How can you not love her, how can you not think of her, forget her! 20

Friend, if you are sure that with her is fruitless. Then don't fall into it anymore, I used to have the same experience as you, I liked each other very much in my heart, and at that time it was like a demon, and I almost didn't think about her all the time! So I understand your mood now, you will feel very boring in life during this time, because you didn't get her, but this is just a small episode in life, you still have a long road ahead, maybe what suits you is still waiting for you in the future, so you don't have to let yourself fall into distress for her, but this also needs a process, if you can leave, choose to stay away, if you can't, then wait for the day of separation, there is no banquet in the world, I thought of suicide at the time, and then I survived.

Now think about how childish it used to be! It's normal that you're in this period right now, and you'll get better after that time. Don't be too sad, I hope my words can get you out of the darkness in your heart!

Theoretically, there is very little power in mind, and you must have thought of it yourself.

According to my practical experience, you should not restrain yourself too strongly, suppressing it can only make the desire to communicate with her stronger, and when you are dating, treat her as an ordinary friend, and try to contact other people of the opposite sex during this period

This is the most effective move.

May you be relieved soon, brother, since you said that there will be no result between you and her.

I'm a loser of feelings and I want to say, have a drink! If you drink too much, you'll be comfortable! Don't worry about how you feel when you wake up! At least I feel comfortable when I'm drunk!

Hey、、、 feelings are too complicated, and I'm also an emotional troublemaker! Suddenly.

Dude is falling out of love, and I'm worried about this problem, I can't help you...

1. Pack up all the items related to the other person, make a ritual goodbye, and tell yourself that the relationship is over.

Seeing things and thinking about people, many times, everything that happened with the other party is vivid because of the deep impression, and those items that can evoke our memories will make us deepen our feelings of missing each other, but cannot let us go. Therefore, having decided not to let this matter torment you again, it is up to you to dispose of these objects that evoke memories so that you can see them less often or even disappear into your life altogether. In this way, if you see less, you will have almost less memories, and slowly you will forget about each other.

2. Don't go to places that are easy to cause your own memories, gather more with friends, make more friends, and let yourself forget each other in a happy life.

Where you have good memories with each other, it's best not to go alone, so it's easy to fall into deep thoughts about each other. Let yourself get together with friends more often, make more new friends, so that you can experience a new feeling in the process of contact with others, and then you will not let the figure of the person you like appear in your mind again.

Liking the other person is a very beautiful thing, but if the relationship between the other person and you has ended, your liking will torment you and make you suffer different degrees of physical and mental damage. And this behavior of yours shows that you have neglected your emotions, and you have forgotten that you are the person who deserves your care the most.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.

If you have a better and better person around you, someone who loves you more, you will forget, you don't love you anymore, forget your previous feelings and pains, want to open up, be broad-hearted, can't be friends or enemies, don't associate with him anymore for the sake of your and his future family happiness, become a familiar stranger, can't hang yourself on a tree, it's important, be strong and work hard to find your favorite person and happiness!

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Forgetting to laugh is a more profound memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget, and not telling the truth, is very easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, do you open your socks to rise to the edge, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with memories, Let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

I hope it will help you with this answer.

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There is no good way, and I have been sad more than once! You are sad to prove that you love it, and it also proves that it has really become a thing of the past, and you can't get over it to prove that you still care about him because you really gave your feelings! I was sad before but not now, you can try my method, drink more people you don't know to talk about your thoughts, and slowly treat the past as a good memory, although bitter but also very sweet, so don't think it's a bad thing, at least that feeling of taking liquid also let you know a lot, let you understand a lot!

The ending is bitter, but I believe your experience must be wonderful, and what you will always miss is beautiful! So don't choose to forget, you have to choose to cherish it, hide it in your heart, and turn it into a beautiful memory forever! When you think about it, you may cry, but don't you feel that your tears are beautiful in the bitterness?

I'm sure you'll be fine! Good luck.

You don't necessarily want to forget him, because every time you remind yourself to forget him, it is to let your heart think about him again, keep yourself busy, and think about it when you want to call him to slide, and constantly enrich yourself, so that you don't have time to think about him, so that you will naturally think about him less times a day, slowly, let time wash it for you, and finally leave only hidden marks! In the corner of my heart, there should be a memory, but you won't get hurt by grinding upright.

Life is an accident.

Death is an inevitability!

The process of being alive.

That's life!

Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

I just hope that every step I take is without regrets.

Life is enough!

Find the value of your existence while you are alive!

Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world to take it with you, you can live with him for a while!

To live, you must have your own "goals" and "dreams", and paint a few colors on your life!

If you can't find the value of your own existence.

Just think about it. Myself.

Give yourself an account.

To parents. Friend.

The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her!

Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

Smirk. Draw a perfect picture of your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself.

Meaning is working towards one's own goals. Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy.

On the contrary, if a person does not have an ideal, what is done is to show others, what can they experience, people can not even regret these in their own lives, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, It's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day."

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take your life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Qi Feng, whose source is real, I don't think I can forget it, so I don't have to find a way to forget it. If you can't forget it, it means that his position in your heart is really important, and you didn't ask King Yi Neng to drop it, so why bother to forget about him? Don't think too much about it.,The hail will wipe everything out.。。

There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy.

Don't let this turn into pain. Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy.

Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

Hello:1It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.

You can distract yourself by using the distraction method, such as: play more with friends, find more fun to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.

Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and mingle!

2.Time will make you forget her, it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better not to live in the same city with her, it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her, because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her again.

You can go and remember her little by little, when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly not remembered, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, it's harder to really hate someone. You just have to leave the forgetting you want to her to time to solve, it's okay, after a long time, you won't forget it.

3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her!

But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her. On the other hand, you love her, but you want her to live better, maybe she left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.

Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked a girl, but she doesn't like me now, but I also miss you, every time I think about it, but she has a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and she doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it won't help. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.

Let me tell you one more thing: my current girlfriend or wife around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.

The above is my summary, although it is not comprehensive, but I hope it will be helpful to you.