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When this situation occurs, I think it is better to communicate with her and tell her my heart, if the other party still can't tolerate, understand and support, I think it's better to break up, two people who are not married are always unable to understand and tolerate each other, and quarrel for a distance, how can they live a lifetime after marriage? The relationship between people is good, the feelings are deep, and they can't stick together forever.

You are the first time to deal with the object, the first time to fall in love, so there is a sentence I must remind you, often the first time to fall in love, people will be stupid and desperate to give all the sincerity and beauty, because there will be a kind of illusion, thinking that as long as you sincerely pay and be good to each other, you will definitely gain a good relationship, in fact, this is a very wrong misunderstanding. Being too good to a person with no bottom line will only make you more and more humble. often do not get the other party's cherishment.

Your efforts are only worth it if your love is based on equality. It's important to meet the right person.

The most fundamental part of a long-distance relationship is not to be in a different place, of course, the premise is to determine whether the other party is in love with you, whether it is worth it, and whether it is necessary to marry! One party needs to give up everything in the moment and go to the other party's city, and then two people work together.

If two people are together, the circle of communication between the two people will merge into a common circle, and the topic will always be updated. Two people who are not together will gradually lose interest in each other's surroundings due to unfamiliarity, and slowly, you are just trying to find common topics every time **and**.

Arguing with the person you love in love is the stupidest thing to do! If roaring would solve the problem, then the donkey would have ruled the world long ago! Quarrels not only do not solve the problem, but will open the relationship between each other!

There are many lectures and courses on home management, so you can learn it together!

Let's not talk about the problems you always quarrel about, but think about what is the real reason for the problems you are arguing about? Whether it's her own problem, or is it actually a feeling of dissatisfaction caused by her discontentment and lack of love for you.

I've looked at my phone many times, and you still haven't replied. Where are you, with whom, and what are you doing? Did you just refuse someone else's kindness, or did you still like me when you ate with another girl?

If you still like your girlfriend very much, if you have your girlfriend in your future life plan, if you want to deal with the conflict well, you must maintain communication with your girlfriend. From the woman's point of view, I personally recommend going to my girlfriend as soon as possible to resolve the conflict in person. If you have time, and it is more convenient, you can go to your girlfriend as soon as possible, although now we can contact people who are far away through mobile phones, but ** and information can not fully convey emotions, especially information, everyone's habits of words and sentences are different, sometimes it is obviously an apology, but it makes the other party feel hard, so if you can, you still go to your girlfriend, on the one hand, your girlfriend suddenly saw you is also a surprise, and the other party can also communicate face-to-face and solve the conflict.

In a short period of time, if you can't end the state of being in a different place, then you might as well play more**, send more messages, actively communicate with your girlfriend, and put on an attitude that you want to solve the conflict. This point girls are very concerned about, sometimes she is angry is just your attitude, not really mind those little things, as long as your attitude makes the other party feel too perfunctory, so the above let you go to your girlfriend immediately, is a way to show your attitude.

Whether it's going to your girlfriend's place or communicating through your phone, it's a good idea to prepare some words or gifts to coax your girlfriend first. If you have a conflict with your girlfriend, just because of some trivial things, no matter who is right or wrong, you can directly admit your mistake with your girlfriend, be sincere, and your girlfriend will not embarrass you anymore; If it is because of some essential problems, then it is recommended to talk openly and honestly, because if these substantive issues are not resolved, the contradictions will always exist.

。If you have been running in for a long time, but there have been various contradictions, then you may have some substantive problems, and this time the contradictions are only a superficial phenomenon, and you still have to seriously consider where the relationship between some two people is going.

I think you can go to your girlfriend's city and communicate in a face-to-face way. You can dilute the contradictions between you.

I think it depends on the size of the contradiction, if this contradiction is not particularly important, then you can **** apologize to your girlfriend to resolve the contradiction, if the contradiction is particularly big, then you can only temporarily abandon everything here, and go to meet with your girlfriend first to explain to her.

If you haven't hurt her. Her performance shows that she is starting to distance herself from you!

The biggest obstacle to a long-distance relationship is the difficulty of communication. It is very likely that you have not taken the initiative to contact her recently! (Long-distance relationships are best done at least once a day**.)

While bringing your affection, you must also constantly seek a common language with her: the more common languages, the closer your relationship! ）

Don't hesitate to go to her side and communicate with her face-to-face! Describe your hobby for her! If she's just angry for a while, she'll turn her anger into joy!

In order to end the awkward situation of a long-distance relationship, you should think about how you can go to work next to her! (She will be deeply touched by your sincerity!) ）

Go find her. See you in person. Make it clear. I can feel that she still has feelings for you. It's just a little swaying and confused. Let's meet her and deepen her affirmation and conviction. Sometimes, everything can be solved with just one meeting.