What would you do if your boyfriend for two years doesn t want to meet your parents?

Updated on society 2024-04-18
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It depends. If you have been dating for a long time, if you have a relationship, and want to go on for a long time, you should go to see your parents. Of course, he didn't want to go, and I don't think any excuse can hide the fact that he's not sure you're his other half.

    He can also say that he is not a casual person or something, in fact, it is more likely that he is thinking about where he and you will go, and how the relationship will develop after all. So you have to pay attention, observe his state of mind, and guess his mind. It doesn't hurt to make a decision then.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Generally, if a boy really wants to get married, he will definitely take you to meet his parents! My friend is, they talked for three years, the boy is still reluctant to take her home to see her parents for a formal visit will give a red envelope, his parents have never mentioned that he wants him to bring his girlfriend back, my friend asked him to go to her house he didn't go, riding a donkey to find a horse and then divided.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    At this time, you don't have to be too anxious, you have to give him time to prepare, tell him about the funny and cute side of your parents when he is happy, and slowly make him feel the urge to see and find out. Of course, there is the worst-case scenario, that is, the boy only wants to fall in love with you and does not plan to marry you, so he will not meet the girl's parents.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You have to communicate with him well, why don't you agree with your family, is it that you talk too shortly, or you are both in school, if not, he just doesn't want to go home with you, I feel that I still have to consider breaking up, because the boy is not willing to go home with you, it really means that he doesn't love you, he doesn't want to marry you, maybe it's just fun.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I didn't treat you as a marriage partner, I didn't think about your future, my ex was like that, I quarreled with him many times over this matter, and finally broke up, break up early, don't waste any more time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    My boyfriend and I haven't met our parents yet. I think I must go to each other's parents' house to see, and the two sides meet each other, which is a process of mutual inspection. When you go to meet, you can observe the emotional harmony and personality of both parents through the details, and who is in charge of the family.

    I have friends around me who see that the man's parents sleep in separate beds, and there are those who are divorced and usually live separately but are temporarily together for the sake of their children. None of the above was said by the boyfriend himself. This information is more important than the financial situation of their family.

    Didn't offer to meet, maybe shy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't want to meet my parents, I can't say I don't love you, but at least I haven't considered you in my future. If he insists on not letting you see him, even if there is no problem with the family situation, then he may have some minor problems with his personality, at least not down-and-out and generous. No matter what the situation at home is, you have to face yourself squarely, how can you escape.

    I think that boys can't be generous in big things, they can't do big things, and it's difficult to achieve small things.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Sit down and talk about how you feel about it, and ask him if he still won't let him see him in this situation. If you don't let you see it, what is the reason? Whether this reason is really more important than how you feel.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It shows that the boyfriend does not identify himself at all, and it may be that he does not want to marry himself, so he is never willing to let himself meet the other party's parents, and he should take the initiative to ** this topic at this time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, if the two of you have been talking for so long, it's time to meet the parents.

    You talk to him first and see what he thinks. See if he wants to marry you, and if you have a future or something.

    If he doesn't have this attitude. You need to think about whether your relationship can be developed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    After three years of love, your boyfriend is reluctant to take you home to meet your parents, and your relationship is a bit hanging.

    Usually after being in love for so long, his family should know about your existence, even if he doesn't want to take you to meet his parents, his parents should also want to see you, it can only be said that his family does not approve of you, your boyfriend is also dragging it, and only you are really delayed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you are in a relationship for three years, two people should meet each other's parents, and if the other party is still unwilling to take you to meet your parents, you can take the initiative to ask to go to his house. Take a look at his parents. If he refuses to do so, you can question him directly.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, we must use communication as the principle and pour out our thoughts. Then tell him what you mean. If your boyfriend doesn't want to take you home, it may be because your relationship is not stable and you haven't reached the time to talk about marriage, so he doesn't want to take you home too soon.

    It may be that your boyfriend didn't think about talking to you about marriage, but just played with you. There are other ideas.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's been almost three years, and your boyfriend is reluctant to take you home and meet your parents, which means that your boyfriend doesn't value you enough, so you should choose to break up with your boyfriend, because such a relationship can't see the result.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You've been together for three years, it's time to take them back to see your parents, and at this time you should make it clear to him directly, if you don't say it, he doesn't know what you think, and no one wants their feelings to be fruitless.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you've been in love for three years, it's been a long time, and it's time to consider talking about marriage! If in the past three years, he has never taken you to meet his family, then in his mind, he does not plan to marry you!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If your boyfriend is still reluctant to take you home to meet your parents after three years of dating, it is likely that your boyfriend feels that the time has not come, or he is also afraid to face his family, that is, he is afraid that you will have too much pressure.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think two people who have been in love for three years are reluctant to take you home to meet your parents, there must be a reason for him, what if the other party can give you a good reason? You can also accept it gladly, but if the other party says that you can't make an appointment, I think you should choose to break up with him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can take the initiative to communicate and see what he thinks. If you have the idea of getting married, then communicate on the premise of getting married, and if you don't have this idea, then it is recommended that you stop the loss in time.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You should break up right away. Because your boyfriend has no intention of marrying you at all, you have to stop your losses in time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Because your boyfriend may not be ready yet, you should give him a moment to think about it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    After talking for 5 years, my boyfriend never mentioned the marriage of his parents, how should I understand his behavior?

    Probably because the other party treats you as a spare tire, or because the other party does not have the financial strength to get married, or because the other party does not particularly care about you, so they don't mention marriage. In this life, the most important people in life should be parents and lovers. If a man loves you, he will surely look forward to the application and willingness of his parents.

    If a guy who has been dating for a long time doesn't want to accompany you to meet his parents, it is likely that he doesn't love you enough, has weeds, and never wants to marry you. A woman who is deeply involved needs to be sober, and emotional things are inevitable. If this man doesn't want to have a future with you, it's better to get rid of it.

    I won't marry you. Some people have been with their girlfriends for many years, but they may not have any plans to get married. This is because they feel that their girlfriend is not a good marriage partner, so they will not mention it even if they have been together for many years.

    Or rather, he just got used to the days with his girlfriend, but this kind of day is just a process and not an end for him. Some people have the idea of marrying a girlfriend, but they may not be able to make up their minds to get married. The reason for this is that on the one hand, he is not confident in his married life, and on the other hand, he is not ready to become a husband.

    In other words, the boyfriend who has this idea is still hesitant to get married, so he didn't mention marriage to his girlfriend. However, once he makes up his mind, he will soon act and propose to his girlfriend.

    The reason why a man refuses to take you home to meet your parents is probably because he doesn't really love you. If a man really wants to be with you and he really loves you, then when your relationship enters the stage of talking about marriage, he will definitely take you home to meet your parents. Because he really can't live without you, he will want to marry you.

    Before getting married, he will sincerely introduce you to his parents and family, and he will hope that your love will be recognized and blessed by his parents' family.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's likely that he doesn't want to get married at all, or that he's still unhappy with you, so that's why he's doing this.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think it may be because your boyfriend thinks that now is not the time to get married, and he can't give you the life you want, so he didn't mention the matter of marrying your parents.

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