What should I do if my new love knows that we are in touch when we get back together?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-28
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    When you get back together, if your new love knows that you are connected, you can choose to break up with the current one, and then start over with the previous one, as if nothing happened?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello, in this case, it is recommended that you explain it clearly, express your love more, and feel it to the other party in this situation.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Now that you have a new love, you're going to get back together, this is a problem with your character, and since you are known by the other party, there is no good way, unless you lie, but one day it will be exposed.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    has reunited, it is a legal couple, and it doesn't matter if his new love knows.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you don't drink, and then others know that there is a connection, then you must be better with your hands, so that you will not delay each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think first of all, you are a very unruly person, since you have a new love, and you go to get back together with others. Which end you want, you will end up with both. You don't want to think about any way to fix it, your best thing to do right now is.

    Think about which one you choose to choose from, and talk to people wholeheartedly. That's it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You can explain this to him clearly, don't force it if you fall in love, get together and disperse, so that both parties don't feel sad, say this, talk about it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In this case, you can only cut through the mess quickly, you can only be good with one person, you can't be good with two people at the same time, and you are known, you have to make a choice, if others guess, but don't know that there is no point break, this is one thing, but now people point out is another thing.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When you are resurrected and known to your trusted boyfriend or partner, then you should choose one and don't step on two boats at once, so that you will get nothing.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    When you get back together, if the new love knows that we are in contact, you must know that he knows, and if you don't know, he will definitely find you in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since you have decided to break the mirror and reunite, then you will break off with your new love, otherwise a catastrophe will come.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can't be too selfish, you can't have the best of both worlds, you have to choose one of the two people, loyalty can't be both, you understand? Don't hurt anyone anymore.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you should make it clear to him, if you can make the emotional thing clear, then make a good promise.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you get back together, the new party knows that you are still in contact, it depends on how you explain it to the other party, as long as you explain it clearly to him, I believe he will forgive you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you know, you know, if you know, it depends on the situation, and everything will go naturally. It depends on what he thinks.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Hello, this friend actually thinks that if this is the case, you should explain it to the other party well, and there is also the treatment of feelings, you must be loyal, and never step on two boats.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What should I do if my new love knows that you are in contact, I think many things will cause harm if you know them, and there is no way to make up for it, just let time dilute them.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    What if the new love knows that we are in contact, I think that since he has a new love, you should no longer get involved in the two of them. To become the second junior, it's better to stay away from him, that man is also a scumbag.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since you both have a new love, you shouldn't get back together, or you should make it clear to one of them about your situation, you will definitely be misunderstood and angry by others.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Knowing that people will definitely make a big fuss with you, you won't have any good way, after all, it's your fault.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Then you know, you can only confess, two people can only choose one to choose the person in front of you, or choose the new person.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    When I got back together, I was known by my new love, so I still have to think carefully about which one I like.

    If you want to get back together, don't be with your new love, so be decisive.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Now that you have reunited with your ex, you should break up with your new love completely.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Since you know that the other party has a new love, you should deal with the new problem before getting back together.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In this case, you have to calm down and analyze it, and it is best to communicate and make an appointment to analyze and solve your emotional problems together!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Then you have to be known by your new love when you get back together, because you can only choose one person, you can't say that you are back together, and you are still in contact with the new person, which is not appropriate.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If I can't get in touch, I think I can wait until later, because I can't get in touch for the time being, and I don't think there's any need to rush.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then don't get back together, since we all have new loves, what's the point of getting back together, and then separating?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Reunion, it proves that you are going to be with your previous object, so why find a new love, since you have decided to get back together, and you have also gotten it, then be responsible for the object.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then this is you, oh, it should be, so since you have a new love, why do you want to get back together? Since you want to get back together, don't have a new love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You should ask yourself, do you still have love for him? Does he still love you? Or will they use you as a transit station, and when they find a good home, they will kick you away?

    If you clearly know that you have no feelings for him, and he has true feelings for you, then you don't have to be so distressed now, just get back together and be done, and you are so distressed now, the reason is that you have doubts about his love, and a love without trust will not go far after all.

    I think you have at least three things to understand about this question:

    1. What was the reason for the breakup at that time, your fault or her fault, you were able to break up for this reason at the beginning, and you can also break up for this reason after getting back together. So you have to think about it, in the end, can you? Also ask the other party if you can?

    2. What is the other party's attitude towards you now? This is very important, if the other person has been completely relieved and has no feelings for you, that's it! Bless each other! After all, I once did!

    3. If you are already clear about the above, then you are left alone. Ask yourself, are you willing to be with each other for the rest of your life?

    After breaking up with your new love, you will be reunited immediately, should you think about whether you have let go of this relationship? Or coincidentally shout how deep your feelings for Xiao Youye are, you have a new relationship, but you find that it is not suitable, or is it suitable for your ex? If it's the latter, then even if you get back together, I don't think you may be able to last long, because relationships that are not based on feelings generally don't last long.

    If you really can't let go of him, then you also need to know what the other party means, whether he already has a new relationship, and if so, there is probably no hope at this time. If not, and he doesn't dislike you, there's still a chance to start over.

    In the end, no matter what, if you want to get back together after a breakup, the first thing to deal with is whether the problems that caused your breakup before have been solved? If it is not resolved, it may be the cause of your breakup again in the future, so this must be dealt with first.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Summary. If you say that you have a new love, then if you plan to get back together with your new love now, this must be a trade-off, you must give up your new love, you can propose to break up with your new love, and then take the initiative to get back together with your ex.

    For your current doubts, the teacher feels that you want to get back together, what you said is that you have a new love, do you have a new love or the other party has a new love?

    If you say that you have a new love, if you are now staring at the hidden calculation and reuniting with the new love, this must be a trade-off, you must give up the new love, you can propose to the new love to break up, and then take the initiative to get back together with your ex.

    But if it is said that your ex has a new love, this is more difficult to do, you can only wait for the other party to break up with the new love, you can just propose to get back together, or you can also send a message to your ex directly, tell him your own thoughts, tell him that you want to get back together, depending on her thoughts and attitude, will she choose to be with you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    The ex and the new love broke up and came to you, you should try to accept him and give him another chance, so that you can get back together, after all, you had feelings before.

    Actually, you have a big advantage. The ex and the new love broke up, which actually means that there is no special relationship between them, so even though he once had a new love, you don't feel that the other party just doesn't love you, so it is very likely that this new love is just his temporary interest, have confidence in him, and believe that he will eventually return to your arms.

    Just imagine, if he and his new love are true love, then why are they coming to you again now, so for him, you still have a lot of charm. Coupled with the fact that there is a certain emotional foundation between you and him, you are in an advantageous position both at the level of redemption and on the issue of him loving you a little more. That is to say, as long as you want to redeem, are willing to change, and use the right method, he will still return to your arms.

    If you want to know more clearly whether he still has feelings for you, you also have to see when he found this new love.

    1. After breaking up, I immediately found a new love.

    Perhaps, you will feel confused, looking for a new love so quickly, is it so quick to forget you, and then have negative feelings. But if you think about it from another angle, the other party is looking for a random one because he lost you and was lonely, then this new love is likely to have your shadow, and he is likely to love you too much, so he finds a new love like you to anger you, so don't be afraid.

    At this time, you need to arouse his miss for you, that is, when he has just broken up with his new love, contact him again, just as a friend. You can care like a friend, and get rid of the problem that he didn't like you at first, when you are constantly getting better, and it happens that he breaks up with his new love, he thinks more about your goodness and your past. That is, in the case of contrast, you will be chosen.

    2. Break up for a while and find a new love.

    In this way, it will be seen that your ex is still more rational, and the relationship between him and his new love may not be because of loneliness, but he really has feelings, but he broke up for various reasons, so he wants to get back together with you, and then he will remember you even more. That is, your position in his heart is far higher than that of his new love. As a man who is a visual animal, he will definitely consider choosing a companion in the future from factors such as appearance and personality.

    At this time, you should not always take the initiative to find him, but build yourself into a new image, such as changing your reputation and style, changing your dressing style, etc., and appear in front of him in a different way, so that he will be attracted to you again. Although he once had a new love, that doesn't mean anything, the one who persevers to the end is the most beautiful, and self-confidence is the posture you should have. I'm sure you'll be able to walk into his heart again.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If you want to get back together, you can't find another new love, because the other party cares very much about you looking for it again. You can impress each other with sincerity.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    1. Completely let go of the past.

    Some women always feel that the man should be as sad as herself after breaking up, and they can't do without her and want to get back together. You don't know that the man has come out of his past relationship, and your breakup may be a relief for him. Especially when your past is very contradictory.

    If the other party has always been in this state of mind, it is understandable to find a new love immediately after a breakup.

    2. New love can temporarily replace old love.

    Lovers are not protected by law, and even splitting is only morally condemning, not to mention that you have broken up. Maybe he can't let go of you in his heart, but if there are suitable people around him at this time, it is also possible to be with others. Even if I think of you occasionally, I can only sigh.

    3. Deliberately looking for a new love in order to heal.

    The other party may be very unable to let go of a woman, but in order to anger her, he deliberately looks for a new love. After watching the scene of the protagonist breaking up in "Predecessor 3", you know that this is a phenomenon that can also occur in love.

    4. Can't stand the window period.

    After the breakup, the man knows that he can't return to the sweetness of the past, so he can't bear the loneliness and looks for a replacement to quickly forget the pain caused by falling out of love, and pins his trust on other girls' feelings to heal, and he is not a dedicated person.

    5. I was already with her before I broke up.

    Maybe this girl is the person he has always liked, her boyfriend has been paying attention to the state of the other party, and the other party also happened to fall out of love, so she showed favor to him, and you also mentioned breaking up and just hit it off. This kind of man doesn't care about you at all, you have always been a stand-in but you don't know it, and you are still addicted to his hypocritical affection and can't extricate yourself, and when he is in love, he has other choices in his heart.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    No, if you want to get back together, it means that you still like the person before, then when you want to get back together, finding a new love means that you have given up getting back together and want to start a new relationship.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Since you want to get back together, you can't find a new love, don't think that you will meet a better one, because you want to get back together, it means that the other party must have the advantages to attract you, so cherish the previous party and cherish each other.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you decide to separate completely, then you can find a new love, if you want to get back together, you should not find it, and keep your distance from your new love, this is a moral issue.

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