What should I do if I am confused about the future I want?

It's normal for people to have moments of confusion, and I'm often periodically confused. There may be many reasons for confusion, but the most common one for me is because I don't know what to do because my goal is vague. So for me, it's also a great time to wake up to myself.

Then I'll take my situation as an analysis. <>

Confusion usually makes people feel frustrated, and what I need most at this time is a pot of chicken soup. So, I will read some inspirational books, spend a few hours quickly flipping through one or two, and then regain full energy.

After drinking enough chicken soup, I start to think, what is the reason for the confusion? What choice is in front of me? What does each choice mean to me? Do I have to pay anything? Can I do it?

After a comprehensive analysis, a decision is made. Many times, too many ideas can also cause us to be confused. Therefore, it is especially important for us to make a firm decision.

Once you've made your decision, it's time to make a plan. Sometimes the idea is always perfect, but only a detailed and specific executable goal can make us feel clear. So, we need to break down the big goals and then make a concrete plan that can be implemented.

The best way to get lost is to take action. Action makes us feel fulfilling, and even if it's trial and error, it's a great experience. <>

Always full of energy, growing, I'm always on the road. --Lin Xiaoqi.

Of course, it is to find a way to change, and remember that there are many people in this world who are confused every day, and no one will care at all, because successful people simply don't have time to deal with you.

If you feel lost, the first thing you need to do is to change your mind and try to give yourself psychological cues so that you are no longer confused. Because confusion is addictive, it will often appear in your life, once you encounter a problem, you will be confused, so that you can't extricate yourself, you will feel anxious, you don't know what to do, therefore, you must find a way to change your mind, let yourself understand that confusion can not solve the problem, only change can let yourself have a future.

After changing your mind, you need to do things down-to-earth. First of all, you must have a precise goal, and only with a goal will you have the direction to work hard and the motivation to struggle. If you are a college student, you should determine your future career direction, and if you are a worker, you should strive for your family and life, and take family and life as the goal of struggle.

I think we should not struggle blindly, but should have a focused and planned struggle, such as writing a plan for ourselves, this is very effective, whether it is a student or a worker, you think that those large companies will have a plan before doing something, or before the start of a new year or quarter, so that they can develop and work. In the end, it is necessary to improve yourself, not only with the original ability to struggle, otherwise you will not be confused, so you must fully study and improve your ability and knowledge and skills, so that you will struggle more smoothly.

Confusion is not a bad thing, it is a reminder that you need to change, so when you feel lost, you must study and struggle, and remember that successful people do not have time to be confused.

Whose future is not confused! Let's talk about me, a college professional nursing, now in an internship, just stepped into the hospital door to contact the clinical found that the salary is tired and low, I don't want to do this in the future, I can't even support myself, but I think I don't know anything, what can I do in the future, I am not a strong woman, I have no extraordinary IQ, EQ. Seeing that your teacher is still working seriously on the post, thinking and thinking, it is not terrible to be confused about your future, no matter how confused you are, it is useless in the future, do a good job in the present, walk and walk, you will find that your vision is gradually clear, and the future you want is getting closer and closer, or you will change the future you wanted before and reformulate the future, and it is getting closer and closer, so it is enough to do a good job in the present.