Why do I really pursue girls, but I often don t get the results I want

Brother, I regret your question, since you asked like this, it must have been rejected. I've had the same experience as you, but I couldn't figure it out at first, but then I slowly figured it out.

Love is a matter of two people, and wishful thinking has no result

You are sincere when you chase girls, I don't doubt that at all. But have you ever thought that if that girl doesn't like you, your sincerity will only become a burden to her? She won't be with you and fall in love with you because she is moved, she won't.

Have you ever heard a story about a girl who likes to eat pears, but you give her apples every day, and she doesn't eat them, and you think she's wasting your mind, she's too vicious, and so on? I also told people everywhere that I was so sincere to her, but she treated me like that. In fact, there is nothing wrong with both sides, what is wrong is just that there is no affection.

Let go and don't dwell on this issue

Letting go is the best salvation for yourself, if that girl has rejected you and has no chance to reconcile, then you forget about her. It's good for both parties, and if you hold on tightly, you'll get more damage. And that girl will also add a lot of troubles because of you.

It's hard to meet someone you like in this world, I know, but liking is just out of your unilateral idea, and she doesn't need to be responsible for your liking. Why bother, it's better to let go and make your life more comfortable.

Chasing girls is not only for the purpose you like, you also have to consider the feelings of others, if you are too selfish, girls will be scared away by you, as some suggestions from people who have come over.

1. The social circle is too narrow.

The vast majority of single friends have a narrow social circle, and the social circle is limited to a few acquaintances, and they are all of the same gender. In addition to a few old acquaintances, there is almost no new blood to join in the usual party activities, and there is no opportunity to meet new friends in the usual work and life, and there are very few chances of breaking the circle and meeting fate. The reason for this phenomenon is either social dislike or environmental constraints.

2. Too quiet.

No one likes a stuffy gourd, and no one hates a girl who is kind and beautiful from the bottom of her heart. Some girls are actually very good inside, love life, can cook good dishes, and love to read. But the problem is that such girls are generally too quiet.

3, too girly.

Now there is no shortage of such girls around, they look like fairies on the outside, but a mouth always feels very strong, in fact, this is a full female man, for this kind of woman It is easy to scare boys, so there are no boys around to pursue.

4. No one in sight.

This kind of general appearance appears among strong girls, because they are too strong, they often look down on boys who are lower than their own ability status. has a strong personality and dares to speak outly about the bad things of boys; There are strong requirements, if the job is upper, the salary should be high; Such a girl will make the boy afraid to approach.

5. Introverted, too small in the circle, and not positive in feelings.

Introverted women have basically a small circle, and if you add a negative attitude towards feelings, they are not positive enough. Then, it is easy to have a situation where no one is chasing. From a man's point of view, they will think that this kind of woman is difficult to contact and does not treat feelings positively, so they will give men a feeling of indifference.

Maybe it's not the heat.

Maybe it's because the other party doesn't catch a cold.

If you like it, you can continue to chase, and it's not too late to let it go.

If the girl doesn't respond to you, it means that the girl doesn't like it, so even if you try, it's useless.

Maybe it depends on whether the man really likes the girl. If you're sincere, you'll like it, but if you just want to have fun, you shouldn't like it.

If you don't like it, you don't like it, some people will say it directly, you will reject it directly, some people will perfunctory you, and some people will ignore you directly.

Why do so many boys always fail to catch up with girls? That's because you've made these mistakes:

Occasional is a mustPlusWhat is necessary, arises this.

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I think it may be because the conditions in the country are not superior enough, or you are not sincere enough when you confess, so the girl is not willing to accept you.

It is very likely that you often have a serious expression and a sad face all day long, and you are also more serious, especially cautious, and usually more picky.

It may be that your appearance is not as high as that of the special jujube family, or that your lover is not very high, and you are not very good at talking, so you can't move the hearts of girls, so there will be no girls who accept your pursuit in Liyanzhong.

How to say, in fact, many people have such a situation. This can only show that the other party has no good impression of you and doesn't want to be entangled like this. If your previous relationship was very good, let it go for the time being, continue to keep it up first, and find an appropriate time to confess.

If, you don't usually have much contact, and you suddenly say this to her, she will definitely avoid you in the future.

You're sincere, but people really don't like you, so there's no way around it!

Maybe people really don't like you, and it has nothing to do with sincerity!

It can only be said that the falling flowers are intentional and the flowing water is ruthless.

I agree with the girl who can pick up the girl.