something wrong with the two people. Instead of reluctantly, it's better to find one that really suits you. Therefore, it is not easy to forgive a person who has betrayed him.

It is still possible for women, this still depends on the specific attitude, and it is still possible if you sincerely repent.

A very touching sentence: Not every sentence of sorry can be exchanged for it.

There are two lines in "Big Fish and Begonia" that impressed me very deeply, the first sentence, I will tell you what is the saddest: you meet a person, make a mistake, you want to make up for it and want to pay it off, only to find out in the end that you have no power to return to heaven, and the sins you have committed can never be remedied. We will never be able to pay off what we have committed....

The second sentence, "I want to forget something, but I can't forget it", "If I can't forget it, don't forget, I don't need to work hard to truly forget".

It's like a man who has betrayed you, you want to forget him, and at the same time forget the injury, but in the end you find that you can't forget it at all, even if the pain at that time is diluted by time, but this kind of injury is still imprinted in the heart, and it will definitely explode suddenly at a certain moment in the future, and then there will be a heart-rending colic.

There are some mistakes that cannot be remedied, because the damage is real.

If a man betrays you, will you forgive him? I interviewed five ladies to hear what they had to say.

First, Ms. Zhang: I will not forgive.

When I first married him, I told him very clearly that if one day you betray me, I will not hate you or blame you, but I will definitely not be with you again, so let's get together and disperse!

After three years, the last thing I want to see has happened, and I have not broken my trust with anyone, and I have fulfilled my original promise, without a single tear, without a trace of resentment, just despair and a cold heart. Probably, I won't love anymore, probably this pain will follow me for a lifetime.

Second, Ms. Su: There is only one chance.

Speaking from the bottom of my heart, if he betrays me, I can give him a chance, but there is only one chance, and it depends on whether he can grasp it. I have thought about this question many times, and in the end it took me a long time to come up with such an answer, and giving him a chance is also equivalent to giving myself a chance, giving myself a chance to die.

After six years of marriage, I have been repeating this question to him, and I have told him many times what I think, and even I have clearly told him that I will only give you one chance to hurt me in this life, and if you miss this time, either you go or I go, there is no third choice.

Third, Ms. Xu: Maybe forgive!

I think as long as you are a woman, you should have thought about this question, if I am not married today, my answer must be not to forgive, but for me who has been married today, I think even if he betrays me, I will still forgive him.

Forgiveness is forgiveness, but trust or distrust is another matter, if he really betrays me, I will no longer have any feelings for him, nor will I have any more giving, even if I am a pair of strangers under the same roof, I admit it, no matter what, he is my choice, no matter what happens in the future, I will always go on this road.

Fourth, Ms. Gao: I will forgive him!

I will forgive him, no matter how many times he hurts me, I still like him, I still can't let him go, as long as he says a word, I am still willing to go to the sword and fire for him, and I don't want to do this.