How to manage the love of two people?

Love requires mutual love, mutual care, mutual understanding and support between men and women. Life is a long road, to find a lover who loves each other, it is not easy, the premise of managing love is that both parties are willing to maintain this relationship in their hearts, if they don't want to live with each other in their hearts, no matter how to manage it is just reluctant.

The most in life is trivial chores, after a long time, a little carelessness will cause a lot of conflicts, at this time it is necessary for both parties to restrain their emotions, think about the consequences when they want to scold, think about each other.

The first thing is to trust each other and be honest with each other. Secondly, we should understand each other and be more tolerant.

Respect, honesty and keeping it fresh are probably the third needs of love, and the others need to be understood by themselves.

Go to the countryside more, travel, parent-child activities, increase the emotional exchange between family members, communicate more, many things will develop the habit of communication, and when encountering conflicts, you can also communicate effectively.

In fact, men and women who fall in love also have to know their own love methods, so both parties in love must know how to advance and retreat, so that they can reach an agreement with each other, men and women should adjust themselves in time, and never blindly be strong or show weakness, which are the two extremes of feelings.

Mutual understanding and respect. It is very important to be able to control your emotions, but also not to ask for too much emotional value, to be understanding and respectful. If you want a better life, two people love each other, and life will be more satisfying.

A good love is built on a material basis. And the best way to love someone is to manage yourself well and give each other a high-quality lover.

There is no inherently suitable love in the world, only the result of the run-in after the two people get to know each other, see if it is suitable or not. Love is not born who is suitable for whom, only two people can be happy when they run in with each other, understand each other, tolerate each other, and love each other.

In the process of two people falling in love, it is easy to have a burnout period after a long time together, so at this time, both parties need to communicate more, understand each other's inner thoughts, make adjustments and changes, so as to make the relationship sweet again, combined with my own experience, and share a few methods with friends.

1. Strengthen communication and exchanges with each other.

Many times when we do something, we don't take the initiative to tell each other, and there is no communication between the two, which often leads to misunderstandings in many things, and finally causes an irreparable situation. Only by communicating their ideas with each other in a timely manner can two people better understand each other.

2. Understand each other.

It's true that there is no empathy in this world.,Miskin, but we can understand each other.。 When two people get along, they need to think about each other and don't impose their own will on each other. Only by understanding and tolerating each other can two people get along better.

3. Be tolerant of each other.

When two people are together, you should not only appreciate each other's strengths, but also tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. Everyone has their own habits and shortcomings, so don't blindly blame others. Two people are together to help each other and constantly improve themselves.

No matter what the other party has lacking, we have to go to the town to be tolerant and accepting, and then we all work together to change.

4. Rely on each other.

Since two people are together, if they want to get along for a long time, the most important thing is to trust and rely on each other, if both people can't trust each other and rely on each other, then being together will only make each other very tired. We are looking for someone to be able to face all the storms together, not all the storms are brought by the other party.

5. Praise each other.

Anyone likes to be praised by others, because it is an encouragement and recognition of the other person, and no one does not like to listen to good words, and complimenting each other can promote the relationship between the two very well.

1. Share your childhood.

In the childhood life of each of us, we hide the influence of our original family on us, and share our childhood with our close partner, not only to share our childhood happiness and troubles, but also to let each other enter our own childhood to experience our own happiness and sorrow.

When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other person has formed such a personality and temper.

It seems that this good answer is a process of sharing, and it is also the fastest way to let the other party into your heart.

2. Make rules for love.

Formulate love rules that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is necessary to include not only the mode of getting along with two people, but also the mechanism of stopping the war between two people.

Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.

A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether or not this rule is specially formulated, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.

3. Share hobbies.

Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.

Because boys' interest is to play games, while girls' interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.

Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.

So share your interests and hobbies, let the other party understand deeply, he (she) can not like it, but must understand.

4. Talk about each other's view of love.

The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.

The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and how to deal with problems when they arise.

This requires the two of you to have a deep emotional foundation, to be able to consider the problem from each other's point of view, to tolerate and understand each other, and the relationship can be maintained for a longer time.

In reality, almost all the first round of quarrels started by couples are related to the contradictions that gradually emerge after the love period has passed.

For example, when you first start in a relationship, you will want to tolerate each other's shortcomings, and after the love period, you will feel that you can't bear it no matter what. When you first start in love, you will want to give him all kinds of space and time, and after the hot love period, you will want him to give you more company

So after the love period, we are most likely to have a problem: the gap in expectations.

In good times, there are all kinds of good expectations for the relationship, but after the expectations are broken, there is a huge sense of disillusionment in the heart, which will make us feel unbearable, so many couples who have passed the love period are most likely to feel that the other party does not love them anymore, and they will either endure it and try again, or they will completely deny the relationship and want to separate

And I think that the real emotional relationship only begins after the love period, at this time, if the two people can't learn to deal with the problems in the relationship after the disillusionment period, and can't accept the real side of each other, then it is difficult to continue to walk together, after all, love has to face the most real side of the other party, so what should be done? I think at this time, you and him should maintain a principle, that is, to communicate and solve feelings.

For example, when some girls find that their boyfriend is not as active as when they first got together, and he begins to focus only on his work again, then we may be very aggrieved in our hearts and feel that he has changed, and even some girls who are easily upset will feel that their boyfriend is hinting to them to break up, should they take the initiative to separate first?

But in fact, this is because after you have gone through the period of passionate love, your passion has cooled down, your reason has regained its dominance, and people will start to pay attention to your part again. And if the relationship can develop, it is not only from your own point of view, but from your own perspective to combine the needs of the other half, so that the relationship can meet the common needs of the two of you, so it is very important to communicate each other's emotional needs

If you want him to give you more company, tell him frankly, if he can't do it, you have to analyze the reasons together, after all, companionship is the most basic need in the relationship, we can use the idea of open dialogue to talk to him about the future development of the relationship, and if each other is not confident, how to develop the relationship?

The best result is that you can find the direction of future development, although there is no feeling of love, but each other can re-find the need to meet the development of the relationship, a long-term relationship is a relationship in which one goal after another is repeatedly completed, without direction, it is difficult for the relationship to go far.

If you want to manage the relationship between two people, then you must understand each other, support each other, help each other, understand each other more, and consider problems from each other's point of view.