What can hurting yourself really bring to yourself?

Love is not a game because we can't afford to play it. Love is a sincere giving, and it is impossible to forget that it is really impossible to do. No matter where the destination will be, I think I should leave an innocent beauty in my heart.

I have never been easily tempted by others, and suddenly I found myself deeply in love with you, that feeling is really difficult to express in words, is it joy? Is it sad? You tell me to forget, do you love to say that you can take it back?

If you can, it's not love. Maybe I don't have the courage to face the cruelty of reality, so what is courage? Is it crying that you love me?

Or crying to let you go? I guess there is no one right answer at this point! Don't let love become a pain I can't remember seeing this sentence from **

If you don't love someone, let it go so that others have a chance to love them. If someone you love has given up on you, let go of yourself so that you have the opportunity to love others. This is straightforward but very reasonable, and it also teaches people how to deal with emotions from one side.

If you are rejected to pull, you are not sad, but you should improve yourself. Make those who reject you regret it!

Go on! Support you! There's no leap that can't be crossed! Believe in yourself! Hurting yourself often brings more pain to yourself!

If you are skeptical of yourself, I suggest you don't pursue it, love itself is a very allergic thing, the more you are afraid of it, the more it torments you!

Bring grief to yourself. But at the same time, I learned something.

As long as you feel that these injuries are worthy of virtue. You can continue!

Find your place and chase your dreams.

Buddy, do you want to be more and more courageous, and when you meet someone who is worth paying, you must chase it.

Oh, don't abuse yourself.

Sometimes someone else's words can hurt you severely. I still can't forgive it long after, and as far as I'm concerned, I've been seriously hurt by a quote from a friend of mine who used to be. He sentenced Yin Bo to me, what are you, the reason why this sentence hurt me the most for the longest time.

It's because this sentence makes me very chilled, this sentence comes from the person I trust the most, and this sentence changes my attitude towards making friends, these three reasons.

First, the reason why this sentence hurts me for a long time is because it makes me feel very cold. The reason why such a sentence hurt me so deeply, for so long is because this sentence is very chilling to me, what are you, this sentence is full of hunger and distrust, and deep disdain, this attitude makes me very chilling, and it is because of this that this sentence will hurt me for so long.

Second, this quote comes from the person I trust the most, so it hurts me even more. One of the most important reasons why this sentence hurt me so much is because it comes from the person I trust the most, the person who said this is a friend of mine, I trust him very much and regard him as a confidant, but I didn't expect him to say that to me, which is unbelievable. I felt deeply hurt.

Thirdly, because this sentence made me change my attitude towards making friends, this sentence hurt me very deeply. My former friend said that sentence What are you, and the most direct change it brought to me was that I changed my attitude towards making friends since then. Specifically, I have a new understanding of what kind of person is suitable to be my friend, and then my attitude towards making friends has also undergone a fundamental change, which is the most important change in my life experience, which also fully proves how deep and how long that sentence has brought to me.

First of all, in the face of other people's injuries, be strong in your heart, don't let this kind of injury endanger your physical and mental health, let alone let it affect your work and life, which is the basic principle of self-protection. If you really can't be completely unharmed, you can do your best to minimize the damage.

Second, see if the hurt is deliberate, and if not, forgive. Again, see if the damage is continuous and repetitive, and if so, it must not be tolerated. Finally, look at the severity of this injury, if there is nothing, you can give it up, and if it is serious, you can resort to the law if necessary.

Interpersonal relationship is a major topic in our life, it can be more difficult than our hard work, but we need to be an individual, we need to integrate into a collective, we need to communicate with people, we need to be mentioned by others, and now we are told about economic development, we bury our heads in work every day, but what we do will not be recognized by everyone, many people in life, not necessarily-for-tat, many things in life, not necessarily based on reason. Let, may not bring you good luck, but it will definitely help you resolve the conflict, forgive but never believe again, and there is no need to make deep friends. On the road of life, if you can't get along with anyone, you can't get along with yourself in the end.

Heaven is a good reincarnation, and the sky forgives whom.

Let's see if the injury involves principle. There is no particularly bad impact, and it is over without involving your own bottom line. The other party has a lot of potential value to himself, so it's best not to tear his face. Rest irrelevant depends on the mood, don't let yourself live too tired.

Others are indeed angry about their own harm. Think about it in hindsight. If it's not a limb injury, why bother with such unnecessary idleness?

If you are angry with him, it will be time to retribution. And spend a good time on idle things that don't make any sense? Forgive, why?

He hurts you, forgive him. Have you not become a lamb to be slaughtered? The best way, I advise you, stay away!

The farther away from such a person, the better. Avoid right and wrong. You tell me?

Have fun!

There are two options, 1- Be generous and tolerant, and treat him as always.

2- Ignore him, and don't repay him.

Don't pretend, or it will be painful.

If it is intentional and the damage is deep, then choose to stay away.

If you can be tolerant, you will be tolerant, if you can't be tolerant, you will stay away, and if you can't stay away, you will fight back.

Throw the past. Forget about it. Then stay out of harm's way.

It does not involve the safety of life and property, so what can it do.

There is no other way but to go with the flow.

How to deal with the harm caused by others to yourself, you ask, whether to choose tolerance or distancing? I think it depends on how much others hurt you. If it hurts you on a matter of principle, and it is quite serious, you should not choose to be tolerant, but fight on the basis of reason and go through the legal process; If the hurt is not very serious, and it is only a trivial thing that hurts you, you should choose to be tolerant, as the saying goes

Take a step back and open the sky.

It depends on who the person who hurt you is, if it is your family and friends, then you can choose to be tolerant and understanding, or even more tolerant. If it's someone who doesn't matter to you, then you can choose to stay away or ignore it. The most important thing is to see how much they hurt you.

I used to suffer silently and cry when faced with other people's hurt to me, but now I think clearly, I want to be self-reliant.

Since it can hurt you, it means that your relationship should have been good before, and you should be very close to each other. Maybe he hurt you, inadvertently, or he had to do it. Now that you have a chance to get back together, why don't you take it, but you have concerns in your heart, afraid that he will hurt you again, right?

In fact, people living in the world should always pay attention to protecting themselves, make friends, and make good friends who know each other well. I was also betrayed by a friend, and when I did bad things together, he pushed it all on me when I took responsibility, and I was very disappointed in him at the time, and then he came to me to admit his mistake and said that he owed me a favor. I just laughed.

People are selfish, this is the commonality. But when dealing with someone who has hurt you, it's best not to hold a grudge and think about why he did what he did from his point of view. Finding relief for yourself will at least make you feel more comfortable, and don't blindly remember so much hatred in your heart, which will not benefit you in the first place.

A broken mirror cannot be truly reunited, and the wounds suffered will definitely not heal completely, and there will be a scar. Once in a while, when you see the scar again, you will remember the hurt you have suffered, and your heart will not be so happy. So we have to be sunny with the scars, the people who have hurt you.

It's good for both of you. Why not?

True friends hurt each other and can understand each other, you hurt me, I know the reason. If friends can't be friends, then we shouldn't be enemies, even if we are ordinary people.

1. In life, you have to experience countless injuries. Hurt not only comes from enemies, but also from relatives and friends. Sometimes it comes from yourself, and the harm you do to yourself is the real harm.

2. Life is a process of exchange, youth is lost, and wisdom is gained; Time is lost, and knowledge is gained; * Disappeared in exchange for sanity; The speed is gone, and the exchange is profound. This is the trajectory of life.

3. Life is indeed short, and the years are really ruthless! It is so short that we often forget to cherish, forget to pursue, and forget to taste slowly; When the years become the past, I know the heartache, the loss, and the ruthlessness.

4. Optimistic people always see hope in life, but pessimistic people always see hope as disappointment, as a result, hope always favors optimistic people, and disappointment always befalls pessimistic people.

5. The ideal is to strike the sky with an eagle, break free from the shackles of freedom, and soar into the sky; The ideal is that the mountains do not hesitate to twist the soil, get rid of the siege of mediocrity, and stand tall in the mountains; The ideal is to embrace all rivers, break through the limitations of oneself, and be magnificent without shock.

6. People live for a day, that is, they are blessed, they should be cherished, life is just a few decades, don't leave more regrets for yourself, the sun rises in the East China Sea and sets in the West Mountain, sorrow is also a day, joy is also a day; If you don't drill the horns of the bull in case of trouble, people are also comfortable, and your heart is also comfortable.

7. No matter how serious your life is, you can always find someone who doesn't dislike you. Do things when you're awake, read when you're confused, and sleep when you're angry. Many people struggle to climb to the top of the ladder, only to find that the ladder is on the wrong wall.

8. People, as long as they have a smile, can live open-mindedly and optimistically; People, as long as they keep smiling at all times, can have a permanent pass for Qi Song on the long road of life.

9. Human affection, human affection, human nature, to be kind and giving, good at communication, "usually do not burn incense, when in a hurry" is not feasible, therefore, "people's emotions to store", just like bank deposits, the more you save, the longer the time, the greater the dividend.

10. Zeng Guofan, the cultivation of the mind should be based on the purification of the heart, and the cultivation should be based on selflessness. The past, the past, cannot be remembered; Now things, now hearts, just follow the fate; The future, the future heart, why bother with Liang Liang's heart.

A word, a philosophy, a daily journey of the mind.

This is a very complex question and there is no one set answer. Everyone's situation is different, and various factors need to be considered, such as the severity of the injury, the cause of the injury, the attitude and behavior of the person who injured it, and so on. Here are some different perspectives:

Forgiveness: Forgiveness is a way to relieve the burden of the mind and help us let go of hatred, anger, and resentment and make our lives easier and calmer. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting to remember or accepting hurt, but letting go of the burden in your heart and finding inner balance and reconciliation.

Forgiveness also helps build healthy relationships and reduces conflict and tension.

Ignorance: Sometimes, ignoring the hurter may be the best option. If the injury is not very serious and there is no good solution, then ignoring the injured person may be the best option.

However, you need to make sure that your emotions and behaviour are not affected and that you can continue to live an active life.

Counterattack: In some cases, counterattack is also a suitable option. If the victim has been hurting you, or the injury is very severe, then you may need to fight back to protect yourself or prevent more damage.

To sum up, the choice of forgiveness, ignorance, or fighting back should be made on a case-by-case basis. The most important thing is to keep a clear head, a calm attitude, and correct behavior.

Either way, don't ...... with yourself

It depends on how much damage is and how far-reaching is the impact?

Some injuries are unconscious, temporary, and understated, and then they are soothed and cared for in time, and such injuries can be forgiven.

Everyone is at fault, you can't be bitten by a snake once, you are afraid of the well rope for ten years, especially your own family, it's okay, there are no sequelae.

Unforgivable harm is intentional and long-lasting, especially when parents are to children, and this kind of harm can affect the child for a lifetime.

The fate of a lifetime has been changed, distorted, and tragic. From childhood to adulthood, children have always been inferior and cowardly, looking at the eyes of others to act, lest others ignore themselves, afraid of conflict, frightened when they see fighting, blindly retreat when they encounter the coercion of others, and do not really stand up their chests in their lives, be upright, and dare to act.

Can this hurt be forgiven? May I?

No, people, you can't remember what you eat or don't remember, this kind of injury has to be remembered for a lifetime.

There is a way, don't do bad things, and don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door.

People are doing it, the sky is watching, and God has its own retribution.