How do you understand what you deserve to lose, what you deserve to get?

That is to say, what is yours is always yours, and if it is not yours, you will not fight for it.

A kind of helplessness in life....I can't control what I lose and what I gain.

Summary. There is a saying that things must be reversed, gains and losses should be balanced, a person can not always be bad in his life, nor can he always be good, blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, and even more good things can not always fall to a family, there must be gains and losses, people all the way are on the one hand, on the one hand, on the other, on the side of loss, this is the law of nature, such as our interests and hobbies are constantly updated, constantly learned, and constantly discarded. Some disabled people complain about the unfairness of fate, why don't you give me a sound body, but you find that no, disabled people are strong-willed, have an indomitable and courageous spirit, are smart, can learn a skill, can support their families, so when God closes a door for you, he also opens a window for you.

Just like giving and taking, only giving can there be gain, you are willing to give things to others, others will also be willing to give you, things are mutual, not blindly gained, not blindly lost, gain and loss, loss and gain, this is life, this is life!

To gain is to lose, and to lose is to gain the meaning.

There is a saying that things must be reversed, gains and losses should be balanced, a person can not always be bad in his life, nor can he always be good, blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, and even more good things can not always fall to a family, there must be gains and losses, people all the way are on the one hand, on the one hand, on the other, on the side of loss, this is the law of nature, such as our interests and hobbies are constantly updated, constantly learned, and constantly discarded. Some disabled people complain about the unfairness of fate, why don't you give me a sound body, but you find that no, disabled people are strong-willed, have an indomitable and courageous spirit, are smart, can learn a skill, can support their families, so when God closes a door for you, he also opens a window for you. Just like giving and taking, only giving can there be gain, you are willing to give things to others, others will also be willing to give you, things are mutual, not blindly gained, not blindly lost, gain and loss, loss and gain, this is life, this is life!

To gain is to lose. Refers to: What you get is the process.

What is lost is interest and interest. Everyone comes into the world. They all have their own dreams and goals in life.

When we pursue a certain dream and life goal, we often enjoy the pursuit process. Once goals and dreams are achieved. The interest and interest in that pursuit will be lost.

When you have finally achieved your dreams and goals after a lot of hard work. You'll understand. To gain is to lose.

It means that there is giving and taking, and there is choice. If a person uses improper means to obtain property or something other (perhaps intangible) that does not belong to him, he will lose it one day.

When a person does not have the ability to control money, when a person's cultivation is not enough, he will often be buried because he cannot carry the wealth he has, and he will eventually be buried because of money.

It's not that money makes people bad, it's because people can't handle money at all.

When a person is willing to spend money for his friends, then friends will be willing to throw money at you, and once this mutual courtesy exchange between each other is frequent, the friendship among friends will gradually arise.

If a person who doesn't even dare to throw a penny at a friend, does others hope to get other greater help from you at a critical moment in the future?

Naturally, he chose to be eliminated in the social circle, and thought that he was not worth making friends at all, as if he had been sentenced to a "death sentence".

Although money can't buy real friendship, and friendship is not necessarily measured only by money, but friendship without money nourishment will definitely dry up, because money can reflect a lot of potential human nature. Of course, money is also an important criterion when measuring friendship, and even the hypocrisy in friendship can be eliminated.

There is actually only one purpose for making money, and that is to spend it; There is only one purpose for saving money, and that is still used to spend it. The principle of banking is actually very simple, that is, to lend the money of those who will not spend money to those who can spend it.

Those who are very good at spending money, the more money is spent; Those who don't spend money, the less money they spend. The more money you spend generously, the more friends you will have, and finally you will become someone who others are willing to take the initiative to socialize; When you are stingy and spend less money, you will find that you have few friends around you, and you will eventually become a veritable loner.

It means that Heaven is fair. If something is supposed to be yours and you take possession of it, God will punish you and make you lose what belongs to you. The meaning of the words is to accept your fate. Everything has been arranged by God.

The meaning of this sentence is that if you do something that you shouldn't do, you may gain something or someone that is not yours, but at the same time you will lose something or someone that is your own. You can't win 'em all.

If you get something that doesn't belong to you, you will implicate others, and in the end, you will hurt yourself and lose something that you would not have lost.