Are we fit to get engaged? Should we get engaged?

Let's talk about engagement and so on! It's normal for girls to be young and happy to find love online, isn't it because you give her less romantic and wonderful feelings. If your girlfriend has no problems with her character and has feelings for you, after getting married, especially after having children, her playfulness will be withdrawn.

Maybe you should talk to her about it, because if you drag it out and find out the importance of the problem after you get engaged, both parties will be hurt at that time, especially girls, and they will be gossiped about.

Hehe, it looks like your girlfriend isn't mature enough, and now I personally feel bad. Your girlfriend doesn't know what love is now, and she doesn't know about love, so I suggest you procrastinate and instill feelings in the engagement.

If you are dissatisfied with her, you have to say, whether you want to get engaged or not, you have to spread out and explain it to her.

I think you'll have to talk to your girlfriend, or you'll get married.

Two people have a good talk, talk about each other's thoughts, if it's really not suitable, don't force it to combine, it's not good for life for a while.

Most of the problems are best solved before marriage, after marriage will only escalate the problem, and it is not uncommon for both sides to lose and lose, marriage is a major event, and the way to be responsible for both parties is to be "prudent".

1. There are pros and cons to this. Some people will choose to marry directly, and this advantage can save money, time and energy. After all, engagement and wedding are not very simple things, and they also need to book a hotel and prepare for marriage in advance, and they will not spend less money and energy than the wedding, so the couple will be very easy to get married directly.

2. Get engaged first.

If it is an engagement, it will make the two couples very satisfied with the sense of ceremony, and it can also ensure a commitment from both parties, If the girl who can be treated like this by the man will not necessarily be very happy, after all, you will feel good about being taken seriously.

Therefore, in addition, getting engaged first can bring some run-in period to each other in time, if it is really not suitable, you can still have a reason to turn back, so it is good for yourself.

2. Do you want to live in the man's house after getting engaged?

1. Gossip.

It is advisable to stay in your own home. The main thing is that after the engagement, the lord in the man's house will attract some bad gossip, although the times are advancing, but the problem of women's premarital cohabitation has been retained in the traditional people's thinking, and some people will not be able to accept it.

2. Self-depreciation.

If you are not married, you live with the man, it is very likely that in the eyes of the other father's mother, you are sure to identify his son, so you must follow his son, so that the other party will despise you more, and it is very likely that you will not be so polite and enthusiastic to you after you move in.

It depends on the wishes of the two of you and the attitude of both parents, and the engagement may be a little more troublesome, after all, there are two procedures to go through, and marriage is more straightforward. I believe that if they could, most parents would choose to get married directly. Because people are busy now, there is still less free time, and there is no need to get engaged.

It is better to get engaged, because engagement will allow two people to have a run-in process before getting married, if the run-in is not good, you don't have to get married, and if you can run in well, then the marriage will be happier.

Of course, they got engaged first. But now many are like to get engaged to get married in one day. China's Marriage Law stipulates:

Men are 22 years old and women are 20 years old before they can get married. The age mentioned here is the minimum age for marriage. It is not the best age to get married.

Late marriage is called late marriage if the marriage is postponed for more than three years according to the legal age: women who give birth after the age of 24 are called late childbearing. Of course, this is not to say that the later you get married and have children, the better.

Too late can also bring up a number of specific problems. According to research, young men and women are in.

Two. Ten. It is appropriate to marry at the age of four or five; Twenty-five to twenty-nine years of age is the most suitable childbearing. Because at this time, young men and women are most active in life, and it is the best age for marriage and childbearing.

Whether it is a direct marriage or an engagement, you need to bring gifts and gifts to the girl's house, and after obtaining consent, you can register your marriage with the girl.

Because there needs to be at least two or three months between engagement and marriage, and the interval between them, it is easy to break up in case there is a problem between two people, so if you don't have the idea of getting married, just choose to get married. On the one hand, it is more secure, and on the other hand, it can also spend less money.

I have encountered such a situation, and it is recommended that you do not rush to get married during this time. Because marriage is not the final result.

Many people say that they are married to love, but they ignore a problem, when they are about to get married, one party makes unreasonable demands, the other party can't meet them, and finally part ways.

My mind is still in turmoil right now, and I can't accept this result at all. I can't figure it out at all, we said before that we were going to get married, but why was she about to get married, but she changed her mind temporarily? I really don't understand her anymore, she's not the same person who loved me anymore.

She and I have been in a relationship since we first started working after graduating from college, and we have been in love for four years now. In the past four years, we have experienced the hardships of working together, the joy of life slowly getting better, crying together, laughing together, although we are only in love, we can be regarded as a "couple in distress". I have always believed that there is no one or nothing to break up in the relationship between us, I have long regarded her as a family, and she has also said that I will not marry in this life.

We agreed to get married, and we agreed to buy a house at my house after we got engaged, and then we went home to work and live a life that belonged to just the two of us.

Getting married is our common goal and the motivation for my work. I will always put her at the center of everything I do, and think about her first. It is precisely because I think of having her by my side in the future that I always feel very happy.

We discussed marriage while working, and originally said to get engaged during the May Day holiday, but then she changed it and said that it was better to get engaged during the Dragon Boat Festival! She said she wanted to go on another trip with her before she got engaged. I already regard her as a wife, and of course I will agree to such a simple request.

Time flies quickly, and it's May Day in the blink of an eye. Because we made a travel plan in advance, we went to Hangzhou together to play during the holidays. On the way to play, we still have a good relationship, and we are still talking about things together after marriage.

However, since returning from her trip, she has begun to change her mind.

It was almost time for us to get engaged, and I couldn't understand that she had suddenly done something like this. I asked her she wouldn't say anything, and I didn't know why. She said she would consider it, and I was sure she would respect my opinion, after all, we agreed at the beginning.

If she was sure that she was what she said at the beginning, then I would respect her too. However, instead of respecting my opinion, she changed her mind again, so it was really uncomfortable, and I didn't know whether I should get married. In the end, we chose to calm down for a while.

Engagement is the only way to get married. Only those who have the legal capacity to engage in engagement can engage in engagement. The legal definition of betrothal capacity is based on age:

Men are engaged at the age of 17 and women at the age of 15. If a marriage contract is entered into in violation of this provision, the marriage contract is not invalid, but the parties or legal persons may apply to the court for revocation. Because, for minors under the age of 20, their marriage contract must be approved by the legal person.

After getting engaged, the number of cases of divorce and flash marriage increases, and correspondingly, the number of cases where the bride price needs to be returned increases. Therefore, on December 4, 2003, the 1299th meeting of the Adjudication Committee of the Supreme People's Court passed the Interpretation (II) on Several Issues Concerning the Application of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China (Fa Shi [2003] No. 19), which came into force on April 1, 2004.

Article 10: Where parties request the return of bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor.