Work and love in the field, in the face of a long distance relationship, how to choose work and love

I think it, since you can't let go, even if you leave, you can't see that you can devote yourself to work It's better to stay in Chengdu and wait for your girlfriend to go back Then the two of you can work hard together No matter where you are, you can make a career But the important thing is to be with the person you like When people are young, it's only a few years I hope you can give me a chance to live to know what you really want so as not to regret it in the future According to what you said As long as you have a good relationship with your girlfriend, no matter what the attitude of your family is, you will definitely be able to be together Come on If you go to another place, it means that you basically give up the opportunity to seize the relationship In fact, we all know that time can dilute everything If you separate the two places, each has its own thing, there is less contact, and after a long time, the relationship will fade So I suggest that you don't go to the field for a while, even if you wait for your girlfriend to return to Chengdu, your relationship will settle down, and then think about going out I hope mine is useful to you, hehe.

If the love between the two is long, how can it be in the morning and twilight?

But that's also forced. In fact, it is better to give priority to putting the initiative in your own hands, so what is your attitude towards love and career, how should you choose.

Since you want to be with her, you can be together, what do you want to do? Happiness often disappears as soon as you turn around, and the landlord wants you to grasp the people around you. I hope you are happy.

My thoughts are more specific, I think it is more important to work, and it is not rational to give up work for the sake of an unattainable and imperfect relationship.

But the pot friend and I thought about it thoroughly, and she felt that it was right to give up some things for love. I once saw some people on the Internet say that boys give up their jobs to develop in the cities where girls live, and both of them are slightly higher than girls who give up their jobs to join boys in terms of happiness and career success index, how can there be such a situation?

In fact, it has something to do with the logical thinking of girls and boys, boys are more objective, and if he makes that choice, it may be a decision made after weighing it from the perspective of work and emotion. The girl is more rational, if she makes that choice, she will be more inclined to emotional reasons, considering that it is not as comprehensive as the boy, it is likely that the brain is hot to make the decision, and it is likely to regret it later.

As can be seen from this reality, it is necessary to be deliberate and have a good attitude in order to give up emotionally in the work. In the case of making a decision, it is necessary to rationally weigh many factors before making a decision, and you should not rashly abandon your current work and seek refuge in another party because of longing and enthusiasm. Exotic love is definitely not conducive to the trend of emotional development, so one party must give up, but who makes concessions must also be related to the actual situation, such as the future of the development of the big city, the proposal of the parents, and the emotional development trend of the two people.

Does a long-distance relationship need to give up work for the other partner? This question is very worthy of everyone's careful consideration, mainly to see what you want to think about the most, it is best to follow your own heart, although all the choices will leave shortcomings, but it is not easy to make yourself unhappy by following your heart. In many cases, people can't think far ahead, because the future is unknown, and no one knows what will happen.

If you don't think about the risks in the future, at this moment, do you want to be with a couple or do you want to work in a trend? No one can live in the future, no one knows what the future will be, if you do have the ability to work, or you can continue to learn and train, then no matter where you are, you can have the opportunity to develop trends. No one wants to make a choice in feelings and work, because there is no way to make this kind of choice, since love and work can be taken into account, no one will make this painful choice, but in fact it is "lift the brick, I can't hold you, learn to put down the brick, I can't raise you".

Everyone's situation is different, and only by following your own heart to choose, will you never regret it.

Choosing for work, I think it's worth it in a long-distance relationship. Nowadays, love and marriage must be backed by economic strength. If it's just to fall in love and don't think about the future, there will definitely be a lot of regrets.

After all, in today's love marriage, it can't be talked about without bread. So I think it's worth it to choose a long-distance relationship for work.

Long-distance relationships are hard though. But if you don't have a job, then it's really hard for the love between you to survive. So for the love between you, I think there is always someone to give.

So I think it's very worthwhile to choose a long-distance relationship for work. Only my good job. The more money you make, the better love can continue.

So I think it's worth it to choose a long-distance relationship for work.

In life, the best may not necessarily be the most suitable for us. The most suitable is the truly best. There is a heart to know, there is affection to love, there is fate to gather, and there is a dream to come true.

Maybe we have liked a person and loved a flower. In fact, when we are growing up, as long as we have loved, we have liked it to be beautiful.

A long-distance relationship is a very bitter love, because of life, because of work, we chose a long-distance relationship, and we began to miss it for a long time. There are a lot of people who praise long-distance relationships, but once you experience it, you will understand how hypocritical praise is, because for them, even a hug is a luxury.

When my youth was gone, and I realized my feelings, he was long gone.

Love does not reduce the pain by half because of the passage of time, when this pain erodes the heart, everything is already destined to be inescapable. No one remembers that you were here and then quietly disappeared.

I have spent so many wonderful days with you, and in the future, I will cherish each other when I think of this. May you be happy and healthy!

All sentient beings, are you the one who has been reincarnated several times for my fate? People come and go, are you the love I have been asking for in front of the Buddha for 500 years? The Buddha said: 500 times of looking back in the past life in exchange for a rub of shoulders in this life, but I have been in the earthly world for I don't know how many 500 years, why can't I wait for a prosperous encounter?

From sunrise and sunset to wind, frost and rain, from flowers blooming to falling red, I have been waiting for ......Waiting for you to realize this passing fate.

Cherish the present and cherish each other. We still have a long way to go, and I believe that I will not be absent from your road in the future.

After time, the fate fades, and the people who love each other will disperse, and finally come to the end of the relationship, and the ending will eventually be separated. But you chose to leave silently, and you didn't even say the word "breakup" to me, leaving me with only sadness and tears. When I think back to the past, my eyes are full of tears.

If the person in front of you makes you unable to see love, then let's go, there are still many people waiting for you in front of you, better.

Every girl is a tearless angel, and when an angel falls in love with a boy, he has tears, and he falls into the mortal world with tears, so every boy should not fail your girl, because he has given up the whole heaven for you.

It's worth it, just love without bread, after all, you have to live, the road ahead is still very long, if you work in a different place for you, it is more suitable and has a future than the city where you are now, you must go, men are ambitious, if the other party really loves you, they will understand you, understand you, support you, if not, you don't need to delay work for a person who doesn't understand you.

First of all, you have to look at what the long-distance relationship is, for example, the different living circumstances after college. Whether it's just short-term, if it's just short-term, it's recommended that you stay up, if it's long-term. I quit my job and went to live in that city.

If you love deeply, for the sake of perfect love, change jobs, change cities, and resolutely change the state of long-distance relationships.

It's very uncomfortable for the three-dimensional chain, because you don't know what the other person is doing, and if you want to change the situation, you can change your current situation and make the two people closer.

Two people in a long-distance relationship want to be together, how to solve the work of two people.

I used to take it for granted that the most important thing was income. If one person earns two or three thousand, and one person earns five or six thousand, if you want to be together, then let the person who earns five or six thousand help the other half find a new job in his city, and he can earn two or three thousand, or more, so that at least the income of two people is guaranteed.

In other words, people with low incomes can accommodate and go to the city where people with more incomes live.

My boyfriend and I are like that, he is five or six thousand, I am two or three thousand, and I don't want to develop in the current city, so I think it is a good choice to go to him.

But recently there is such a couple around me, the boy also earns five or six thousand, and the welfare is also good, but it is very tired and hard, often have to get up early and be greedy for darkness, have a meeting every night until late, and the girl is a little far away, it takes 40 minutes to drive, if I drive home every day, I feel tired, and the girl earns two thousand.

But their situation is a little different, although the girl has a small income, but it is not easy to get into the iron rice bowl, I don't want to give up easily, the boy has a lot of income, and he is not very capable, but he is looking for a good job, if the boy goes to the girl's side, he can only find a job of two or three thousand. But the girl kept asking the boy to quit his job and go back to find a job.

This young couple has just gotten married, and they are still preparing for pregnancy, and they have been arguing every day because of work problems during this time.

I can't take care of other people's affairs, but I don't know how I'm going to solve it if this is left to me.

I think, if it were me, I had plans to marry this person at the beginning, and I probably wouldn't have taken the public examination, so I would have done something else first, and it would not be too late to take the exam after the two of them got married and stabilized. But this seems to be choosing a marriage that is better than his own future.

But in life, you always have to make countless choices, gain something, and lose some at the same time.

Question: My daughter and girlfriend have been in a long-distance relationship for more than three years, and the relationship is very good, but now I am facing the problem of choosing a place to work after graduation, how should I choose?

This is not a single choice question, but a complete multiple-choice question.

Because you are the city of choice for graduation and career.

If you want to stay together, choose a city where you are both relatively happy and get a job.

After all, the 3-year long-distance relationship has persevered, and the relationship is very good, so it's a pity to break up.

Finding a job after graduation is actually a great opportunity for you to end a long-distance relationship. , without a large selection cost. If you continue to live in a different place and work is stable, it will be more difficult to decide whether you want love or a future.

That's when it really became a multiple-choice question.

Unless you still like her very much, your relationship is still so good.

But in terms of the situation, your relationship is not as good as you say, if it is really good, you will not come to ask questions, you will just end the trip and find a job in a city that you are both satisfied with.

When I saw this topic, I couldn't help but think of myself.

I just graduated from college in 2010, and I have been in love for two years at this time. According to the arrangement of his parents, he should return to his hometown and develop wellBut for the sake of love, I chose to give up and return to my hometownresolutely and resolutely stepped on the train to the south with his girlfriend, and the two chose a strange city to start working again.

When I first started working hard, my life was very hard, because I was a recent college graduate, and I didn't have much money in my hands, so I lived a tight life every month, but I can still feel very sweet and romantic in this kind of tight days.

At that time, my thinking was not very mature, thinking that as long as I and my girlfriend were together forever, then life would always be better, but the dream was always beautiful, and the reality was still very cruel, because my girlfriend worked harder at work, so the position was promoted faster, although I also worked harder, but my luck was not good, and I have not been well promoted, and the gap between me and my girlfriend has slowly opened.

As a man, he has strong self-esteem, and he also has machismo, once when he was paying for a meal, he didn't pay because he was shy in his pocket, so he had to let his girlfriend payMy girlfriend was in a more irritable mood at the time, and then said that she had no money to come out to eat?

After we got home, the two of us had a big fight over this incident, and I didn't come home for three days because of this incident, and the last thing I waited for was a text message from my girlfriend who broke up.

When I saw this text message, I couldn't believe that this was a relationship that I had worked so hard to manage, just because of a quarrel and said that it would be buried. Later, I went back to admit my mistake, and my girlfriend resolutely chose to break up with him, and after a long time of pain, he finally recognized the reality and returned to his hometown in embarrassment.

After returning to his hometown, he was very depressed, but he always drove himself forward, so he regained the courage to live in a foreign place and began to struggle for his careerAfter three years of hard work, his career is finally on the right track. At this time, the mobile phone suddenly saw the girlfriend in the circle of friends getting married, and I only woke up at this time, time has slowly changed so much, I and my girlfriend have been away for just two or three years, and the other party has changed so much, and then look back and see that my changes are not small.

When I saw my girlfriend wearing a wedding photo, it was my inner emotions that were suddenly released, and I couldn't get together with my beloved after all. In the end, he actively looked for his love, and in less than two years, he slowly found the person he loved.

Time has passed, and now he is a father of two children, whenever he looks back on his love past,Always smile and sigh, time is so fast, it can really change everything!!