What kind of pain do you think will help you grow?

Experiencing painful things, for me, should be downplayed. I'm not very old, but maybe I don't know how to cater to me, maybe I'm always pursuing my own heart, maybe I'm withdrawn, or maybe others see me as a bully. I had very bad things happen to me at different times in my childhood, adolescence, and youth, which caused people to talk about me everywhere.

Every time, I can meet people of a very high rank who target me, exclude me, or even slander me. The more I have experienced, the more loyal I am to my heart, others bully me, I will fight back, others target me, I will find an opportunity to return it to him (her). I don't want to believe words that are good to people, and I don't want to believe that good things are good for people.

Now I can play well with others, and I can also be loyal to my heart, and I clearly know that many people are lackluster friends, and I will deliberately let people talk about my bad in the unit. Now, I take a lot of things very lightly, and on the surface I am also a very difficult person to get along with, but I know that if it is sincere, I will definitely cherish it even more.

We often hear people say, "Thank you for the hardships in my life, they have made me stronger." "In film and television dramas, there are often people who make things difficult for the protagonists, making them suffer a lot, and finally say a word when they are whitewashed:

How can you see a rainbow without wind and rain? All these sufferings you suffer will be a precious treasure in your life! "This pain" is wealth, and we should be grateful for it.

The argument is accepted and appreciated by everyone as a matter of course, and it seems that suffering is a good thing, necessary for our growth, and even worth pursuing. But Chai Jing once said: "Pain is wealth, this is nonsense."

Pain is pain, and thinking about pain is wealth. ”

The growth of people is not smooth sailing, will be subject to a variety of restrictions and constraints, at this time we should settle down, quiet self-cultivation, thrift to cultivate morality, think about life, accumulate strength, only in this way to start again, but also more resilient. The flowers in the greenhouse can not bear the wind and rain, the wind and rain of life is inevitable, we are fluttering in the wind and rain, the wind and rain are miserable, the wind and rain are miserable and miserable, the wind and rain are desolate and desolate, but we are in the same boat through wind and rain, rain or rain, and when we see the rainbow, we have grown.

Growing up means figuring out a lot of things in an instant, making up your mind and taking action to change yourself. How can human growth be proved without the background of pain? In the process of suffering, people will think about the happiness of the past!

While happiness and pain are opposites, so is natural practice. People will grow, gain virtue, and learn lessons!

I will look down on a lot of things, I will slow down my pace, I want to look at every grass and tree I pass by, and I deeply understand the concept of being plain and bland, life is very short, it is difficult to go once, and be kind to the people around you to live to understand the gratitude.

Pain is not a necessary or sufficient condition for growth. It is possible to grow without pain, and just because there is a lot of pain does not mean that you will grow. The essence of growth is learning. Suffering alone does not allow you to grow, what you learn from suffering is the key to growth.

Growing up is never easy, but it's not that difficult, you will feel pain at the beginning of maturity, it is a transition period, after the end you will slowly get used to it, you have to believe that people are very powerful creatures, you can get used to many things.

I feel that going through some of the pain that I had previously had a hard time with is the only way to help people grow.

No pain can make people grow, but it will wear out his dependence and illusions, and understand the reality more clearly, I have a classmate, who can be said to be a rich second generation, who spends money lavishly, and then the family company went bankrupt, not long ago I saw him, as a small clerk in a company, did you say he grew up, I don't think so, I just think he recognized the reality.

His family left, his career failed, everything didn't go well, and he left his hometown alone.

I think that experiencing the pain of falling in love and slowly growing up after falling out of love is of great significance to life.

There are many times when we are trapped by life, and how often we also want to have our own world, not grow up, and live innocently and simply, but we can't. Time pushes us forward step by step, we don't look back, but we have to move forward.

The pain of falling out of love will be of great help to one's life experience.

Time flies, the sun and the moon are like a shuttle, time always slips away from our fingertips inadvertently, and it is our growth that accompanies it in a hurry.

I have asked many people what it means to grow up? They told me that growing up is about being strong, being brave and taking on ......We may all experience these as the years go by, but I never understood what it meant to be truly grown. Until one day a sentence on my phone gave me the answer.

Growing up is the process of muting your cry. ”

When we were young, we could cry out loud to vent our frustration because of a toy, a bag of potato chips, or even a word of unhappiness. At that time, someone will coax you, someone will let you. But now you have to restrain your tears, restrain your grievances, and restrain your unhappiness, because no one will pay for your sadness, let alone be kind to you because of pity.

When you are accustomed to the intrigue in the workplace, when you taste the heat and coldness of the society, you really understand that "the rivers and lakes don't believe in tears." ”

Growth is a journey with no end, there are no signposts on the road, you can only keep moving forward. After walking through one fork in the road, turning one bend after another, the scenery along the road, and the sign that passers-by teach you to grow up is "When it's time to use your brain, don't be emotional." ”

The person you love the most hurts you the most. On the road to growth, we may be lost, scared, and overwhelmed, but we must always keep ourselves awake. The fog in front of you will cover your eyes, but not your heart.

What the heart thinks is what the brain thinks, and at any time do not let everything in front of you disturb the peace of the heart. But man is a creature who is good at making mistakes, and some things can only be felt hard and unforgettable when they are experienced. On the road to growth, always remember that when it is time to use your brain, don't be emotional.

It will be a signpost on your way, even if you can't see it, but it will still guide you in the direction of your heart.

Growth is the process of tempering life, and along the way, we have changed out of one outfit after another, lost some and picked up some. Because there is a cause, so there is a so, since it has become a so, why bother to say why. Life is so helpless, it won't stop because of your willfulness.

Growth is the only thing we can do against life.

The process of growing up is very painful and tormenting, flashy in the world, we learn to wear masks and be human, and we are very noisy, but we find that we are gradually distancing ourselves from the pure land in our hearts. Pretending to smile as if nothing had happened is not giving up, but maturing. The older I get, the more I learn to go with the flow, I don't want to keep anything, I believe that what should be there will not go, and let go is to move forward better.