What are some of the things you regret doing to escape someone?

In fact, to be honest, escaping is not necessarily the most difficult to hide, and facing it is not necessarily the most uncomfortable. Why run away from it? Escape is a cowardly behavior, is a manifestation of weakness, is a psychological factor of fear, is a helpless failure, there is a bad heart to escape, the more fearful the more afraid, in fact, it is not terrible, make yourself strong, encounter things to dare to bear the brave face, only dare to face, everything will pass, and only face is the only key to solve the problem, bravely go your own way, afraid of dangerous people, more than the danger itself is 10,000 times more terrible.

Turning around is not necessarily the weakest, hesitation is not necessarily no choice, just not wanting to be wrong again.

In fact, some things are always sad, it doesn't matter if you get through, if you are hurt to wipe away the tears you accidentally drip, pretend that everything doesn't matter, and then drive it all out of your wounded heart, and if you don't want to bear it, forget about it, as a sad death. Make yourself strong, get out of the shadows, get out of trouble, and face it bravely, you know, in fact, a second can be all, and a tear can also be a lifetime.

A long time ago, I had a falling out with a friend over a boy.

The situation is very awkward, we can be regarded as avoiding each other, because our state is above friendship, but the lovers are not full.

At that time, I met a boy who made me very excited, and then he kept saying that the boy was not good for me, and asked me not to associate with him, and I got angry, obviously that boy was very good, and my other friends also said that he was not bad, why did you reject him so much?

Anyway, in a conversation, we had a very unpleasant quarrel, but we didn't say that we were going to break up, so it became very awkward after that, whether to continue to be old friends or something, we tacitly avoided each other.

For example, we obviously live very close, but in order not to meet him, we always pinch the time to go out, afraid of seeing him on the road, I don't know what to say, what to say appropriately, whether to greet or not, it is better to avoid it.

I even blocked his circle of friends, not daring to see his state for fear that I would not be able to help but care and greet him.

Don't go to intersection with our shared circle of friends.

I'm afraid of being asked by other friends what is wrong with us.

Then I moved.

Move to a place where you can't meet him.

I don't see him when I go out.

Later, he also left that circle of friends.

One day, I suddenly wanted to see his circle of friends.

The block was lifted.

I found out about that time.

He has actually apologized to me in the circle of friends, he said that he did not make his position clear, crossed the line, and hoped to be good friends as before. (The two of us are not only old classmates, but also fellow villagers and friends for many years.) ）

And yet I refused to receive all the news!

Now, a long time has passed.

His state also changed from apology to disappointment to helplessness.

We can't go back to ......

Really, make it clear when friends have anything to do, communication is the most effective solution!

If you want to forget a person, you must leave him far away first, no longer have any intersection with him, know him from work, and then slowly have a good feeling, because long-term contact will become more and more unable to control their own non-divided thoughts, should I confess or confess, just when I hesitated, maybe he also felt this feeling, so he spoke first, and then we were together logically, but then some things made us misunderstanding, and it became deeper and deeper, and I was angry, I refused all the opportunities to communicate with him, blacked out and deleted the blacklist in the way I could contact, I didn't go to work, I didn't go to work directly, I didn't go to fire from work, I went to a new life by myself, I really regret it when I think about it, I put a stable life at home, but I came out to suffer alone, and I didn't have much money on me at the time outside, and I had to rent a house, and now I rent a house and pay how much, and some of them are still paid every six months or a year, and I was embarrassed to ask my family for money, so I can only save some hard, hey, Now think about it really shouldn't, there are problems that should be solved, there are contradictions to eliminate contradictions, escaping is not to solve anything, if you are irresponsible like me to run away from things, the world is not chaotic, fortunately, I have suffered a lot in the back, and I know that I am wrong, and the situation that has developed into today is because I am too impulsive and willful, but I am also embarrassed to find him again, I just hope that he will be happy in the future, happy, don't meet me again, this is the one thing I regret the most, In the future, if I want to escape from a person, I will definitely not be so impulsive, I must think of countermeasures before taking action, otherwise it is myself who suffers, and I should do less to ask for hardships! Hee-hee!