If you have had a baby for another man before marriage, will you tell your husband after marriage?

Updated on society 2024-04-25
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    <> would, but I don't think you should tell him after marriage, you should tell him before you get married, since two people have decided to be together, they must trust each other and be honest with each other, besides, if you have never had this problem with your husband before marriage, if he is particularly concerned about this, obviously, if you only tell him after marriage, your married life.

    It will not be happy, and it is more likely to end hastily.

    Everyone has a past, maybe the past was happy, or maybe painful, whether it was because of our youth and ignorance at the time, or deep love, it is all real, and what you can do now is to face the past honestly, tell your future husband, you have done because of impulse, love, or what, let him decide whether to continue, after all, having a baby for other boys before marriage is unacceptable to many boys, in their opinion, this is more unacceptable and understandable than premarital sex. As a girl, I think it's a bit unacceptable to have a baby for another boy before marriage, does this mean that you don't know how to protect yourself too much, and you don't love yourself too much. Marriage needs absolute trust, mutual companionship and support, as your husband, he has more rights to know this, because this is not to say that talking about a few boyfriends is such a trivial matter.

    Of course, it's not that there's anything unbearable about this matter, I believe that we start any relationship and hope for a happy ending.

    It's just that sometimes the ending is not something we can control, because of some unavoidable reasons we have to choose to separate, when we are together, everyone is sincere, so I must not have any psychological pressure, the boy who really loves you does not care about these, because he loves you now, you at the moment.

    Love needs to be honest, it needs trust, and it needs to understand!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, now that society is so open, divorced people can find something wrong with remarrying, the essence is still the same. Moreover, many college students have had abortions in love, and it is normal to encounter such a situation in love. When a woman encounters love, she doesn't think about it for a long time, she thinks about being able to get married and live for a lifetime, but there are some men who are weak and timid when they encounter such a thing, and then run away.

    The girls who stayed behind had to face this reality, and they did so at the cost of killing the child, because they still had a long life. You have to know how much economic and mental pressure an unmarried mother has to bear in China, and for a man who is not responsible, there is no need to risk her life to have a child with an irresponsible woman.

    When women face another real relationship, they may be facing marriage, and they will be respected and responsible by the other person in a sincere relationship. Then girls should be more honest with the people who love themselves, as long as you tell him this situation from your own mouth, in order to communicate well and develop to a good side, of course, if he does not accept girls can not be forced, the general situation of boys really love girls is acceptable, now boys are mostly responsible, there may be only a few people who are too conservative in thinking.

    When you are in love, especially before your feelings have reached a certain level of tolerance, choose one to tell the man when he is happy. When your relationship feels like it's almost time to talk about marriage, you have to cook a meal for him at home and then have a romantic relationship between the two, and then tell him something very seriously at this time. Here's how:

    First of all, you have to apologize to him and tell him that you really love him and that you want to keep cooking for him this way. But he has to be responsible for all the major events in life.,I didn't tell him before because I don't think it's necessary to be in love.,When facing marriage, boys have the right to choose their own happiness.,No matter how you choose, you won't be angry and you will respect boys.。 After all, this is an unbearable life experience for girls, because of trust and love, so I want to let the decision be in the hands of boys.

    After saying a little bit, tell the boy how this happened at that time, and after telling him this, you have to have a little bit of emotional control.

    Let's just say that because I am old, I will tell him my secrets, because love needs to be established on the basis of mutual respect and equality, and if you deceive a boy because of this matter, you will feel that your conscience will be disturbed for the rest of your life. There will be no secrets in the future life, whether you can accept this depends on whether you mind or not, you can't force the boys at this time, they also need time to think, and then you can take the boy's hand and say let him think about it, if you really can't accept it, it's not reluctant, just treat it as no fate, after all, this is your own fault.

    A lot of boys like honest girls, so the more sincere people are, the more people can understand, it depends on the personal statement!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Probably because I'm too open-minded, I think, ** is not a thing that cannot be seen. It's just an experience, not an encounter. I remember someone complained on Weibo before, saying that her boyfriend broke up with her, but she had a fetus for him, is this a scumbag?

    The blogger said, if you think so, it's really ridiculous, ** is a remedy for not doing a good job of safety measures, since it's a boyfriend, it's not a forced behavior, then both people don't have the idea of safety measures, why put all the fault on the "scumbag". Using this incident to accuse others of being scumbags can show how pitiful you are. It's just an experience.

    And telling him to the person who wants to get married, just telling him about his physical condition, and honestly telling the other party about his physical condition, is almost as important as a premarital physical examination. It's not in other senses, telling the other person about the ex about the previous things, these are completely different things from telling the other person**.

    After the two people are together, they have avoided telling him about their ex and their first love, because this will have an impact on each other, and the two people will be estranged, and no one wants to listen to each other's stories with others after being together. But why do I support having to tell the other party, because the impact on the body is very great, if you don't tell it before marriage, what happens during the pregnancy preparation after marriage, there will be a crisis of trust at that time, and honestly tell the other party that these are not needed but necessary.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    No, because it's my own business, it's not about him, it's before I met him, and it's my privacy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, don't get married if your husband minds, it's just that you can't contain the fire! There is no such thing as an impermeable wall. Be brave and tell him that if he doesn't mind, you won't have a conflict in the future. Otherwise, this will be the fuse of your marriage in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What does this matter to him? The less you know about this kind of thing, the better, it's impossible to say. I don't say anything until the doctor says I'm infertile during the physical exam.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's better not to, it's better not to let him know about your past. If you love you very much, you will mind that you have been with other men, and if you don't love you, you will mind your past even more, so consider all the uncertainties and don't tell him that it's good. I wish you happiness

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't tell the comparison okay. Everyone has a past, and we can't cling to it. In addition, tell your husband that there is always a pimple in his heart, and you definitely don't get along as well as you do now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Well, if you have had a fetus before marriage, will you tell your husband I think if this is the case, many girls will ask the same question, this kind of I have had an abortion, can I tell my husband, first of all, I feel that there are many things that are well concealed is a protection for yourself and a kind of respect for the other party, so it is not necessary to tell the other party a lot of things about everything, for example, if you have a fetus, once you tell your husband, your husband will be guilty, on the surface I don't care, I don't care, In fact, I will definitely care a lot in my heart, I care very much about this is a man who has experience, someone who has come to tell you an experience, don't tell your husband about these things, your husband will definitely care.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It turns out that I have had an abortion, which cannot be seen from the B ultrasound, but it can be seen from the cervix, if you don't plan to tell her, you can also not tell him, which is conducive to the maintenance of your husband and wife's relationship, and the doctor will not say. You can tell the doctor because sometimes after an abortion, the placenta may become adhesions, and you tell me that it is good for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    According to the situation you described, I feel that it is better that you don't tell your husband so that he knows. I'm afraid that he will be in a bad mood and will have a different opinion of you. It will even hit you. I wish you good health and luck.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's best not to tell him, a man is just like a woman who says he doesn't mind on the surface, but in fact he still minds in his heart, and he doesn't ask you, it's better not to say.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't tell your husband.

    Because everyone has their own past secrets and their past feelings, since your husband doesn't know about your past, then there is no need to mention it.

    Because this is a sensitive topic, if you take the initiative to mention it to your husband, it may affect the relationship between you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You don't need to tell your husband if you have had a fetus before, as long as your husband wants to know, it doesn't matter if you tell her, you don't have to hide anything, because confession is equal to trust.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    He doesn't ask you and you don't take the initiative to tell him, but through your physiological changes...He will also feel that if the other person loves you now, he will not pay too much attention to your past.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is best to tell him that both husband and wife have the right to know whether the other party has a history of marriage, disease, genetics, etc. before marriage, and that only when they are honest with each other can they be happy in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Can't tell. Forget all about the past.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Men hate women who don't know what to do the most, and they will think that her pregnancy is all self-inflicted. Therefore, you are married now, and you are not married and pregnant in the past, so it's best to forget about it!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's best to tell your husband, and your heart is relaxed.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Are you idle looking for trouble, he doesn't know, forget it, live a good life, in the future, as long as he is about the same, just be nice to your husband, if you tell him, he has a small heart, and there will be times when you are not happy in the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Let's be honest, it's not advisable to hide it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It depends on whether your husband loves you enough, and if he loves you, he will tolerate everything about you, and he doesn't care about your past.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you get married, then you don't need it, after all, it's not a good thing.

    If you can't get pregnant for many years, this thing will be discovered sooner or later. After all, the hospital will check it out. The reason why I didn't get pregnant.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Then you have to be honest with your husband, otherwise it will be even more troublesome if there is any problem in the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's rotten in the stomach, and the stone sinks into the sea.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. Hello, dear, if a girl has had a fetus for a man, I think he will still cherish it.

    Will he still cherish you after having a fetus for a man.

    Hello, dear, if a girl has had a fetus for a man, I think he will still cherish it.

    Ask about custom messages].

    If it is if the two of you love each other and have deep feelings, because the objective conditions do not allow you to get pregnant at that time, you have no choice but to be ** for him, he will cherish it.

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    In this time, I belong to you, and you can communicate with me as much as you want<> [Bixin] Ann La, dear.

    I wasn't ready to get pregnant, and I was unexpectedly pregnant.

    Do men usually cherish such a woman?

    Uh-huh, that's not intentional, is it? If so, the boy will cherish it.

    Ask about custom messages].

    Action is the best execution.

    Did he take good care of you during the ** period? Dear Ask, Lord.

    That's really important.

    Because it can show his attitude towards you.

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  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think this matter still has to be told to your future husband, because what two people need to be together is mutual honesty and trust, so that two people will go further and further, and you can find an appropriate time to tell him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It still needs to be told. Now that you are ready to get married, then you should be honest with each other, and if he loves you, he will tolerate everything about you, including everything in the past. So it's better to make it clear in advance.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Personally, I think it's best to tell, so as not to become a thunder in later life, after all, many boys will still understand this in the current society, and telling each other in advance is also a sign of respect for each other!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You can tell your husband that it may have an impact on physical fertility in the future, and it is better to confess yourself than to be discovered, and you should be honest with each other.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    There is no need to tell your husband, because this is something that affects the relationship between two people. As long as you get married, you can live with him wholeheartedly.

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