Nowadays, girls ask for a house and a car, but the requirements are too high???????

I can't say this, I should say that not all people are like this, it may be that you haven't met the right one, and you can't get lucky.

It's very high, it's not easy for men to mix now, and a feminist society is coming.

The landlord wants to complain, but in fact, the reality is right. Women don't have the ability to blame men for being careful, men can't be patient, don't talk about women's reality. If you're looking for an ugly wife, the requirements may not be so high.

What about blind dates? ...What the woman's parents want is to see that their daughter has a life prospect of worry-free food and clothing, and the woman herself asks for a sense of material security [blind date is not falling in love, you can't give each other a spiritual sense of security in an instant, you have to cultivate it slowly]....And what about us men....It's just a tool to vent my desires [my own understanding]...As for the solution....One is to buy a lottery ticket and hope that you will win 5 million....One is to pay attention to it slowly in later life, and maybe you will meet your other half...

Generally, blind dates seem to be the kind of people who are very people, and the kind of family background is about the same, but sometimes the conditions are excessive, but now it is a realistic society, and ordinary people will think about their next generation, so they must also experience the painstaking efforts of their parents, if it is the kind of kind that loves money very much, the kind of conditions that are very excessive, or forget it, if you have no money, you will definitely let your wife leave you.

Congratulations! You've got your own questions answered!

That's how realistic this society is now!!

You can say that.

I can prepare, but my parents think that the woman should prepare a dowry equivalent to 80% of the value of these things as a dowry, otherwise even if you agree, my parents still don't look down on your daughter. ”

But under normal circumstances, this kind of thing can be discussed by two peopleIt must be the best for the woman, so that the pressure after marriage will be much less, and there is no need to think about the arrears. And to get married and live, I think there is nothing wrong with being pragmatic, after all, life is very realistic, so don't blame women who want a house and a car, after all, they think long-term.

You don't have a house, a car, no money, why should I be with you, then I don't need your money, I don't need your car, I don't need your house, and I don't need you.

Because girls are very realistic now, if a man doesn't have a house and a car, he won't follow you at all. Because these two things are necessary.

Because people's living requirements have become higher now, they feel that it is the most basic configuration for every family to have a car and a house, so it is said that girls now have to ask for a car and a house when they get married.

This is because if there is a house and a car, it will make the woman feel more secure and more confident in marriage. It is also a guarantee of marriage.

This is because after having a house and a car, you can lay the foundation for the life of two people, and you can also ensure the material foundation.

More and more single women are starting to buy a house, mainly because they will have a sense of security with a house and will be more confident in their future relationships.

I have a friend who bought a house in his fourth year of work. She believes that if she has a house, she will have more autonomy and confidence in her future marriage. "In marriage, the two will get along more equally and live more freely."

In the dating market, having a property is a plus and can help improve the competitiveness of mate selection. "It is natural that women are talented, good-looking, and have more expectations for the abilities of their other half."

We often talk about whether a girl should marry love or materialism. Because many times it is difficult to have both, the person you really like may not meet the material requirements, and the person who can meet the material requirements is not what you like. So that if you choose to have a house, you have to lower your expectations for love, so when a woman has a house, she will be more pure in her choice of marriage, expand the range of partner choices, and have more initiative.

Women who buy a house have material support for their emotions and marriages, and they will be more confident in their relationships.

In addition, more people feel that they can choose love more freely and are not influenced by the house, some people bluntly say that they have more bargaining chips for choosing a mate, and they can choose a better partner, and some people say that they can have more say in the family and have more security, 1 think that it will help the stability of the relationship and marriage.

Zhou Xiaopeng, a national senior psychological counselor, pointed out that in many cases, the stability of a family is built on a stable economic foundation.

When a woman has a house, she will have a more stable family economic foundation and more energy to devote to improving the quality of marriage and life happiness. "Moreover, some women choose to be stay-at-home mothers after giving birth, and may face problems such as marital risks, economic turmoil, reemployment risks, and reduced personal fulfillment. If you have your own fixed assets before marriage, you can reduce anxiety and family conflicts, and you can have more energy to pay attention to your family's life."