How long did it take for you to come out after your ex left?

Two years. I think I just came out some time ago. Because I suddenly found that what I seemed to like was only the one I was back then, not the one I am now. So I looked down on it and let it go.

In the two years after separation, I always thought of him intermittently. Sometimes you don't think about him for a long time, and you will let yourself think that you have put him down. But after a while, I will start to think of him more frequently.

My best friend is also very helpless, I let go of it after listening to me for a while, and then I hear me say that I often think of his ......It's always like this.

Every time I feel like I'm starting to forget about him, but in the middle of the night, he still falls into my dreams.

In the past two years, I have been contacting him intermittently. In the first year, I was really unwilling. Because of my so-called "still like", I let myself become more and more humble. But even so, it didn't save that relationship.

We were able to see each other every day for a year. Staying together in a space of dozens of square meters, but there is no way to say a word. But it doesn't seem to be so exaggerated, because, occasionally, I can take advantage of my position to say a few words. But those words have nothing to do with "we".

I confess that I have resented him, even hated him. But all the grievances are less than half of my liking for him. That's why I'm going to "turn my face faster than a book" in this year. A few minutes ago, I was still hating him and scolding him, but after a while, I silently went over to talk to him ......

Then we weren't in the same place anymore and I thought I'd slowly let go. However, I still added his QQ very uselessly. I didn't dare to disturb him, I didn't dare to say anything more to him. Because I'm afraid he'll delete me again.

It wasn't until some time ago that he talked to me for a long time that I suddenly woke up.

My sadness may not be because he is gone, but because the appearance I like is gone.

Whoever says liking someone is for no reason. When I liked him back then, it was because he had a lot of good qualities in him that I liked, or rather, he lived the way I liked. But then he changed.

I found that he no longer had the things I used to love.

And I also understood that what I was thinking and thinking in my heart was just what he used to be from beginning to end.

The person I like has stopped in the past, I can't stop, it's me who is not good, I can't do anything about it. But it's okay, fortunately I woke up in time and didn't mistakenly like the person I am now.

It's been two years, and now I'm finally coming out. Although I still feel nostalgic for the past occasionally, I don't waste time on him anymore, and I don't have hope for him anymore. All the experiences he had before and with him were beautiful, and all of this was just about us at that time.

For half a month, I felt that I was too decadent, and let it pass in the past, which was considered to be open.

I haven't been able to come out after my loved ones left, and that relationship is really hard to forget.

It's about a month, and if you don't contact or meet for a month, and if you don't send text messages, your relationship should fade. The sinking of a relationship often begins with silence. The two of them never said anything to have nothing to say, and sometimes they didn't need any special reason, but I didn't want to speak, and you didn't care anymore, and slowly, our relationship faded like this.

Love doesn't know when it was so far away, it became unattainable, and since the separation, love has begun to be as untouchable as the shining stars in the starry sky. Although I once had it, everything was like the past, and it became a memory!

Maybe in the past, you would contact every day, a text message, a **, can make you feel the other party's concern. But I don't know when he stopped texting you and stopped calling you, obviously he was in your friends list, but he was like a stranger who had never met.

Sometimes, the strangeness after familiarity is more painful than never met. Do you know? For a relationship, it is not a pity to pass by, but it is a real pity that you once loved so passionately, but in the end you have to separate coldly.

If you like someone very much, don't hold it in your heart, because there are some things that you don't say, and he really can't guess; If you really want to be nice to someone, don't snub him, because disappointment accumulates little by little, he will leave and you will lose.

Never underestimate a person's determination to go with you, perhaps, from the moment he is with you, he has decided to face everything in the future with you, whether it is bitter or sweet, as long as you are still there, he will always love. In the relationship, the most feared thing is to be snubbed, and to extinguish the other party's confidence in loving you with endless silence. Some people, compared to the recovery after loss, have always cherished, is the best protection.

1. The person you really love is something you can't forget for the rest of your life.

He is my youth, he is my poison, he is also my honey, he made me taste all the ups and downs of the world, and then when I thought of these tastes, I also thought of him by the way, I also confessed to my husband, in this life, I really can't forget him, but it doesn't mean that I haven't let go.

He has really appeared in the orbit of your life, so how can you forget it!

You don't have to forget, but you must learn to let go, let the past pass, some people are destined to have no part, even if time can come back, you still can't go to the end, it's better to leave a good memory.

2 But it didn't take long to dry up the tears and forget about it.

When I just broke up, I also thought that maybe my life was coming to an end, but crying and crying, I found that I was not so sad, and going out for a walk was really helpful for falling out of love.

This is also a small method that I have summarized!

After a woman fell out of love, she cried hard, cried hard, and vented all the dissatisfaction and unwillingness in her heart, and she was relieved. I think women should have a lot of love, and they will be more broken than men after falling out of love, but after the collapse, they can start over.

There must be memories, but it's not so much that I still think about it at night, isn't it just a loss of love! One small thing.

After breaking up with your ex, how do you get out quickly? First of all, we must re-understand and look at the breakup. Second, one should learn from the pain and find a way to completely disconnect with one.

Also, out of sight, out of mind, give yourself some time and slowly forget about him. There is no silver bullet in the world that can ease grief, and if you want to ease the pain of falling out of love, you have to learn to let go.

First, we should recognise and look at breakups. Everyone feels a lot of pain after falling out of love because they work really hard and give for each other with a great heart. However, when you're in the center of your pain shattering, why not think about the opposite?

Maybe this breakup will give you a sigh of relief. In other words, a breakup not only has a bad side, but it can also bring you a good side. Because no matter who proposed the breakup, it shows one thing:

Your relationship may have been in trouble for a long time, and this breakup will free you from this unhappy relationship.

Second, we should learn from the pain and find a way to completely disconnect from our predecessors. If you really want to get out of the haze of a breakup, the most important thing is to do everything possible to separate from him. Now that the breakup is a foregone conclusion, the best option is to accept it calmly and avoid causing secondary damage to yourself.

Some people can't get rid of the past for a long time after a breakup, the reason is that they broke up and will constantly browse each other's circle of friends and check the chat history over and over again. Therefore, the best way to stop getting stuck in the past is to try every means to disconnect from the past. Delete all the information about him and throw away what he gives you.

At this stage, if you want to ** emotionally hurt, you should clear all things related to the other person.

Third, out of sight and out of mind, give yourself some time and slowly forget about him. During this time, you will find yourself with other things to do, such as shopping, traveling, sports, and so on. In short, do what you usually want to do but don't have time for, buy what you want to buy but don't want to buy.

As long as you enrich your life, all misfortunes will pass away with the wind. There's nothing you can't live with. So we want to thank the one who has abandoned you and bless him because he has given you a new opportunity to find happiness.

If you feel that after breaking up with your ex, you can't enter the next relationship, you can work harder, and make work a focus of your life.

You should divert your attention and go out shopping with friends. You should also talk to your friends, you should talk to your loved ones, and you should also like people who are more worthy of your liking.

You can do something you like, and you should keep yourself busy, so that it is easier to forget about your ex and you can get out faster.

Personally, I think that if you break up with your ex and want to get out quickly, then you can't continue to miss your previous life and learn to accept new things.

It took me a year to let go of my ex.

Two people can be together, that's because there is a good relationship between the two people, and both parties are also very happy with each other. But two people separate, that's because they have encountered some contradictions or two people are not suitable. I also broke up with my ex and it took me a year or so to let go of my ex.

A year is a short time to say, and a long time is also a long time, but it is the most important thing to let go, because only letting go can make both parties better.

One: I had a very good relationship with my ex before.

The reason why my ex and I are together is because we still have a very good relationship, and we will also carry suspicions with each other, and we are each other's favorite debaters. And it took me a year to let go of my ex, so I still have feelings for each other during this year, so I can say that the relationship between the two of us is still very good. But in the end, I chose to break up because the two people were not suitable.

Then after a year, I slowly let go of my ex, and this time was also a very tiring time. <>

Two: A year is actually not a long time.

It only takes a day for someone to forget their ex, and it may take a few months for the average person, but no matter how much time, as long as you can let go of your ex, then these times are not too long. As long as two people don't have a chance to get back together, then they must let go of their ex, so that they are responsible for themselves and each other. If I can let go of my ex, then it will be worth as much time as I want, so a year is not too long.

Three: What is my personal opinion?

In fact, it may be beautiful in a relationship, or it may cause both parties to break up for some reasons. If you break up, then you must let go of your ex, which is the best. It took me a year to completely let go of my ex, which also shows my relationship with the other party, and also shows the degree of liking, but no matter what, the ex is the ex after all, and it must be completely let go, so I still have to take the time to completely let go of the ex, so I am responsible for myself and the other party.

It took me about half a year to put down the key of my ex, and I was very sad when I just broke up, and every time I thought of my predecessor in the chain, I was in pain, and then I slowly let go.

It took about a year or so to let go of the lover who sold himself and was patient, because he still liked him very much in his heart when he broke up, but in the middle of the spring, Lao Yuan had to separate for some reason.

It took me about two years to let go of my ex completely, and during that time I would be focusing on my work.

It takes a long time to get out completely, and it will take at least half a year, so as long as you don't think about each other, you can get out quickly.

After encountering the next relationship, you can completely come out, you can go to parties with friends, and you can meet different people of the opposite sex.

You can choose the time and the new love. In this way, you can forget, you can know some other people of the opposite sex in your life, divert your attention, and you can forget about each other. It is also possible to come out completely.

To start a new life positively, you can try to meet new people, to enrich your life, you can choose sports, shopping, travel to enrich yourself.

1. Thank you, thank you from the bottom of my heart! Thank you for your company and dedication, when we were not in a place before, we like to keep round-trip tickets, used ** silver cards and mobile phone information, there are always endless expectations and surprises every day, so that the young days are full and happy. It's a pity that these things were burned by us when we broke up, because we said that if we want to divide, we will divide it chicly and resolutely, without leaving a trace of regret; Second, thank you for your generosity and tolerance, in the month of youth and publicity, I am like a hedgehog with teeth and claws, you are not afraid of injury, remind me when I swell, tolerate me when I am angry, let me have pride and arrogance and no inferiority complex, and give me the care of growth in obscurity; 3. Thank you for your understanding and letting go.

Four years is a heavy effort, you know I'm tired, and you know I can't stay, so when I propose to break up, you seem so calm, just offer to go to the last movie together, eat the last meal, and come back to deal with the past together. It was a long day, the sky was overcast, the clouds were thick, and it didn't rain until about three o'clock in the evening, as if it was a rebirth.

2. I'm glad I left you this morning. Maybe we didn't know whether we were suitable for each other at the time, but after so many years, looking back, it turned out that the truth was so clear, and the personalities, hobbies and families of the two were so incompatible. It wasn't until now that I found my other half that I realized that the two of them could have such a tacit understanding and that life could be so happy.

I don't know if you're ** now, we haven't seen each other again, please take care.

3. With a curse in my heart, I hope that you will live one day at a time, and the people you are looking for are not as good as one. This sentence is not what I want to say, but some people should want to say it, especially the party who has been broken up, they are not ready in their hearts, and there are expectations and hopes. In fact, many people are very emotional, and once the relationship is put in, it is difficult to get out, and there are endless thoughts after the breakup.

They tried to dial that familiar number countless times and felt that they were cheap, countless times they pretended to be indifferent in front of outsiders, and when they came home, they still couldn't breathe in pain and wet their eyes with tears. Only when they saw the familiar him hugging a strange her with their own eyes did they really feel the loss and inability of fate.

In any case, since it is a former to indicate that it is already in the past tense, even if there are a thousand reasons why you can't forget him, you don't have an identity to approach him. Let's bury this pain deep in our hearts, silently endure silent habits and then silently forget. The wheel of history is rolling forward, life has to go on, we must quickly come out of the world of the predecessor and make room for the present, whether it is with a grateful heart or a cursed heart, this is the minimum respect for the incumbent, and it is also responsible for their own life.

The twisted melon is not sweet, the fate is over, we need to let go of it, we need to empty our mood and set off again to pick up the beauty of life.