My communication troubles. Thanks, some annoyances about communicating

Brother, it's normal for you to have this kind of thought, everyone has this kind of thought at some stage of life, really.

Don't care too much about the past, cherish what you have now, try to be yourself, and be sincere with others at the same time (this is what I asked a lot of successful people around me, they told me, people, the most important thing is to be sincere), and slowly you will find that there are more and more friends around you.

In addition, if you feel that your relatives don't like you, it is your delusion, and it is because you yourself are unstable that you have this thought.

Life is like a wheel with five hubs in it: career, family, love, friendship, and knowledge. If any hub is not stable, the wheels will be affected.

Now you feel that something is wrong with your friendship and it affects the whole wheel, and then you feel that your career, love, knowledge, and family will make you uneasy.

Believe me, when you do the other four things well, friendship will naturally not worry you, and when you are no longer so worried, that is when you get friendship!

Hello friends, the feelings of friends also need to be managed. Just like family affection, there is a need for communication between father and son, mother and son, and between friends. If for a long time, there is no communication, communication, and even the most basic greetings are few, and there is a gap invisibly, and of course we feel that our friends are far away from us.

Don't you think so? Friends need to care for each other, take care of each other, and encourage each other, will they continue to deepen their feelings, and there will be no feeling of being far away!

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Relatives will always love you the most, you look at the world with negative eyes, the whole world is gray, learn to be cheerful, friends are in your life to come and go, go and come, each stage has friends at each stage, as long as there are one or two dead friends, friends let him follow the fate, as long as you do it, the friends themselves have, even if they leave, it is not your reason, the mentality is very important.

In fact, these are all our destined, and some people will eventually leave us, you are just like me now, I talk a lot less, and we don't have much experience to check out. There are times when you have to have it in your name, and you can't force it in your life. Okay, the more you think about it, the more annoying it becomes, let him go with the wind in the past, and think about a better future!

After all, one day the rain will pass, so let's go back to our original self, play our role well, and live well. Let it be. No one is perfect.

Think about what you're not doing well.

You can't be friends.

It means that you have no fate.

Since there is no grudge.

There are no regrets if you can't be friends! ~~

Rabbitsky quote! ~

Agree with the first floor, others will think that you have become more kind and friendly, really, I didn't take the initiative to greet people before, and then my classmates said that I have changed and become more friendly! So go ahead and give it a try, and no one will be too surprised by the changes in you, and everybody is learning and not watching you, so that's okay.

I was surprised, and the other party couldn't react.

Well, let go of some boring autism, do it boldly and sincerely, just say hello and fight.

Probably not very much, after all, there won't be too many people who follow you, and friends and classmates who know you won't be surprised, you already know them well, so there's nothing wrong!

It's just your own concern, others are very busy, and they don't have time to care about whether you usually greet people, and you mainly can't get over it psychologically.

Actually, this is also very easy to solve. Since this kind of person is not worth your friendship. Then you don't have to work on him.

What about a dormitory? Nor is it about eating together and wearing together. Just living in the same house.

You don't have to care about this person at all. That is, it can be superficial.

You think, if your future boss, or future customers are such people. Aren't you going to touch it? Dealing with different people is a kind of learning. Get along well, and maybe you will find that he also has advantages that are worth learning from. I was born to be useful

If it's not for the big deal in terms of interests, you can leave him alone. If you don't expect others to see it, you don't have to compete with him for the limelight.

When we are ignorant, we do not listen to the admonitions of others when they are true, and when we understand, no one tells us anymore. That's it, making up for one's own growth with what one has lost, a process that everyone must have.

It's weird! Hehe.

I don't think he did it on purpose! Believe in your classmates, write more communication and exchanges, tell him your questions and thoughts, and he will suddenly realize that only good friends can say such things! It's better for you to have a good chat with each other as soon as possible This kind of thing should not be postponed This is a good way to solve the problem once and for all It is also a bridge to continue to maintain the friendship between you Words should not be hidden in your heart Especially classmates and friends who get along often I think you should know how to do it, right?

I wish you a long and lasting friendship!!

People's personality is originally changeable, each has its own merits, change the mountain, the nature is difficult to change, maybe he himself will experience some people and things setbacks to change, since you have something to know about him, change it, let it be!

You don't have to worry about what you know and can't do! If you are either dead or injured, why bother looking for soldiers to play gongs. Hehe.

As long as you are a thousand, there will be changes in the future!

You can't be blamed for this, some people have different habits and attitudes to life than ordinary people! We can't let others accommodate us, but we can't always accommodate others, that will make us depressed, and it will be bad for us for a long time, and it will make us like to make two drafts in our hearts!

Of course, people who have a lot of nerves and forget about it later don't have to worry too much!

I think it may be that she doesn't know how to get along with you either, and then when we go together, she thinks of some topics to break the awkward ......If there were only two of them, this wouldn't have happened, otherwise she would be speechless......If you want to talk to her in the future, you can call her name first, and she won't not

Hey, in fact, there is no need to force yourself, some people have more friends because of their cheerful personality, and some people are introverted and don't have many friends but have one or two true friends. For example, there are many professions in the game, such as a warrior or a doctor, you can't force the doctor to go to the battlefield, the warrior is in the rear. You can try to be proactive but you can't get by, in fact, a few true friends are enough.

That's how I am, I'm doing well.

Treating people with sincerity is an eternal topic when it comes to making friends. If you want to get the sincerity of others, it is inevitable that you must first give your sincerity. Secondly, on the issue of choosing friends, we need to choose friends who are "compatible", and there is no need to be reluctant if we do not speculate for more than half a sentence.

As for whether it is a good teacher or a bad friend, it will be slowly reflected in the process of getting along. In addition, there are some art of dating: everyone has their own circle of friends, and in the process of interacting with friends, you must not let the other party feel a sense of constraint, that is, there must be distance!

The hedgehog theorem tells us: the best distance to interact with people! Let the other person feel your friendship without getting tired!

Hope it helps!

You are not an angel, how can there be so many people waiting for your help? You don't live in hell, and there aren't so many people waiting to bully you, just let go of these worries and live a normal life. Don't ignore others when they talk to you, even if you have a normal relationship with others.

For your current situation, in fact, you are a problem of your own habits, it is recommended that you talk more about QQ, slowly adapt, after getting used to all the problems are solved, and the student union and clubs will also help.

Learn to integrate into the collective.,There are a lot of sincere and kind people in the university.,I believe that there must be people who make friends with the same sincere heart as you.,Only by opening your heart.,In order to get true friendship.。。 Don't be afraid, take courageous steps.

If we don't go crazy, we'll be old, and we won't have memories of how to pay tribute.

Open the heart, accept others, take the initiative to talk to others, and now people prefer honest people.

Try to be proactive, tell jokes to the people around you, hang out together, and talk more.

The two should cherish each other together and need to run in slowly

Maybe she cares about you too?

When two people first met, they always wanted to show their best side to each other, and as time went by, the two people gradually deepened their understanding and no longer cared about releasing their previously hidden side, which is the proof of the development of your relationship. Now you need to communicate, take a step back from each other, and tell her your feelings and feelings, which is a necessary process in love.

Some people only quarrel with the people they love the most, learn more.

In a new environment where there are no acquaintances and friends, it is inevitable that the source will be uncomfortable, the Lord should not care too much about whether others will be friends with you, zhi first of all, you think you have a good impression of the stranger as a friend, remember not to make yourself so arrogant and lonely, take the initiative, people can talk in order to be able to communicate better. If others ignore you, don't feel inferior, it's a problem with his quality, and you should sympathize with him.

Psychological problems.

You think so. He is also human, and you are also human. What are you afraid of.

When I was 13 years old, I started running long distances to haul coal. I guess there are more people than you, I've never been shy.

You lack self-confidence and don't know how to shine yourself, so you will naturally not know what to do. You should dress yourself up first, talk to people you know very well when there are many people, overcome the fear in your heart, and slowly get better when you are trying to get close to other people, and believe in yourself!

Normal, you are not used to being surrounded by everyone's gaze, just like a star debuts on stage, and you don't know how to get down. Too nervous, don't care about others, do what you should do, in fact, others don't pay too much attention to you, it's just that you're too nervous and think that everyone else is watching you. It's good to go through it a few more times, and get used to it.

I think it's important to grasp the topic when you meet for the first time! Don't let people think that you talk too much, and don't let people think that you are indifferent! When you first meet, you can ask where they are?

Where do you go to school or work? If you go to school, you can talk to him about your major, and if you work, you can talk about your work! Or ask where is his home?

And then talk about his hometown or something, in fact, there is a lot to say! But be sure to pay attention to the communication between the two sides, don't just talk about it, and ask some questions appropriately for the other person to answer! In this way, the other party's impression of you will be good!

If you keep talking alone, he will find you very annoying and talk a lot I hope my advice can help you! Hehe.

What? Is that how the word "初" is written in the first place?

It's good to let go when you meet for the first time, you just treat that person as your old friend, it's not your fault that you're not talkative, but you have to learn to be at ease!

Find common interests through some topics first, which will make you get into the groove quickly and without getting nervous.