What is it like to have a boyfriend who is particularly good looking?

I feel like this girl must be tired! I suddenly remembered to watch a TV series, and the relationship between Luo Zijun and Lao Jin in the first half of my life.

Lao Jin is a good old man, old-fashioned, driving a Santana, very considerate and caring for Luo Zijun, Lao Jin, who owns two properties in Shanghai, also makes Zijun's mother, who can't see Lao Jin, very satisfied, but Lao Jin is very inferior when facing Zijun, he saw Zijun's friend Tang Jing driving a luxury car, and immediately asked someone to inquire about Tang Jing's details, and after a few meals with Zijun's friends, Lao Jin deeply realized that they are not a level of people, and deepened his inferiority complex. Then because once Lao Jin wanted to take Luo Zijun out to eat together, and then Luo Zijun found a dress that he used to buy very expensive, and happily wore it upstairs to find Lao Jin, and then was unexpectedly opposed by Lao Jin, Lao Jin had to let Luo Zijun go upstairs to change into a dress that he usually wears, and said that he would just jeans. Then the result was that Luo Zijun and Lao Jin finally broke up.

There may be various reasons for this, but I think part of it is because Lao Jin's self-esteem is at work, and Lao Jin wants to save face!

Actually, I feel that finding a boyfriend who loves to save face is very tiring. Although I didn't have this experience like I did. But I think think about it, if you go out with your boyfriend, if you're really lazy, you don't want to put on makeup, you don't want to change your clothes, and then you go out with your boyfriend, your boyfriend will think about whether he will meet an acquaintance on the road, and then he will want to meet an acquaintance who sees your sloppy appearance, and then he will think about whether he will be seen by an acquaintance, and then laugh at your boyfriend.

Then at this time, your boyfriend's face will be a hindrance again, and then the two of you will inevitably quarrel and get angry. Then the results can be imagined.

And if you find a boyfriend who wants to love and save face. Then you always have to take into account his feelings when you go out. Then you must give him enough face in front of acquaintances, whether you are willing or unwilling, whether you pretend or really, this is the case.

I feel like it's really going to make you tired. <>

1. You find a suitable opportunity to tell him what you think, and don't let him ignore your feelings. Second, you can treat others in the same way, so that the other party can also feel your state of mind. 3. If the boyfriend insists on not changing, then it is best to choose to separate.

If it is only a relatively shallow good face, but it will still focus on you, then such a man is still worth entrusting, but if he will ignore your feelings because of a good face, and completely ignore your existence, then such a man obviously chooses the former instead of you between face and you. When you meet a man like this, you will slowly accumulate disappointment in the future, and the long pain is better than the short pain, since you have found out where you are, it is better to let go of yourself as soon as possible.

All in all, the question of a boy's good face will vary from person to person, and only you know how to get along with two people, and only you can make the right decision if you choose.

In fact, a good face is a manifestation of vanity, not understanding your feelings is disrespectful to you, it can also be said to be not enough love, I don't think there is any need to continue to maintain such feelings, choosing to leave is the best way.

It's normal for a man to have a good face, and when you eat or play with his good buddies outside, you must give her enough face, if there is anything you think is too much, after the end, there is only the place for the two of you, tell him directly.

I will give him face in front of his friends, but when I get home, I will talk to him about it, and I will also experience my own feelings while saving face.

Then try to confide in your boyfriend about your inner feelings, so that your boyfriend can slowly understand you, and your boyfriend may change.

If it were me, I felt like I would raise my grievances directly. Let your boyfriend make some targeted changes so that you can get along better with your boyfriend.

You should guide yourself and the other party correctly, talk to the other party well, and explain this matter to him.

Don't say it's a man, don't women lose face? If your boyfriend is not polite to you at all in front of you and your best friend, don't you feel that it hurts your face?

Most of the men seem to be quite face-loving, and some are a little machismo.

Two people together to understand each other, tolerate each other, if you really love each other, to be humble to each other, your boyfriend must have his interests and hobbies, you have to participate more, you like to travel, will naturally accompany you, travel can not only think about yourself, you can occasionally mention your boyfriend's interests.

Distinguish the difference between vanity and good face.

If it's really vain enough to compare, regardless of feelings and your own pressure, it's up to you whether you want to break up or not.

If you slap your swollen face and become fat, or pay for it to actively earn performance, you have to buy things to save face and not bargain. Then after the face, have a good chat and increase his confidence.

Vanity is something that everyone has, and it mainly depends on the degree, and a little vanity is supposed to be, and it's not even a bad thing, because after all, in this society, you need to disguise it to some extent.

But this degree needs to be screened, if it's just bragging with buddies, or like to behave in front of people, it's actually fine, but if you don't know how to pretend to understand anything, even if you lose money, you have to save face, and you don't care about the cost at all, so it's divided.

People come to the world as a person, and leave as a person, everything on the way is a companion, you can meet your companion, and the distribution of breakups is to see if you still need it, or you can't keep it, you can't keep it, you can't break up sooner or later, you don't need it, you definitely break up, it is recommended to think about your own needs.

Boys love face for fear of hurting their self-esteem. In the male world, if love is allowed to compete with their self-esteem, most of the time, it is love that fails. A woman is abandoned by love, and she will first cry for the loss of dependence.

Most of the men are sad because they hurt their self-esteem.

That's how smart girls save face:

1. Don't quarrel with men outside.

A smart woman knows how to control a man, for example, if she has a conflict with her man outside, and the man makes her angry, what should she do? I believe that many women can't restrain their temper and must lose their temper and quarrel with men. But the wise woman endures it, this is outside, and she will consider saving face for the man and not disgrace him.

I couldn't bear not to quarrel with him outside and give him enough face.

2. Be sure to dress appropriately when meeting male friends.

Giving face to a man is not only reflected in not arguing with men outside, but also dressing appropriately when attending a friend's party. When a man takes you to a dinner, it is equivalent to introducing you to his friends, and his friends will naturally evaluate his women. Therefore, at this time, a woman's dress must be decent and generous, so that her man's face can shine.

If you let him earn enough face in front of his friends, then he will naturally like you more.

3. There must be no urging at the dinner.

There are two types of meals, one is to eat with friends, and the other is to eat with parents. These two kinds of meals, no matter which one they are, must not rush their own men. You have to know that if he is not in a hurry to leave, it is not necessarily that he wants to play, it may be because he has his ideas, if you keep urging, what will his friends or parents think, they will think that you are too strict.

So no matter what kind of dinner it is, don't rush him, you can say when you want to leave before the dinner.

4. Don't count down and belittle men in public.

In some crowded situations, no matter what topic you are talking about, don't casually belittle a man. Maybe you think it's all acquaintances, but your men don't necessarily think so, men have self-esteem, even in front of friends or acquaintances, women say this, men must mind.

Generally, boys will pay more attention to their dignity, which involves face, so boys will have better face, which is normal.

Because boys especially want to be respected and appreciated by others, it is the nature of boys to have a good face.

People who love face, the more they want to increase the goodwill of others through words and behavior, this is nothing more than a kind of protection for themselves, but in the final analysis, such a man is still because he has no confidence in life, so he will use some so-called face to cover up his inner shortcomings.

I think that boys who love face generally pay more attention to their words and deeds and behavioral norms, which is actually quite good, and the kind of people who completely let go of themselves make people collapse.

Boys love face because they like to pretend to be forced, and then everyone has a little bit of vanity, which is normal.

Men's self-esteem is particularly strong, which is a common problem of men, so you must give enough face outside and not hurt men's self-esteem.

Whether a man brags or shows off, it is all to exaggerate his achievements and win the appreciation and affirmation of others. Men are most afraid of being said to be incompetent, especially by the woman they love, which is the greatest shame and sorrow for men.

In order to satisfy his vanity, for other people's requests, whether he has the ability to do it or not, he will first agree to it, and then find a way!

Because they are like this, they feel that they really have face like this, and they can't be looked down upon.

It should be very unreliable, because it is impossible for me to give face to my boyfriend all the time, which is unrealistic in married life.

Of course, it's not reliable, because once you don't give your boyfriend face, the other party may turn his face and make you miserable.

I think it's unreliable, this kind of person is easy to be deceived for the sake of face, and will even slander you and humiliate you in order to maintain his face.

It depends on where he wants to save face, if he just wants to establish an image of a wife who is not afraid of his wife at home in front of his friends. Outside you can choose to save face for her, and at home he has always been very obedient to you.

This is normal, everyone wants to save face, as long as he is enterprising and good for you and your family.

I think unreliable, face-saving boys are generally machismo, and they are likely to do things that hurt their wives without considering their feelings for the sake of face.

I think it's unreliable, after all, a boyfriend who wants a lot of face will make you very sad because of face.

Reliable, because everyone has their own personality, there are many people who want to save face, it is not a big scum, this is one of his weaknesses, and people who don't care about anything are terrible.

I feel very unreliable, because for this kind of man, they don't care about their real life at all, they will only slap their swollen faces and become fat, making their family life harder.

is not particularly reliable, many times they do not have a good ability to save face, it will cause a lot of trouble to their lives.

Personally, I don't think it's very reliable to marry a boyfriend who wants to save face, in fact, as long as you are down-to-earth, no one will look down on you, and there is no need to suffer yourself with those face-saving efforts.

It's not reliable at all, and he'll make you pretend to be with him to save face. This kind of person is particularly hypocritical.

I think it's unreliable, because he is too good-looking, which shows that his vanity is relatively strong, and he is prone to inconsistencies.

Unreliable. Because he will not pay attention to your feelings for the sake of saving face. He will think that face is the most important thing.

Zeng, I regretted it when I got the certificate because my boyfriend was too face-saving.

At that time, I was introduced to my fellow countryman Jiang Xiaofeng. He was two years older than me, and after graduating from university, he worked in a public institution in Nanjing. After the first meeting, he was very happy with me and took the initiative to pursue me. I saw that he was also very handsome, and I could talk to him, so I agreed to be his girlfriend.

After getting along with Jiang Xiaofeng, I found that he didn't smoke, drink, prostitute or gamble, in short, he was good at everything, but the disadvantage was that he loved face too much. For the sake of this face, I quarreled with him many times. For example, as long as he attends a class reunion, he must take the initiative to pay for it every time.

There are many of their classmates who are well mixed, and they don't need him to fill this face at all, he "grabs orders" every time.

As a result, after each purchase, Xiaofeng could only borrow money from me to live. In May last year, the father of his elementary school classmate came to Nanjing for heart bypass surgery, he heard about it, and took the initiative to rush to send 2,000 yuan to this classmate who had not been in contact for almost 20 years. I called him stupid, and he also said that I was a woman's opinion, with a small belly and chicken intestines.

It was only natural that he helped him with his small hair.

But he only has a salary of more than 3,000 a month, so how can he live by giving people money like this? There are too many such things, I have no choice, so I have to make an agreement with him for three chapters, and let him hand over his salary to me, and he can only have 1,000 yuan a month to socialize. He felt a little aggrieved, but he agreed.

Three years later, we started talking about marriage. According to the custom, the two parties gave a bride price, added a dowry, and got engaged, and sent invitations to relatives and friends to prepare for the marriage on New Year's Day.

Seeing that we were about to become husband and wife, I didn't understand how Jiang Xiaofeng regretted getting married at the last moment of getting the certificate. When he got the certificate, Jiang Xiaofeng knew that I was a junior college, and he thought about it for a while and said that he was still willing to marry me. The only condition is that after marriage, I will take the college entrance examination and get a bachelor's degree.

If you want me to marry a wife who graduated from a junior college, how faceless! ”

I was like a basin of cold water poured from head to toe, trembling with anger, I knew he wanted to save face, but I didn't expect to be so harsh on me! I turned around and left, and the marriage was over.

I have no confidence in him at all, is our 3-year relationship not worth a bachelor's degree? There will be so many problems in my future marriage, how can I trust him to spend it hand in hand with me? Let me just marry a man who wants to save face, I am very unwilling, this certificate incident has become a thorn in my heart, so that I have a psychological shadow, since we are not all the way, it is better to break up as soon as possible.