I didn t have the money to buy a house, and my girlfriend said she wouldn t get married

You can't blame your girlfriend for this, you don't have a house and you are not qualified to talk about marriage at all, since you want to get married, you have to be responsible for her future and can give her happiness, but now you can't even give her a place to live, how can you bring her happiness, let alone get married, you can work together now and fight for happiness in the future!!

You should ask your girlfriend to see what the netizen is saying, she will be shocked.

It turns out that a considerable number of men are so irresponsible, he doesn't think about how he can change, he doesn't think about how he works hard to make the person he loves live a better and happier life, he thinks about how to calculate, he thinks about how to drag it, how to achieve his goal, and even wants to hand over another one and kick this out again, is such a man worthy of a woman's love? Has such a man ever loved his girlfriend?

If a man and a woman can solve a problem that can be solved by direct communication, can they solve their own fundamental problem by asking for help? Some people say this, some people say that, but it messes up their military morale, besides, after all, in life, some things must be solved by themselves.

Nine out of ten girls are like this now, forget it! Fight hard to take care of yourself and your family, and let his girlfriend hell with him! I don't have a girlfriend, and I don't live the same life.

He loves the house and doesn't love you What are you going to do with him If you think his request is acceptable You go and buy it You knew this would have said it early Let him say it early This woman is really.

There are people like me, and so does my girlfriend, who said she didn't have the money to get married.

My current method is to procrastinate, see who is in a hurry, and find another one by the way.

A man is still a flower at 30, who is afraid of who?

You and your girlfriend are ** people? How old are you this year? I guess you're 25, right?

Find someone who loves you but doesn't love the house

Your girlfriend is too snobbish too, right?

We can work together to buy a house.

Don't want this kind of woman.

Nowadays, many women want each other to have a certain economic and material foundation before marriage, so that they can enter marriage with a sense of security.

After all, poor couples mourn everything, and everyone wants a stable and happy life.

If the woman must buy a house before getting married, but the man's economic conditions do not allow it, then we consider the following aspects:

One. If both parties are in a stable relationship and have already met their parents. It is true that the man cannot meet the woman's requirements in a short period of time. Then the woman can give the man a time limit to complete the woman's request.

Two. Both parties are willing to get married, so the parents on both sides can come forward and sit down to negotiate the house. Both parties take a step back, or discuss when the house can be bought, so that they can also give each other a short explanation.

Three. Borrow money or take out a loan to buy a house. In fact, this advice does not apply to many people, after all, the money you borrowed or the money you borrowed or loaned must be repaid, and the woman will have to bear this pressure with you after marriage.

It is not the wisest to consider it from any direction.

However, if you are desperate to get married, and the woman agrees to bear all the pressure of repayment after marriage, then it is reasonable to consider borrowing money to buy a house.

Marriage is a major event in life, and the reason why many girls want a house to get married is because they want a home that can shelter them from the wind and rain.

When a girl gets married, she is not really in her own parents, and the daughter who marries out spills water.

As far as her in-laws are concerned, she is an outsider, and only her own small family is truly her own.

Marriage is based on the feelings of both parties, and if the material supremacy, or even the marriage relationship of buying and selling, then it is not destined to be long-term and happy.

Marriages based on feelings are the strongest, but they are equally important materially and economically.

Some people say that I had nothing before I got married, but I was a potential stock. I'm destined to have it all in the future.

Anyone can say this kind of thing, but the crux of the matter is that others can't see your future, but only your present.

Therefore, in order for us to be worthy of the people we love in the future, we must work hard to make ourselves excellent.

You have to work hard and give each other a sense of security, you can pay a down payment when you buy a house, and then you can work hard to repay the loan, and you have to communicate with your girlfriend and your girlfriend's parents.

You can communicate with your girlfriend, or you can choose to take out a loan first, and the two of you will pay it back slowly after you get married.

In such a situation, I think you should break up, because the three views of the two of you are not the same, and the other party will not make changes for you, so I think you should break up as soon as possible.

Summary. 1. If you buy a house before marriage, if you only write your girlfriend's name, then you have nothing to do with it legally, and the house belongs to your girlfriend.

2. Before you are married, you have met the conditions to buy, and there are two ways to change your girlfriend's name on the real estate certificate to your name, buying and selling real estate and gifting real estate (buying and selling is taxed according to the normal commercial house, and only deed tax is paid for gifting, but you have to pay the full 20% personal income tax if you sell this house in the future).

3. After you get married, the house belongs to the two of you, and you can go to the real estate bureau to spend money to handle a house, and you each have 50% of the property rights, which is shared by the husband and wife. The second is that you can bring the relevant documents to the real estate bureau to do a name change, that is, to change your daughter-in-law's name to your name.

4. If you want any agreement, it is best to go to the notary office to do a property notarization, that is, to notarize the house in your girlfriend's name to your name, and you can rent it with a notarial certificate, **, and have the right to deal with this house.

I bought a house in my girlfriend's name before I got married, but I paid for it.

1. If you buy a house before marriage, if you only write your girlfriend's name, then you have nothing to do with it legally, and the house belongs to your girlfriend.

2. Before you are married, you have met the conditions to buy, and there are two ways to change your girlfriend's name on the real estate certificate to your name, buying and selling real estate and gifting real estate (buying and selling is taxed according to the normal commercial house, and only deed tax is paid for gifting, but you have to pay the full 20% personal income tax if you sell this house in the future).

3. After you get married, the house belongs to the two of you, and you can go to the real estate bureau to spend money to handle a house, and you each have 50% of the property rights, which is shared by the husband and wife. The second is that you can bring the relevant documents to the real estate bureau to do a name change, that is, to change your daughter-in-law's name to your name.

4. If you want any agreement, it is best to go to the notary office to do a property notarization, that is, to notarize the house in your girlfriend's name to your name, and you can rent it with a notarial certificate, **, and have the right to deal with this house.

People should not be too stubborn, and must have a flexible and changeable state in order to adapt to the current social environment.

With such excellent conditions as you, you can be completely flexible, and this flexibility is: "people move to live".

Unexpectedly, my girlfriend didn't do it anymore! What to say: five years of affection. You lied to me. You're a scumbag!

This family is a gourd without a mouth. Honestly, won't say. My girlfriend brought her family to the door, and they were scared to death! Find me.

Auntie, I listened and rushed to it immediately. If the ability to do so, boys generally buy a house before marriage, because the marriage law stipulates that buying a house before marriage is personal property and has nothing to do with the spouse for a few years.

Yiyi's boyfriend's family doesn't have so much money, can he force his boyfriend's family to borrow money to buy a house? I thought, what if I am in a hurry and the marriage is simply not married? Even if you borrow money with the power of the famine, you can only pay the down payment on the house, and the monthly bank repayment is very, very high.

Is it possible that you can still think that foreign debts and loan repayments are the business of your boyfriend's parents and have nothing to do with you young people? This is contrary to the Chinese nation's transmission of virtues and will not work at all. Whether your marriage is happy or not mainly depends on whether you really love each other, as long as you truly love each other and work together, I believe that in the future, there will be milk, bread, house, and everything.

The man's family can't afford to buy a house, which means that the man's family's economic conditions can't meet your needs, and you two have to work hard to have a better life after marriage, I don't know if you want to?

If the answer is no, then you can enjoy your single life until the man who meets your requirements appears.

If the answer is yes, then you need to lower your requirements, or you can negotiate and find a compromise.

In a situation like yours, your boyfriend's family is not very wealthy, and he has the money to get married but has no money to buy a house, and you are a little conflicted in your heart, and you don't know what to do if you think about it?

You can discuss it with your girlfriend, the house will be bought sooner or later, you can borrow it from relatives and friends first, and make a down payment. Then the two of them will pay off the loan together. The premise is that your girlfriend must be able to accept a loan to buy a house.

My girlfriend asked me to buy a house and get married, and if the money was not enough, the two parties could communicate to see if it could be slowed down. Or make a down payment and the couple will take on the mortgage together. If your girlfriend agrees, then you must treat her well for the rest of your life.

I think for this situation, you can communicate the actual situation with your old girlfriend to see if you can get the money or earn money to buy a house, or choose to borrow money to buy a house first, which can be communicated by both parties, there is no need to hide it.

You can tell your girlfriend truthfully. If you really don't have the money to make a down payment to buy a house, you can tell your girlfriend honestly that your girlfriend who loves you will think about it for you.