Relatives have the ability, they have opened their mouths once to ask for help, and there is no foll

You don't need to keep pestering and grinding, but you can remind you appropriately, maybe you forget, but you can't ask others to help because others have the ability, that's not his responsibility, if you really can't solve it, you can mention it appropriately, don't pester and grind.

Friend, that's not good. Even though it's a relative, it doesn't necessarily help. You may have differences in status, identity, and financial resources now, so you value this kinship, but the other party may not value it, if you are willing to help, maybe it will help you a long time ago.

Don't dwell on it, but remind the other person when appropriate.

Since he opened his mouth once, he didn't take action. Then you don't have to dwell on it all the time. Work yourself so that others can look down on you.

No need! Ken help! Or there is a way, I will help you a long time ago! Right! Find a way to solve it yourself, it's better to ask for others than for yourself, friend!

The tacit understanding of adults, you know what's going on in your own heart, don't tear down the steps. Everybody doesn't look good.

Those who say that people should have ambition and self-knowledge, they may not have experienced society, they don't know that society is a group society, and when we do projects, we go to contact with the supervisor, how many times have we invited people to dinner, and changed from strangers to friends. What's more, if you have a relative, why not open your mouth a few more times?

I believe that a stranger who asks your relatives for help can do it twice

Is it your own business or is it helping others? Why is there no afterword? Things are too difficult and complicated? Not capable? Or for other reasons.

Help, definitely help, next time you also ask them to help, you can also say that you want to start a business, ask them to borrow something, they don't help, you can talk next time.

So what do you think it means to be a friend? What does it mean to love someone? What does it mean to reply?

It's all the same, no matter how many of these words you say, in the end there is only one answer, you have money and ability, they all come to you, because you are useful, you have no money and no ability, they are far away from you, because they are afraid that you will take advantage of them.

Our two families are a bit similar, maybe it's harder than you to imagine it, it's okay if you want to open a little, they all look for you to help show that you are better than them, your dad likes to help them explain that you are in the middle of the feelings, good people, generous, this is also a realm, you should be happy and proud of your dad.

Actually, it's like you said. A lot of them have relatives in the countryside.

The family is basically like this, my situation is similar to yours, I come to you when I have something, I always think that the people in the city have too much money to use up, and the potential is unlimited, and you can say that you don't want to achieve success and money through your own efforts"Denied"You can torture yourself without doing what your father did. The older generation has their own principles of life, which cannot be changed, but you should also have your own principles!

What is easily obtained is what is not known and cherished.

Even if you want to help your cousin, you have to make him suffer a little, and you can't make him think that begging you to do something is so simple.

Now a lot of so-called relatives are like that, and they don't think it's easy to do it after a while, but they don't know how many people are asking for it, and how much money it costs.

Isn't it looking for a job, yes, at least you helped him, your dad was comforting, but take him with him, let him beg someone, let him invite someone to dinner, let him see how difficult it is, and let him and those relatives learn what it means to cherish, what it means to reciprocate, and what it means to be humane.

Yes, you are sick in the business, others don't know, or know that there is nothing you can do, and now thinking from the perspective of others, we all have difficult times.

The real world is like that. It doesn't matter if you want to admit that it is family affection or not. If a relative does the first year of junior high school, you can do fifteen. No one else can say anything.

Yes, this is a common disease of people, forgive them, after all, they are relatives, and when they are used in the future, as the saying goes, no one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, as a capable you, just want their good, read the feelings of relatives, good people must have good rewards.

Deal with it on the surface! There are more people like this, and when they ask you for help in the future, you won't do anything if it's not good.

Relatives, just admit it, just get by. But when they have something to ask for, they refuse and never drag their feet.

Why do you want to recognize them, when you are poor, they don't help you, they don't look at you, it means that they are the kind of villains who have the power eye, they see that you have the ability, they come to cling to you, they see your money and power, and now they are good to you, once you fall to the bottom again, they will be the first to fall into the well, so stay away from the scum and return yourself to a clean one.

Stay away from them, these are snobs. When you are down again, they will also leave you, and it is better for this kind of relatives not to recognize you. Only when you are in trouble, a true relative is a true relative.

People are like this, when you are good, you look up to you, and when you are bad, I can't wait to break up with you. You don't have to think a lot, just keep normal contacts, maybe there will be times when you need their help in the future, after all, you are still relatives, and it's not good to be too stiff.

This exposes cruel humanity! As for what you do to your relatives, follow your own heart. If you feel that you are still in a good mood with them, then it is okay to get along.

If it brings you unhappiness, then stay away from them! After going through so much, you should have learned to make your own choices!

This is the reality of this society, the poor in the downtown no one asks, and the rich in the deep mountains are visited. You can ignore such relatives, or you will show him up once. There will be many times in the future, and if you don't help once, then you will become a heinous person.

Haha, some relatives are so hypocritical, it doesn't matter, there is no need to fall out on the surface, they have difficulties looking for you, you don't need to care about them. Repay grievances with directness.

A lot of things have passed, don't think about the previous troubles, relatives are different from others, usually everyone can get by, sometimes many things are more serious and they are troubled.

As the saying goes, "No one asks about the poor in the city." Rich has distant relatives in the depths".

Most people are so realistic now. For this question you said. It's up to you to do it yourself.

You can come and go whenever you want. If you don't want to get along, there's no need to offend them. It's good to know by yourself.

Don't admit it, resolutely don't admit it, such relatives are selfish, and associating with them will only harm you.

It's up to you what you think, now the society is so realistic, the so-called poor are no one on the street, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. Now they are coming to you, and out of politeness you can deal with them, let them think for themselves.

Recognize what they do, they are all some power eyes, there is no money to hide from you, I am afraid that you will borrow money from them, and when you have money, you want to borrow some light from you, what do these people care about them, don't contact them if they are broken, no matter if relatives and friends can't pull you when you are poor, wait for you to come to you again, don't talk about family and friendship.

The things that are passable on the face indicate that they are not active and irresponsible.

The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor have no relatives in the downtown area, this is the reality of human nature.

The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor have no close neighbors in the downtown area, and this is the nature of human beings. Among these relatives, you can look at the relationship between distance and proximity, and if it is still necessary to continue to communicate, you can also do superficial exchanges.

Giving but not getting ...... in returnThose meals were for nothing......

When interacting with people, you need to see the person clearly. Otherwise, the desired result will not be obtained.

Moreover, the idea of expecting someone to have a meal and get help from the other person is a bit naïve.

Relatives and friends, friends and friends who have the ability to look down on doing dudo zhi if they have the ability

People who don't have the ability, dao has the ability to look down on them, and the people who feel like they are all answering like this, there is.

Everyone likes you with money, and everyone looks down on you if you don't have money, now this society is a society that looks at money, as long as you have the ability and ability, as long as you have money, everyone will like you.

This is very realistic, the face is earned, the poor in the source of the city no one asks, the rich in the deep mountains of Bai have Du distant relatives;

As the saying goes: don't go to the army when you are thin, don't go to your relatives when you are poor, try not to go to the houses of relatives and friends when you are poor, at this time there are many people who fall into the well, sneer, and look at your jokes.

When you speak, your waist is not straight, and only by improving your living situation and making yourself strong can you impress others!

Be down-to-earth and enrich your ability step by step, don't be low enough to cling to others because you are greedy for wealth, you will only be looked down upon, and don't lose your only self-esteem.

In fact, people live to fight for a breath, no matter what others think of you, as long as you live happily. Those who like to compare are too tired to live all their lives, and they won't be happy enough to **?

Since ancient times, the world is cold, the key is that people should be calm, sometimes it is not relatives who look down on themselves, it is our own heart, so don't be inferior, deal with it calmly, not arrogant or humble, put the personality charm there, no one dares to underestimate us!!

You're right, it's such a society now, and you can work hard to be strong.

Relatives are cynical at best, but my mother is really the most chilling to me, and now I can't forgive what happened when I was a child, my mother is particularly patriarchal, which makes me suffer a lot of grievances.

When I was a child, my family was too poor, my mother was young and in poor health, and I took a lot of Chinese medicine to recuperate, and I gave birth to my brother after many years of marriage.

Since I was a child, I felt that my mother was biased, and my brother who grew up under the preference had an extreme personality, and threatened my mother with jumping off the building at every turn, smashing things, packing up things and running away from home, and my mother would hug him at this time and cry "You are going to ** ah cub!" You're going to kill your mother! "My brother's trick works very well, because my mom eats it.

I'm different, I was wronged and my brother ran away from home, and my mother pointed to the door, "You go, don't come back if you have the ability to go!" "When I was a child, my brother had a lot of bicycles, and he bought one after another, and sold the old ones, and I wouldn't have them anyway. Mom said, I'll buy it for you when you are admitted to the elite class at the beginning of your junior high school, and I was admitted to the third place in the school, but the bicycle has not seen a shadow until now.

1. When I was in the third grade, the school recommended me to represent the school in the county competition, and my father took me to buy clothes. He smiled contemptuously and said, "What are you doing with such a heart, just like her, can you still win the award?" ”

2. The first hatred for him was the death of his grandfather in the fifth grade. He ignored his grandfather's coffin and his weeping grandmother clamored for a share of the fields that his grandfather had purchased, and they quarreled so much. He said that he had two sons to raise, and he deserved the most land, and my family, as long as they gave me to others, there was no pressure.

3. The second hatred against him was the winter vacation of the sixth grade. At that time, my father went to do odd jobs for others, and my mother was at home with my sister and me. One day, my mother was in a coma due to gas poisoning, which frightened my two sisters.

I went out to see him, explained the situation, and asked for help. He said with great disgust: "I just said that it is useless to give birth to a daughter, and I only know how to cry when something happens!"

4. The third hatred against him was the summer vacation of the first year of junior high school. My father asked my sister and I to help them with the farm work, and I died late because of a cold and stomach pain. He scolded in the field:

Think you can sleep in with a book? Don't say that you can't get into college, even if you do, you don't have to study, how much money do you want to spend to have a daughter! ”

I haven't done anything unforgivable, but I've done a lot of disgusting things.

Yes. When my father was seriously ill and urgently needed medical expenses, he asked them to borrow money, and they all hung up on their own affairs, which was really chilling.

No, I didn't have much contact with each other, and I didn't do anything I couldn't forgive.

No, never, it's just my brothers and sisters who get closer, and they're all very good.

My dad went into the ICU and when I wanted to ask them to borrow money, they said it was none of his business.

No, I don't have a lot of contact with my relatives, but I have a good relationship.

When my family was in trouble, no one thought about helping, and everyone wanted a piece of the pie when there were good things.

I haven't done it, and I don't usually have much contact with my relatives.

My dad was sick, they ignored it and wanted to sell my house.

No, although there are small frictions, they are all acceptable little things.

1.Pro-eldest cousin, (Wu Zetian in the 21st century, she knows everything, and she must let you listen to her arrangements for your own good, so as to satisfy her selfishness, it is difficult to get along when you are together,) 2Aunt and Sister (I don't want to use you all the time, as long as you can help her and her family, and let you serve the people and interests she cares about at all costs.)

It's all relatives who sometimes make too much trouble, and it's not good. endure her various requests all year round) 3Mom and father, (treat your daughter as an ATM, your daughter is born, she is a tool to support her family, and she scrapes you a layer of oil when she goes home, just to reduce all kinds of burdens on her son) Not only do your relatives make you annoyed all the time, but your parents' patriarchy also makes you disgusted all the time.