My girlfriend was born on the thirteenth day of the first lunar month, and my mother said that Yang

Taboos and taboos.

In the Pearl River Delta area, people have the custom of taboo in daily life, although the auspicious words are said, and the unlucky words are taboo, so there is a common saying that "the good is not the ugly spirit". In the taboo customs, it is especially taboo to say or avoid the number of "thirteen", and all the happy events of marriage and marriage do not use the thirteenth day of the lunar calendar.

The origin of the custom began in the Sanshui District. Legend has it that a long time ago, there was a man named Yang Gong, who had thirteen sons, and everyone said that he had a good life, and Yang Gong also thought that he had thirteen sons, and often said to people: "I have thirteen sons, even if I encounter three disasters, I am not afraid, twelve months a year, even if one dies in January, I also have a son to send me to the end."

It was a coincidence, there was a plague one year, and it happened that there was a leap month this year, and Yang Gong's sons got the plague and died one after another. In December of the year, Yang Gong's thirteen sons all died, leaving only himself, and the evening scene was very bleak. People say that what happened to Yang Gong should all be based on the ugly things he said.

Since then, people have avoided saying ugly things, and when they say it, they will spit on it and say a good word again. At the same time, the number thirteen is also considered an ominous number.

The times have passed, and now it is fashionable to use homophony as the number of good luck and evil, such as "two", that is, "easy"; "Three" means life, "four" means death, "five" means "hmm" ("not" meaning), "seven" means "real", "eight" means "hair"...And so on, so thirteen has been regarded as a "real life" and has become an auspicious number. However, taboos are still prevalent.

In the countryside around Bai Ni Town, Sanshui County, the thirteenth day of the lunar calendar is still called "Yang Gongji", on this day, you should be especially careful when you speak, and don't say ugly things.

94 Your GF's Birthday.

8 over the table so superstitious 9 good.

First of all, do you love her? If you're yes

To hell with pesky superstitions!

Of course, mother's feelings are also properly considered.

As long as you believe that mothers will always love their children.

Believe that you will succeed and believe in yourself.

Oh yes, and try telling me about your girlfriend's Gregorian birthday.

What is Yang Gong, how much history he has, and it has nothing to do with this eight characters.

What age, still superstitious! If you really love your girlfriend, you shouldn't ask such questions.

There is a folk custom that the first month of the year.

Ten. March, February.

Ten. January and early March.

September and early April.

July and early May.

May and early June.

3. Early July.

January, August. Two.

Ten. July, September.

Two. Ten. May, October.

Two. Ten. March, November.

Two. Ten. 1. December 19 is the "Yang Gongji Day", and it is very ominous to marry a woman born on these days. Because "sheep" and "Yang" have the same sound, the woman who is jealous of the sheep was born on the "Yang Gong Death Day".

Yang Gongji's "day" is a saying in the selection of days, which is popular in many places. What is said is that whenever you encounter Yang Gong's death day, you must pay attention to it, and it is best not to arrange any major events, such as weddings, opening and starting work, signing and engagement, moving houses, going on long trips, etc., which can be said to be inappropriate; And if you don't pay attention to it, if you have to celebrate on Yang Gong's death day, it may bring disaster to yourself and your family.

Find some counterexamples online to show your mother.

A person born on the day of the public memorial, the prime minister who sleeps on the day of Yang Gong's death. He doesn't drowsy either, and his life may not be going well. Yes, it's not a smooth sleepiness. I don't know, sometimes, is the person born on the day of Yang Gongji's life or is it very good?

People born on the day of Yang Gongji's death, who close the silver slip, need to be specifically analyzed:

1. New Year's Day. Ten.

March, December.

Ten. Nine, eleven fight Biyue twenty-one: close relatives. These three people born on the day of Yang Gongji, the spearhead is directly aimed at close relatives, from the point of view of restraint, most of them are to suppress the career development of their relatives, especially the relatives in the officialdom, because of their birth, it is very likely that they will stop at their previous positions for life and cannot be promoted for life.

2. February. Ten.

1. October 20.

3. September 25: Distant relatives of Ke. These three people born on the day of Yang Gongji often have a strong restraint effect on distant relatives, when they are just born, it will inevitably be accompanied by the death of a distant relative, and, as they get older, a distant relative will pass away every year.

Yes.

Yes. This day is Yang Gong's death day. Legend has it that Zhao Guangyi, Taizong of the Song Dynasty, set up the Liao State strategy, went to the north to talk, the Yang family will be under the leadership of Yang Jiye, Qilang and Eight Tigers broke into Youzhou, went to protect the northern expedition, marched to the front of the two wolf mountains, Yang Jiye thought that the march had committed the taboo of place names, his surname was "Yang", "sheep" met "wolf".

In addition, there are also those who say that the thirteenth day of the first lunar month "Yang Gongji" is "Yang Gong Sacrifice", which means that this day is a day of sacrifice for the heroic Yang family general, the loyal and loyal "Yang Linggong". Therefore, Yang Gong's closed smile was passed down among Chinese folk.