What do your parents think of you spending twenty or thirty dollars on coffee?

Every time I spent twenty or thirty dollars for a cup of coffee, my parents would nag me for a long time, they thought that my lifestyle was wasteful, and they didn't feel the need to spend so much money on coffee to drink. <>

1. Think it's extravagant. When I was in college, every time I bought milk tea or coffee, my parents thought it was a luxury. They all feel that such a waste is unnecessary, because they usually only need three yuan a bottle to buy drinks, and he feels that there is not much difference between milk tea and coffee and the drinks he usually buys, and these things will also affect his body after drinking, so every time I buy them, they will educate me many times.

Although I explained to my parents many times that drinking milk tea or coffee is now a way to socialize, they still don't understand my current life and will keep nagging every time. Now that I'm used to it, I don't care about their nagging, and I want to keep buying. My parents can understand that I spend hundreds of dollars on a short-sleeved shirt, but they can't understand that I spend dozens of dollars on a cup of coffee, because they don't think coffee is cost-effective, so they think I'm too extravagant every time.

Second, it is difficult to change the parents' consumption concept. My parents didn't have very good family conditions since they were children, and they have been hungry since they were children, so they cherish their current life very much. After my parents got married, they borrowed 5,000 yuan to start a business, and now the business is doing better, and my family conditions have improved a lot.

Although our family's living conditions are not bad now, it is difficult for my parents to change their concept of consumption, they still live a very frugal life, thinking that they will not take out any money that should be spent and money that should not be spent. Although now that I have grown up and have my own income, they still limit my high consumption, and after I spend dozens of dollars on coffee, they will still think that I am a wasteful person and that I am a person who spends money without moderation. It didn't work to communicate with them many times, and I've given up on communication now.

When my parents were young, there was a lot of difference from our time, and because they lived a hard life, they cherished every penny they earned. No matter how much I explained it to them, they couldn't understand my way of life.

My parents felt that buying coffee for twenty or thirty yuan was a waste. In fact, this money can be used to buy books and meals, which is much better than a cup of coffee without nutrition.

Parents may think that it is not good to buy anything for twenty or thirty yuan, and they have to buy something like coffee, which is expensive and has no nutritional value, and they feel that it is not worth it.

They think it's a waste, think that a cup of coffee is worth a simple meal, and often persuade me to save.

Everyone's measurement of value is different, some people think that a cup of coffee for 30 yuan is not worth it, some people think that a cup of coffee for 30 yuan is acceptable to themselves, and it is not impossible to drink a cup of coffee that can be accepted by their financial ability after hard work.

There's a certain issue of Reader that has 2010 -- and it seems to be the first half of the year, and I've had time to look it up.

But I personally don't think it's a very outstanding article.

I'm a coffee drinker, so I don't spend too much money on coffee, I can accept a cup of coffee** is about 15 yuan, more than this amount is not worth it for me. I'd rather choose a fruit drink, but I prefer plain water.

First of all, we must consider our actual situation, if your own conditions are average, just your own consumption, then there is no need to choose too expensive, of course, the conditions are better and the quality of life is higher, it depends on your own ideas, however, if there are more important things, you must choose the one that can afford the scene.

I generally don't like to go to the coffee shop to drink coffee, but I think it's not interesting to drink coffee in the store, sometimes because I go out for work, I will take the computer to work, and I will order a cup of brown sugar or latte, but I drink relatively little, ** generally not more than 60, which is already the limit of my coffee drinking.

I'm a regular coffee drinker, but I can't tell the difference between cheap instant coffee and coffee in a café. So generally speaking, I would choose to drink instant coffee because it is more economical. I'd be willing to pay two dollars for a drink, and I'd not think anything else would be worth it.

I always believe that you get what you pay for. The cheapest instant coffee costs only two dollars a bag. But the best cappuccino costs hundreds of dollars, and the taste of the two is very different, and the cappuccino has a strong aroma.

Every time I have money in my pocket, that is, when I get paid, I will choose a coffee that is a little better. Even if I didn't have the money, I wouldn't choose that instant coffee. I usually prefer to choose the kind of coffee that is around fifty.

There are a lot of cafes in Beijing, the more famous ones are Starbucks Coffee, Pacific Coffee, etc., as well as the new rise of Luckin Coffee, the coffee I drink the most is Luckin Coffee, because they often send some discount rolls, sometimes a cup of freshly ground coffee only costs a few dollars, I can only say that such a cost performance is too high.

For the question of opening a flower shop or a coffee shop to make money, I personally feel that according to each person's situation, the atmosphere of each city is different, and it cannot be generalized, but on the other hand, every industry or every career you want to achieve, only if you have enough love, enough patience, and enough interest, whether you open a flower shop or a coffee shop in a third- or fourth-tier city, you will have a good income in economic wealth, so that you will feel full of life when you wake up every day. Wouldn't it be a good start to let you have your own dreams and the motivation to be realistic?

In China, there are many third-tier cities, generally more developed or medium-sized cities with a large economic aggregate, compared with the first and second tier cities, the third-tier cities will have a very advantageous advantage in terms of market competition and cost, the first-tier cities are full of competition, chain stores abound, and the operating costs of opening stores are also very high, which leads to the fact that the third-tier cities are very suitable for some young people to start a business and develop their own future, whether it is a flower shop or a coffee shop, it is a relatively sunrise industry, after all, In an era when people are paying more and more attention to spiritual life, coffee and flowers have become a must-have spice in the lives of many young people.

Personally I think, or depending on everyone's interests, opening a store, profitability is of course the most direct consideration, but if you run a store that you don't know or understand, and you don't have much interest, then, many times it will fall and fail due to physical and mental exhaustion, especially if it is a young and trendy store, people will pay attention to the cultural meaning it presents.

For example, the culture of coffee, in the coffee shop is not just to buy some coffee is enough, whether it is from the decoration of the store, or the brand of coffee, in fact, there is a lot of knowledge inside, if you are going to open a coffee shop, you must have an understanding of the culture inside to attract customers, let your customers know that your store is very professional, and it is worth it to spend money to drink coffee in your store. Of course, the flower shop is more particular, each flower has its own flower language, when the customer comes to ask, you can give customers a lot of professional advice, so that they will always come to your store in the future, but also let your store invisibly establish a reputation.

Every industry needs its own professional ability and enthusiasm to make their career successful, just looking at the flower shop and coffee shop which makes money is completely not after all, some people in the fourth and fifth tier cities can also open more fascinating flower shops and coffee shops than the second and third tiers, and some people in the third tier flower shops open more profitable than coffee shops, and some people in the third tier cities open coffee shops more profitable than flower shops.

Under the mechanism of market experience, we can put our enthusiasm, wit, and wisdom into the market, so that we can achieve certain results both for ourselves and for our career.

I think both kinds of stores are not suitable, or open a small restaurant, I live in Shijiazhuang, barely a second-tier, or still a third-tier city, here for 4 years, I found that people still pay more attention to practical things, so the place to eat here is still more profitable, but I see cafes or flower shops, or the door is very popular, I always hear say: pay salary, let's go to have a big meal, or let's go shopping. But I rarely hear people say, today is in a good mood, let's go have a cup of coffee, coffee is still more suitable for people with higher economic ability, for third-tier cities, you can drink coffee, your own bag is pretty good, there is no need to go to a coffee shop, maybe this is what I think of the poor class, of course, the rich or people who pay more attention to the form of life are different.

For this kind of thing, because flowers do not belong to daily necessities, but belong to occasional consumer goods, our demand for flowers is still relatively small, during the festival, the flower shop may be more prosperous, but in ordinary life, there will definitely not be too many patrons.

In fact, opening a store is still based on your own level, if you are more wealthy and do not need to open this store to increase income, then you can open any kind of pastime, purely for the pastime of time, or your life is not very rich, want to increase family income through the store, or consider some more practical and popular stores.

To sum up, in small cities, I am still more optimistic about the stores with strong practicality, so I think the flower shop is good.

In the future, no matter what you do, you must do what you can, you can't slap a swollen face and become fat, what kind of situation we are is what the situation is, there is no need to spend more than 1,000 at a time without money. That is, you won the girl through your payment this time, so will you go out with the girl to spend money at a high consumption level in the future? If you don't behave in a high-consumption grade, greedy for enjoyment, and greedy for vanity, the girl will still leave you.

So it's still more realistic, isn't it just a date, let's watch a movie or go to the park, so that you can test the other party's character and see what type of person the other party is and whether it is suitable for you.

Brother, you've met a wine tray, a food tray, and a flower tray!

Living within your means, knowing how much money you have in your hand, and then planning to spend it, in addition, you can't just look at the appearance of the girl, and, you see that you may meet the trust, that is, pull you to the café to spend, it is difficult to say whether the girl is an employee of the café.