The child recently said Mom, I m afraid of you getting old , what should I do?

You should make him aware of the fact that everyone is going to get old. Because everyone really gets miserable and old because of the years. Let the child not be afraid of aging.

It is the natural law of this world to let him go, such as birth, old age, sickness and death. Only in this way will your child gradually become an excellent person, because he can know all about the world. Don't try to protect a baby in your swaddling clothes, if you protect it like this, he will know that the world is very one-sided, and he will suffer in society in the future.

Therefore, it is indeed a good choice for children to understand the multi-dimensional aspects of the world. <>

Tell the child that the mother will be old, and at the same time, the mother's love will not be old, the mother's love will always be there, everyone will grow a year old, but no matter how old the mother's body is, love will always be by your side, I think this mother is a little worried behind asking this question, right? Are you worried that you are old and will not be able to spend time with your children, or are you worried that your children have such fears?

In fact, I don't know how old your child is, there will be such a question, the child will indeed have some worries in his heart, worry about love, worry about the mother's company, that is, in our past daily bits and pieces, maybe the mother did not do this part, is how to give the child greater peace of mind, not worry, one is whether the mother has the strength to make the child feel love, so that the child can see that my mother is very healthy, and my mother is in good spirits.

One is whether the mother entrusts her happiness to the child, and will say to the child, because you are like this, so the mother is unhappy, because then the mother will get old, so the mother will not be able to do it, and even cause some fear, if you leave the mother like this, the mother will die, all these invisible words will make the little child have fear inside. Because the most fundamental life of a child is to be faithful to his mother, then the child will have worries, fears, to please the mother or tell his mother about his anxiety, so we really want to see this truth behind the child's problem, we must be a powerful and wise mother, and give the child the safest companionship and safe guidance.

When you are strong enough, your wisdom can support you to tell your child that no matter what your mother is, her mother loves you, and no matter how you are, her mother has the strength to protect you, and then the child's worries will be put down.

In fact, the child who said this sentence should have been sensible, but he still subconsciously relied on his mother, I think this is a manifestation of fear, afraid that you are old, afraid that the person closest to you will die, afraid that when you wake up, you won't see that person, that feeling, I don't want to experience it.

You can say, "We are all human beings, so we all have birth, old age, sickness and death." Don't worry, if your mother gets old early, she will tell you if it's good or not.

I know that there is no basis for this, because my age is inversely proportional to the age of my children. When your children are growing up, you are also getting older, but the world of children is still big with you, so I think that if you don't make one thing complicated, it is to tell your children that people will be born, old, sick and die. You've just experienced life and old age now, and there's more to go through in the future.

So don't worry, kids.

You can also say: If your mother is old, it means that your child is growing up, and you will be as happy as your mother. Although we don't know what the child's life will be like in the future, it is very important for monofilament to give your child a good look, if you are happy, I will be happy.

I'm getting old, just because you're growing, and I'm just using my own age to bring you some simple goodness. You must be happy.

In fact, this question is very sad, I believe that when every child asks this question, they are worried that their mother is changing when they are not a little prepared, but everyone is getting old. So you can also say that I'm just giving you an experience with my face, and you'll be like me in the future, just better looking than me. In this case, I think I can still comfort the child.