I am an abandoned baby and now have a personality disorder, low self esteem, autism, and a paranoid

What a poor child, who raised you, it's not easy! I don't know how you're doing now, don't put a hat on yourself, I feel like you're a little depressed, I don't know if you usually have friends to talk to? I feel sorry for you, and I hope you can take care of yourself and find resources around you to help you!

You can realize that these mean that you want to change, change the environment of your life, contact a wider group of people and communicate with others, these will be of great help to you, and you must pay attention to yourself, you can't discriminate against yourself because of your background, everyone has their own value in life, you don't have to care so much about a lot of gossip, there is no need to live for other people's words, you are you, prove yourself with your actions, and be kind to yourself. There is always someone who can understand you.

It should not be caused by the pressure of a bad birth situation. Actually, you also realize that this is not good. Then look away, adjust your mentality, face life bravely, be optimistic and positive, why should you care about other people's opinions and actions in this matter.

If you can't change your birth, then change your future life, live well, study hard, improve yourself, and walk out of a wonderful life!

Children, it's okay, your heart must be open, you must care about the eyes of others, and you just need to live a happy life.

You can truly recognize yourself, which many people can't do, and you can realize your own shortcomings, which means that you have unlimited potential.

You are kind and filial, what a noble virtue.

You can only force yourself to get along with others, and after a long time it becomes a habit and everything will be fine.

Tsk, it's obvious to escape, you should face the world head-on, everyone in this world knows that it's very vulgar, it's sad, but there's no way, this is the reality, is it okay to escape into the empty door? There will be no change in this world, if you really want to be independent, just find an independent person as a friend, let him teach you in the future, you have to have heart, perseverance and perseverance, you always choose to escape and give up, you will never achieve anything.

Make more friends, go out and have fun, be positive and happy, and don't think too much about uselessness.

It's all the same, but everyone has to grow up, and when you have time, be filial to them.

This idea is wrong, you should improve if you know what you are lacking, instead of feeling sorry for yourself.

I have a similar personality to you, so I recommend interacting with people more. Be optimistic and honor your parents! Focus on studies and careers! Later you will get what you want! It's going to be fine!

It is a sign of self-confidence, and to change this situation, the only way to change this situation is to build self-confidence and overcome low self-esteem. First of all, we must improve our self-expectations, be good at discovering our strengths, and learn to affirm ourselves. Practice smiling in the mirror often, exercise your inner strength, and say to yourself every day:

I'm the best. It is recommended to attend various gatherings frequently, try to take the initiative to talk to strangers, and boldly look into the eyes of the other person when talking, and have the courage to express yourself and expand your social circle. Everyone in the world is equal, there is no need to feel inferior at all, believe in yourself, you are the best, come on.

I'm similar to you, but not as serious as you, it is recommended that you make friends with the people around you first, and slowly establish a deep relationship, in fact, the world is still beautiful, be brave to talk to others, don't be afraid that others will not like you.

Learn to trust others, don't lock yourself up, how is your relationship with your parents?

Well, I'm also an introvert, and I can understand how you feel in your heart.

You can think back to your childhood, when you were not introverted, the feeling of being cheerful.

Be curious, be just curious about everything, so that when you are curious, you will be able to muster up the courage to think about what others are talking about.

Determine to become cheerful and sunny, don't give up, from introverted to cheerful is a difficult and long road, to start from little by little, be patient, even if what you do is not to meet the needs of your heart, don't give up, this is slowly growing.

There are many strains in the life of the strains that understand in silence.

For example, a woman is arguing with a vegetable seller because the woman thinks the food is not fresh and expensive. Why did they quarrel?

In fact, this woman wants to exchange low output for high returns, and the vegetable seller wants to exchange low costs for high profits...

This kind of multi-faceted thinking about life is a great help for introverts to understand other people.

I typed a lot of words...

Have time to listen to the light **, don't have time? Nonono, you'll always find the time.

One of the things that changed me the most was watching anime - One Piece, well, yes, although it's a Japanese anime, he's really inspiring, and I hope that this proposal of mine can create a sunny person, not a simple pirate fan.

After typing for so long, I realized that you were asking if you were sick... I'm a lot like you, don't be cold there. Laugh one

Always tell yourself to be able to say hello, thank you, you're welcome; It's like sometimes you want someone to get a response.

It's summer, the blue sky, white clouds, and the sun, and the new seedlings are coming out, so watch and rest while growing.

It's a lot of fun

If you really work what you think in your heart, then anything can be achieved.

I hope you'll read it word for word, dear

If you want to improve, I sincerely recommend that you consult a psychiatrist, our answers, our suggestions, can not help you, just like the upstairs said, to have confidence in yourself and so on, in fact, you understand, so long, how do you not know the problem, you have not changed, what causes you not to change, or do not have the motivation to change. I really can't help you with this, you should seek help from a psychologist!

You can tell if you're feeling sick or not, but at least you're not happy with it. If so, try counselling and may be able to help you get out of the situation.

Most people will feel this way, but most of it is because you have not found the right way to deal with people, it is recommended that you read more related psychological books, enlighten yourself more, and find a positive outlet for yourself, such as running or something.

To conquer fear and overcome inferiority, we must not talk about it and stop at fantasy, but must put it into practice and see it in action. The quickest and most effective way to build self-confidence is to do what you're afraid of until you succeed. You should keep your head high, walk briskly, practice speaking in public, and learn to smile.

You are not sick in your heart, it may be that you are too inferior in your heart, believe that you are not worse than others, try this to socialize with the people around you first.

It can only be said that you are not socially experienced and naïve enough.

If you have children to take care of, a wife to take care of, and an elderly person to take care of, can you not be more expressive?

You mainly don't believe in yourself, go out to work and work with colleagues everywhere, believe in yourself you can do it.

Have faith in yourself, be open and communicate with others... It's good if it's been a long time.

Seeing your problem, I thought of a colleague of mine, but he regretted it--- I also regretted that I couldn't help him at that time, he always had someone in his heart to talk to him, he didn't like to talk to us, and then he behaved very seriously. It should be said that it is a problem in the heart, but the people say that it is possessed.

The solution is to focus on one thing, such as what to study or do, without leaving yourself free time, and to force yourself to be single-minded. But it's hard to do, and it takes a long time, depending on your faith. That's how I met a middle school student, and she didn't get better until a few years later.

The best thing to do is to be religious, because it will soon be good to have a single-minded mind.

Ignore the long compilations ahead. Your problem is very simple, that is, you have developed inappropriate thinking habits since childhood, and the result is back to the present.

Answer: Consequence. Can this habit be changed? It's hard to say, it seems that all (bad) habits are not so easy to break. This kind of psychological problem, if you think it's serious, it's serious. If you think it's insignificant, it's insignificant.

Neurosis may be that there is too much pressure in life and study, and it's okay to pay attention to regulating your emotions.

Why do you type so many words upstairs, I don't want to play so much, hehe, are you watching too much TV, it's often like this on TV, I suggest you calm down, take a break at dinner, sing and sing (I can't sing, I'm teaching you, others call me the god of song and say I'm born in the wrong place, I'm going to go to the fast man challenge) dancing, and having a few girlfriends.

1. Relax yourself.

Reply, listen more lightly**.

2. Look at the photo albums made in your childhood and find yourself!

3Try to communicate with friends and talk about stress!

4Try not to respond to the voice in your heart, always remind yourself that you are too tired, that is abnormal, whenever this time, choose to close your eyes and listen to **.

5 A month or so, you will have a significant improvement, and before you know it, you will recover as before, completely fine!

You're obsessive-compulsive. It is a kind of psychological suggestion.

This cause occurs frequently.

It may be due to the fact that the current situation of your life is not up to your satisfaction.

Thus producing the state of vision.

In fact, most people will have a heart-to-heart conversation.

Funny、、、It's too stressful, relax, need to relax], listen**, please listen**.

You are bai not alone du for a long time I am like this, working outside, dao lives alone, there are no local dedicated friends, nothing to do.

In the dormitory, I got into the habit of talking to myself, and I think it's quite fun, because I used to be able to divide myself into two people, but now I can divide it into three people

In fact, it's normal for you to be like this, just like a brother upstairs said, some people just think about it, and we will concretize such ideas, that is, a question and an answer or something, for example, I should work, but I want to see **, I will be like this A: Discuss, let's see how ** is at work, B: Okay, but the work must be done today.

Oh, that's how it sounds, others must think it's scary, but I actually think it's normal, just a little naïve and boring.

Hello! See a psychiatrist.

It is recommended to watch the movie "A Beautiful Mind" to figure it out.

If the enemy is strong and I am weak, if I am strong, he will be weak!

It means that you and your colleagues are not familiar with each other.

You go home and let go of yourself completely.

It's because you are familiar with everyone in the family.

Wait until you and your colleagues get acquainted.

I believe that the same will be very cheerful.

As long as you know yourself correctly and can look at others and yourself holistically, you will feel that you are not so bad, but that you may feel that you are not in the best state or care too much about what others think or think. And other people's opinions or ideas are often one-sided, causing you to have an unnecessary sense of inferiority.

A person should have a correct understanding of himself, because people's personalities are very different, and they should understand their own strengths and weaknesses. Learning to build on your strengths and avoid your weaknesses will help you develop your own unique self-confidence. People are constantly changing and developing, and we need to constantly update and constantly improve our understanding of ourselves in order to make ourselves better and more perfect.

To understand ourselves correctly, we must look at ourselves from a comprehensive and developmental perspective. Therefore, people especially need to be full of self-confidence to accomplish their goals and careers. You can be strong.

First of all, you have to have self-confidence, think that you can do anything, and only realize that through your own efforts, you will definitely be able to achieve your goals. Mentally confirm that you can do it, and cheer yourself up. As long as you are mentally prepared, you will not be held back by the slightest difficulty.

Believe in it, and you will be able to complete the task with confidence. The world is developing, the times are progressing, and people must also advance with the pace of the times. Human development goals are also changing from time to time.

As long as you overcome your inferiority complex, build self-confidence, and be the creator of your own happiness. As long as you have self-confidence, you can overcome any difficulties, and nothing will be difficult for you; You will succeed in your studies or career, and you will be the most promising young person.

When you have self-confidence, you also have to learn to make friends, only in the heartfelt words of friends can give you a comfort, a chance to speak boldly, an occasion to exercise you, so that you are not afraid of anyone, dare to express their opinions or suggestions, express their own opinions. Because friends can keep you away from loneliness, so that you can integrate into society and get happiness.

Life without friendship is bleak, just as the earth has lost its sun and has no brilliance. Life without friendship is boring, like a damp match, no matter how you rub it, you can't ignite the fire of hope in life. A life without friendship is incomplete.

How can a person who lives in the world understand the true joy of life without friends and without the care of friends?

Only a life full of friendship is full and meaningful. A philosopher once said: If two people share one pain, then there is only half pain; If two people share one happiness, they have two happiness.

When you are in a difficult situation, embarrassed and urgent, and suddenly receive sincere help from a friend, even if it is just an ordinary word of comfort and encouragement, how will you feel? Do you feel a happy release in your heart, feel a warm current rising from the bottom of your heart, and be full of confidence and energy? When you are happy and happy when you are successful, how will you feel when you receive the sincere blessing of your friends?

Whether or not you feel happy. Therefore, by boosting your self-confidence, you can eliminate the feeling of inferiority. How confident you feel!

If you regain your self-confidence and work at the same time, you're a strong man!