Tell me your troubles, to whom do my troubles

At the moment, the most tangled thing is work. A 28-year-old woman who is about to get married. I don't like my current job and want to quit, but my friends think that I should quit after I get married.

But I really don't like this job, and I'm not happy every day. But after resigning, there is no economy, and I don't want to rely on my boyfriend, nor do I want to rely on my parents, and I firmly believe that girls should have their own jobs, but I really don't know what I can do after I resign. In fact, the main thing is the economic reason, which is really tangled.

I saw my friend being tricked, but he was fascinated, and I tried my best to help, but I was unable to do so, at this time I really felt that it was my biggest trouble, I didn't have such a problem when I had anything, really!! Beg.

Chicken or Egg Please start your show....

I want to talk to the people who love me the most.

Mine'There are a lot of worries, and one of the most annoying things for me is my figure.

If you ask me how much it weighs, I'll be shy and say, "120 pounds." "I've started now, though. My ** plan is as follows:

One. Walk for a while after eating, don't sit down after eating, that will make it easy to gain weight.

Two. Eat only one of these hail apples and drink a glass of water every night.

Three. Every night after eating, I walked 20 laps in the rough yard.

Four. 20 times a day before going to bed every night to prevent lateral development.

Note: If you go against it, squat 50.

This is my ** plan, and now after my hard work, I have successfully lost 5 pounds. Forest traces.

And what gives me a headache is my nicknames "Fat Man" and "Zhou Fat Man", whenever I hear these two nicknames, I am very angry in my heart. So I'm going to be a skinny guy and don't let the nickname come to me.

That's my trouble, and it's the one that gives me the most headache.

I'm not worried!

Troubles are generally self-inflicted, **The secret of troubles - "The person who cultivates the mind is the person who changes his life" All fate turns with the heart, and life is born from the heart.

People's life will not be smooth sailing, there will always be troubles around you, unlike when you were a child carefree play degree without troubles, as you grow older, more and more sensible, your troubles will be more, life, there are happiness, sadness, more troubles, usually people have psychological pressure, will be nervous, will be irritable, can't think of how to solve it, always want to laugh over, but still feel unbalanced in the heart, this "imbalance" may be the origin of your troubles, all say that the troubles are self-inflicted, only you let go of the troublesIn other words, you can't always live with your troubles, but also properly look for some happiness, don't try to avoid troubles, maybe these troubles are God's gift to your life, only faced, experienced, can you leave an aftertaste, have accumulation, and my troubles are not able to write a good article, so what are your troubles?

I don't have a childhood, my parents quarrel, I don't have friends, my grandmother hates me, etc., but I'm very happy that I can continue to grow, my parents are not divorced, my grandmother is healthy, and I am still very quiet, so every worry corresponds to no beauty, beauty and trouble coexist, as long as you have a good attitude, you naturally feel no trouble.

I have a lot of worries....I have the urge to give up my life! Ay! I'm scared to death.

Look for the cause of a bad mood.

In order to be beneficial to adjust the mentality. It's impossible to be depressed for no reason. Find the cause, and then solve the problem one by one, don't let it pile up and become unmanageable.

The three main points of adjusting the mentality: find the problem, analyze the problem, and formulate a plan to solve the problem. Bad emotions do not have a channel to ferment in the heart, find a trustworthy friend to say what is in your heart, if you don't want to say it, you can also write a diary to sort out your emotions, you will find that some troubles will be fine if you figure it out, and some troubles need you to take action, don't stay still.

You have to care about others, help others, get rid of the negative thoughts in your heart, and use an optimistic and positive attitude to solve the problems you are facing.

People's life will not be smooth sailing, there will always be troubles around you, unlike when you were a child carefree play without troubles, as you grow older, more and more sensible, your troubles will be more, in life, there are happiness, sadness, more troubles, usually when people have psychological pressure, they will be nervous, they will be irritable, they can't think of how to solve it, they always want to laugh it off, but they still feel unbalanced in their hearts, this "imbalance" may be the origin of your troubles, they all say that the troubles are self-inflicted, only you let go of the troubles, Troubles will let you go, take a step back and open the sky, in other words, you can't always live with troubles, but also appropriately to find some happiness, don't try to avoid troubles, maybe these troubles are God's gift to your life, only faced, experienced, in order to leave an aftertaste, have accumulation, and my troubles are not able to write a good article, so what are your troubles?

My worries right now are.

It is difficult to decide how to choose who to marry.

First of all, congratulations, you can silently endure my father's words, which I didn't do when I was young, and often caused family conflicts. I think I'm one of the right people to solve this problem.

After studying Buddhism, I understood why we were angry, I had respect and compassion for my father, and I learned to understand his thoughts. Read his heart.

I learned to affirm the good part of his words even though he was very impulsive, and assisted him to think about the problem thoroughly, and even assisted him in analyzing the feelings of others, so that he consciously changed the way he spoke to others.

Father's words are rushing, but remember that his heart is great, and for us, he will always think for me. When did we think about our dad with all our hearts?

Many people say that only when they have their own children can they understand the father's love back then!

Father's words are very strong and hard, you can bring one over and I will see if it can be used as a nail? These words are empty, and you will only be hurt if you are attached to yourself. To those who are born with a desire for a father, these words may sound good!

Hope it helps you, you are a dutiful son.

Tell him to let go completely.

If you are shy or embarrassed, try writing a letter?

It can be given to him directly or in the room...

Either way, you really have to say it all.

If you don't say it's going to be very stressful, your dad doesn't know either, so wouldn't it be a lose-lose situation, maybe you'll also know that your dad has something to do?

This question can be answered by almost everyone who understands psychology, but not everyone can recognize and apply the answer. So recently I have researched a method, that is, to change your breathing, like the old clock, deep and slow rhythmic, quiet and silent, so that the state of mind can not only achieve a calm state of mind, but also welcome high-profile happiness at any time, breathing is the most basic human being, and it is also the key to mastering your emotions.

You should understand your father, after all, people of the same era have different concepts. Besides, what he thinks about you, no one else will take what your father said to you.

Parents want to live with you for a lifetime, no matter how ugly or awkward your parents' words are, they are also for your good, and small things are nothing. Just endure and try to think about the two sides of things!

1.Be sure to communicate with your father.

2.Try to empathize with your heart and compare your heart to your heart.

3.When you suppress your troubles, tell your father what is wrong with your words, and ask him to understand you and ask him to correct it.

Even if you should communicate with him, under normal circumstances, the kind of love of fathers may not be well expressed, father's love is more abstract, but we as children should understand, find an opportunity to talk to your father

You can talk to your father about it, maybe he doesn't think he has this problem at all.

It's the same in our family, but now that I'm older, I've always said everything to him, and I know how to make him happy, and I'm fine.

We are all too young to learn to be calm! The family is also a society.