The relationship between my father and my mother is very tense, and my father is under a lot of pres

How do you do that?

I once heard a lecturer say that people who have a bad career will not have a good family, I don't know if the situation in your family really confirms this conclusion, but if you think your father is too stressed, you can share his worries! If you are not capable enough to share his worries, it is better to have more arguments with your father, let him lose his temper more or play a few games with him to relax his nerves!

As a buffer between parents, you must find ways to alleviate their contradictions, pay attention to skills, and use methods such as smearing thin mud, hiding from the world, stealing beams and changing pillars, bitter meat tricks, and adjusting the tiger away from the mountain. Let them know that the other party is thinking about themselves and worrying about each other.

In fact... The first thing you have to do is figure out what makes your dad and mom strained. You must prescribe the right medicine...

Maybe it's because of your dad's work, you have to let your dad know that there are his closest relatives at home, which is irreplaceable...

And, it's time to do something for the family and reduce your dad's burden...

The first step is to get to the root cause of the tension: help them communicate. Communication is the best way to solve interpersonal relationships.

Help your dad persuade your mom to see if it works.

That's the best you can do.

If they really don't love each other, let them solve it themselves, everyone's life is limited, why can't they enjoy a happy life?

You can talk to your father when you have time, and find out why he has such a big temper because of things at work, even if you can't help him solve the problem of asking questions at work, you can also help him channel his emotions, so that he doesn't get angry with his mother, because his mother is also innocent, and it is very hard for his mother to take care of this family.

You should care more about your father, make your father happy, and you must persuade your father, no matter how much work pressure you have, you can't quarrel with your mother, you should have a good chat with your mother, tell me and your mother if you have any work pressure, and we will try to help you.

Dad is under a lot of pressure, so after going home, he always quarrels with the family, in fact, Dad is not right, so that the family has no sense of happiness, but you also have to understand Dad, after all, he is because of the pressure at work, so when he is angry, the family tries not to conflict with him, give him some comfort, give him some bumps to understand him, and slowly adjust his mentality.

You can tell your dad more humorous and happy topics, so that your dad will be happy, and you won't be noisy.

You can find an opportunity to persuade you to fight, if you can't persuade you to study hard, you can also say that their quarrel affects you, which may be effective.

Summary. Hello, I'm glad to serve you, for the situation you described, first of all, the teacher thinks that mom and dad must be particularly stressed because of some reasons at home, what we have to do is to do our thing, study hard, don't make them angry, you can talk to them alone, coax their parents, tell them that there is no flame mountain that they can't get by, life is like this, persuade them, don't let them get on fire, this is what we should do as children, filial piety first.

Hello, I'm glad to serve you, for the situation you described, first of all, the teacher thinks that mom and dad must be particularly stressed because of some reasons at home, what we have to do is to do our thing, study hard, don't make them angry, you can talk to them alone, coax their parents, tell them that there is no flame mountain that they can't get by, life is like this, persuade them, don't let them get on fire, this is what we should do as children, filial piety first.

Mom didn't smoke before, but she secretly smoked last night.

Here's why.

First of all, the teacher thinks that there should be some contradictions with your father, or there are some things at home, they have no way to tell you, smoke silently, as children, we don't want to ask the reason, just comfort the mother, tell the mother to smoke less, smoking is not good for the body, and the mother will be particularly moved after hearing it.

When you are usually fine, you must not mess with your mother and do more things she wants.

Then you should understand what causes the quarrel, and after understanding the reason, you should understand the character of the other party, and formulate corresponding countermeasures according to the personality of the other party to avoid always quarreling.

Because you should communicate well with your mother, when two people encounter problems, they must solve them together, hope not to quarrel, and should consider the problem from the other person's point of view and think more about each other.

Mother and child are true and pure feelings, but in Xiang Xiangye's early life, it is not necessarily the mother and son "laughing". Why isn't it filial piety, because a family also focuses on happiness, and the lifeless mother-son relationship, how can we talk about filial piety? However, many babies will encounter such troubles, feeling a lack of empathy with their mothers, and increasingly do not know how to get along, I try to make some suggestions.

1. Treat nagging mothers, guard against arrogance and rashness, you can go in and out of your left ear, or you can find an excuse to go out.

The way many mothers love their children is to have broken thoughts. Whether it's life or study, it's no matter how big or small.

In the mother's opinion, no matter how old the child is, it is immature. However, in this way, the children will get bored.

When encountering such a mother, the children should control their anxiety, and the mother's words can be left and right ear out, if they really can't bear it, find an excuse to avoid, such as I still have to study, but also to read, or say to ask classmates or friends questions.

As the saying goes: know the son Mo Ruomu. Mom can see that you are prevaricating, since you have given her face, she will not chase you and nag, compared to directly contradicting it, it will get twice the result with half the effort.

2. For mothers with a strong desire to control, their children can speak their own thoughts and communicate patiently with their mothers.

I wish you well, this is what many mothers say to their children. In the TV series "In the Name of Family". Qi Mingyue's mother did just that. From childhood to adulthood, Qi Mingyue's affairs were all arranged by her mother, and even her social interaction had to be managed.

Qi Mingyue was resistant in her heart, so she deliberately filled in one less question in the college entrance examination. After work, the mother and daughter had a fierce quarrel, and the mother learned the truth and lost control of her emotions ......

The quarrel between mother and daughter has reached this level, and the family relationship has suffered a huge impact, but the mother and daughter still care about each other. In fact, what the mother and daughter lack the most is communication.

The mother's desire to control is only to make her children less detours according to their own experience. In this case, the children still have to explain their life plans clearly, so that they can hope to reach a consensus with their mothers. If you really can't do it, you can ask your grandmother's family to help persuade you.

Hello! Here are my recommendations::

1.Communicate more. Communication between young people and their mothers is very important. You can find an opportunity to talk to your mother about your life, work, study and other topics, and you can also listen to your mother's thoughts and opinions.

2.Respect your mother's opinions and decisions. Although young people are adults, they still need to respect their mother's opinions and decisions. If you and your mom disagree, express your thoughts tactfully, but don't be too impulsive or arguing.

3.Give care and companionship. Young people can spend their free time with their mothers, watch TV, go shopping, eat, etc., so that their mothers can feel your care and companionship.

At the age of 22, he is already an adult, and he should persuade his father to move closer to his mother, care more about her feelings, and persuade his mother to think more about his father's advantages, no one is perfect. At the age of 22, you should be able to take on family responsibilities instead of being influenced.

Learn to regulate your mood, communicate and communicate more with your father and mother, and understand your parents more, maybe your mother and your father have different concepts, so you need to play a role in communication in the middle, so that it will be more conducive to the feelings between parents, and the family relationship will be more harmonious.