With my friends, I spend money generously... What s going on?

Updated on society 2024-04-06
55 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It seems that you and I are the same, but I don't know if it's the same, it's when I'm in trouble People who usually play better Pretend not to see it one by one, often play not very good friends and rarely ask him Will help me, I personally put feelings in the first place I don't particularly care about money enough to spend, so my business is doing a lot of losses, and finally I chose to be appropriate with those so-called good friends who have trouble to see 2 times a month to consume like this, Then choose to pretend to be in trouble and ask them for help If someone lends me money I tell him a time and then record it and give it to him when the time comes, and keep a better relationship with him, wine and meat friends still want it Although they are all buddies when they play, but sometimes they are still needed, such as when they are playing, when they are lonely, and occasionally there will be some small use of them.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't care about other people's eyes, the friendship that money gets in exchange is fake.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Dude, you can't pull others in if you are righteous and squandering money.

    It's your own business.

    What you think is morality.

    It's not going to be on the movie anymore.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I have to say that you are so pitiful, there is no need to worry too much about friends. However, there are too few people like you in society now, and since you feel a little reluctant to do so, change it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Face is not the first place, look at the opening point, and the rejection should be appropriate for 1 time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now this society is the reality, and I used to be like this! And my friends are all reading, I'm working, I think the reading and the working people are playing, of course, it's my job that pays for it! After working for two years, I haven't saved a penny, just like a request made by a friend, please eat or something, I feel like I can't bear to refuse, but this is really unbearable, and after a long time, I will indeed understand something, some shrewd people are, come out to play for a day, eat and drink and have fun, you can not spend a penny, so I came up with a way to go out for a day, this day only bring the money you need to spend, when you give money, just say that I only have this money on me today, and it is not enough to invite you, otherwise we will have AA ready!

    In a word, make friends and pay dogs! This money is not to be stolen and robbed, what should be spent on friends is spent, and what should not be spent is not wasted.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you care about your friends and want to be for a long time, just say it, and everyone will be in the AA system in the future, exchange courtesies, and help each other, it's as simple as that, and they will recognize the friendship that will be easy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Now the AA system is popular If your friend always takes advantage of you, then he is too unkind

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A lot of people are like that! Flee in a big disaster!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You have to have an alibi, and if you have the evidence and as you say, then you can sue the other party and sue them for defamation!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I feel like what you said is a bit messy, but you didn't do anything, so why should you compensate.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Well, you have almost no liability, and you can sue.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because of love! Two people who love each other, no matter what they meet, no matter what the other party does, they will still believe in each other as always, maybe this is fate!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    AA, girls are used to AA and respect their opinions.

    If you're like that, they'll run away from you! They feel that you don't respect them, that they will owe you and that they are tired.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm a girl, and although I like boys to take the initiative to pay, I'm not used to it, unless it's a guy with whom I have a close relationship! Even if the boy pays, he has to find a chance to pay it back in the future! There's no need to feel embarrassed.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To be honest, I like these kinds of guys.

    Compare the atmosphere. I'm a girl, I'm not stingy, I'm AA with unfamiliar boys, or I have better male friends, they're all boys, my friends like this, and I think it's to give them face.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    China is this kind of traditional concept, it's nothing, it's generally like this, if you don't pay her, you will be a stingy person!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Boys should pay. Chinese concept. Normal.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Men. When it's difficult, I can reflect you, and I can spend a little bit of flowers.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Fighting rice to raise grace, bearing rice to raise revenge.

    Once upon a time, there were two families who were neighbors, and they usually had a good relationship. One of the families was much richer because they were more capable. The two families originally had no grievances, but this year, God was angry and a disaster fell, and there was no harvest in the field.

    The poor family had no harvest, so they had to lie down and wait for death. At this time, the rich family bought a lot of food, and thinking of the neighbors, they sent a liter of rice to the poor family to save the emergency.

    This poor family is very grateful to the rich man, and thinks that this is really a life-saving benefactor! After surviving the hardest moments, the poor go to thank the rich. As he spoke, talking about the seeds of the following year, the rich family generously said:

    Well, I still have a lot of food here, so you can take another bucket." The poor man thanked him and went home with a bucket of rice. When he got home, his brother said, what can this doumi do?

    In addition to eating, there is not enough seeds for us to come to the field, this rich man is too much, since you are so rich, you should give us more food and money, just give such a little, it is really bad. When these words reached the ears of the rich man, he was very angry, and thought to himself, I gave you so much food for nothing, and you not only did not thank me, but also hated me as an enemy, you are really not human. So, the two families who had a good relationship.

    Since then, they have become enemies, and they have never been in contact with each other.

    When a person is about to starve to death, if you give him a liter of rice, he will take you as a benefactor; But if you give him a bucket of rice, he may think, since you can afford a bucket of rice, you can give me more, and you won't give it to me. You will become his enemy.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Contemptible people think that friends don't need to be too much, measured by money. When my brother heard this, he had three meanings. One:

    They will be friends with you because you spend money on everyone, and this kind of person is called "taking advantage of it is not enough", which is how the term "taking advantage is not enough" comes from. Second: The person who speaks is an unintentional mistake, it is really a joke, open-minded, and does not need to be taken to heart.

    Third: everyone said, non-money things, look at friends, look back, maybe you can find the answer from it. For the test only.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Friends are just joking with each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Don't worry too much about money among friends.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Break off with them! Chop the grass and eradicate the roots.

    Get!!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then you also ask them to buy it, and then you talk about them, come on!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's better not to be together, it's not that all the money needs to be spent by boys, but at least you are equal between you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Feelings are usually accumulated slowly, not by the diamond ring when you get married, recognize the situation and treat yourself well. Interaction between men and women, the traditional concept of China is still very influential, the traditional concept of men should be generous and generous, you think about it, before marriage is like this, after marriage is more difficult to do, it is better to break up early, I wish you happiness!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It is only natural that men earn money to spend on women; Is that boyfriend of yours still a man?

    It's better to break up early!!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    He used your money to buy you a big diamond ring. Hey. It's really an extinct super cheap man. Eat yours, spend yours, and ask you to give him your salary, and he will not pull out a dime himself. You can stand it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    At the beginning, men let women pay for their pockets, and such a man is unacceptable. It doesn't matter if a man is stingy, but if he is reluctant to spend money for his woman, the relationship will be big. Do you dare to imagine your life after you give him your salary card?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    First of all, do you think this man makes you very confused? It becomes a little difficult for you to distinguish whether you can still walk together, in fact, when you start to worry about these things with him, your feelings have begun to change, not every man and woman can have the same conditions as you, there is a house for you, there is a car to drive, you chose to be with him because he also has a good job in the house? Do you think this man is okay?

    In fact, when you start to think about it, is it necessary to talk about the problem of money after marriage, since you have such a heart, to be honest, if it is me, I will definitely leave you, because your feelings are involved in something, speaking of which, you should also know that you are also wrong. Let's give you a suggestion, don't get married first, is it acceptable to try to get married? Go out less, don't learn other people's romance, romance needs money to dress up, and don't blindly blame the other party, understand what burden he has, whether the family is in difficulty, and where his money goes, these are the important things, and you always say let him come to your house for dinner, do you think it's appropriate?

    Will he be embarrassed. You haven't thought about it, you are in the position of a daughter, and you take it for granted that you eat your parents. And he is different.

    He's not in the same position as you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Is there a tacit understanding between you? Feelings are the most important thing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's not an ideal marriage partner, hehe, after a long time, the personality will be understood, and it is not as good as it was to you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Forget it, it's better to find a man who spoils himself like a little princess, it's like this before marriage, and it's okay after marriage.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Illustrate that you are rich, she thinks the roots.

    I don't have to worry about money. You must be a very generous person, when you don't hesitate, you always rush to pay, why should you be polite with such a generous boyfriend?

    If you don't have the money, the woman will also understand and will help you pay for it.

    She likes your money more than she likes you, no money to feed, 886

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Of course you should pay for it when you are together, this is the consciousness that you should have as a husband, a woman can spend a few dollars on it, and she earns enough money to squander, when she is not spending your money, you are happy, because she doesn't need you, a man is not even willing to pay for food and clothing, how can he easily give the rest of his life to you. She just needs someone who loves her. She didn't save money for your future, she could spend it herself.

    She doesn't even have a sense of security, she will break out of her cocoon and become a butterfly, knowing what is most important to her, she doesn't spend a penny on you, what else can you do for her, and what is there to show off. If she gets sick one day, she doesn't know how to die.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Either you are too dependent and lack independence, or your emotional intelligence is too low, or you are only with your money....

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If it's a good woman, then she's just trying to protect herself, and she's afraid that you'll abandon her one day, so she has to keep her money, so as not to lose her wealth in the future, if it's a bad woman, it must be for money, as for whether it's a good woman or a bad woman, I think you should be able to judge.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Perhaps, the world of love is like this, but don't let love spoil! I hope it helps, I wish you a happy and happy life!

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I like your money, I have suffered this loss.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Don't spend a penny on her again.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Girls usually help their boyfriends save money.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    It may be that you love your money, but you also have to think about it, girls just use their boyfriend's money.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Because I'm not used to spending money with others, I don't like to push around!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Generally, women like men to spend money on themselves, unless she is financially independent, in fact, if two people really love each other, they don't care who spends money.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    If you want to marry a wife, you have to spend money, as long as you start a family.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I don't worry about you, I think you're not down-to-earth.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    The relationship between two people depends on the details, she is seeing how much you care about her, and you can discuss it after a long time.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Let's see if you're willing to be unconditionally nice to her.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Don't you know how the woman you get along with?

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    This doesn't have to be, it depends on the personality traits of the man himself. For ordinary boys, it should be that the woman is still very willing to be generous. If that man is more borrowed and is not very willing to spend money on his friends and family, it means that this is the reason for his own personality, and it has nothing to do with whether he loves you or not.

    If the woman's spending habits are okay, and the man was very generous to his ex-girlfriend or friends in the past, and he was willing to spend money on himself, it means that he doesn't care about you, but cares about the cost of being together.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    I can only say that I don't care about her, there are two kinds of situations, one is that people are born more picky, and the other is that the current level of competition has not kept up, what kind of man do you think you are talking about?

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    This is a woman's own thoughts, a little even as a rule, I ask you that the old rich man spent enough money for his second wife, but does he really love her? Spending money depends on the specific situation, and sticking to it will lead to a dead end!

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    At least I can see that I don't care very much! But it also depends on what is valuable, and if he doesn't have this ability, you have to understand!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Not necessarily, it depends on why his girlfriend spends the money.

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