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Loneliness is a state different from loneliness, which is a state of boredom and forced entry when there is nothing to do or no intention to do; Loneliness, on the other hand, can be described as a state of mind.
Some people are lonely by nature and like to enjoy a moment of tranquility in a world of constant and deceitful and deceitful; Some people have low self-esteem or are withdrawn, unwilling to communicate with others, forming a self-enclosed and lonely; Loneliness can also be the melancholy of not being understood or not being able to have good news when you are too much out of the others.
These are the categories of loneliness that I think are, but in reality: when you have ambitions and no one approves of you; When you have a lack of friends due to poor language and poor communication; When you are melancholy by nature, feel too impetuous or shallow with others, and want your own share of peace; You may feel lonely when you are surrounded by people who don't fit in with you and don't fit in with the crowd.
Loneliness is a kind of artistic conception, this artistic conception is sometimes good and sometimes bad, after all, people are social animals, when you are born with your own belonging, your own group. Loneliness is the growth of one's own cognition of oneself and the growth of one's cognition of the world in the process of growing up, and the amplification of personality leads to loneliness, and loneliness is not absolutely good or bad.
When you need to think, loneliness helps you think better, because you don't experience the useless social clutter at this time; But thinking must be based on the experience of society, so loneliness must be an instantaneous state, completing a momentary outburst; In most other cases, you still need to integrate into society, gain a sense of belonging and community, and enjoy the joy and happiness of communication.
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The loneliest time is probably when I have the habit of taking a nap when I am at home, and I can sleep until the evening when it is almost dark, the moment I open my eyes, I can't tell whether it is almost dark or dawn, there is no one at home, it is quiet and terrible, I pick up the phone and don't care about the message sent by the person, time seems to be standing still, everything stops, only you are still moving. Every now and then, you will feel abandoned by the whole world, and you will be the only one left. <>
The lyrics sing that lonely people are shameful, and now it seems that loneliness is slowly becoming less shameful, and you will definitely encounter many lonely moments: you don't want to eat alone, you don't know what to eat; I don't dare to go shopping alone, and I don't know where to put my hand when I walk to the street; A person must wear headphones when he goes out to hide a person's embarrassment.
There are so many people around, everyone is laughing and laughing, everyone's eyes are full of happiness, only you are standing in ten thousand people**, lonely so beautiful. There are countless things that I want to say, it's not that I don't have no one to talk to, but I don't know how to organize the language to tell the things that have been held in my heart for many years one by one, which is tantamount to picking open the wound that has been scabbed for a long time and sprinkling a handful of salt on it.
All expectations will turn into the loss of falling to the bottom, and I will slowly get used to loneliness. Loneliness is your shadow, where there is you, there is loneliness, no one can share it in your heart, collect all the memories of those bitter sweets, and high-quality solitude is easier to sublimate your personality. One day you will find someone who makes you not lonely, happy to laugh with you, cry and laugh, and treat you as a treasure in your mobile phone.
I feel sorry for everyone who is still suffering from loneliness, may loneliness be far away from you, and may your heart be listened to.
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I don't think it's when I'm alone, it's when I have a lot of friends around me, but I can't get into their conversations.
I'm not sure if I'm an extrovert or a lonely person, because I usually like to make friends, but after making friends, sometimes I want to be alone.
I always felt like there was something wrong with my temper. Sometimes you will be nice to people, and sometimes you will find fault with others, and you can't even look at yourself.
Sometimes I feel that I am a very bad person, and I feel that the friends around me are blind, why would I want to be friends with someone like me? After a long period of self-denial, I felt that I was getting worse and worse, I didn't believe in myself anymore, and gradually I felt that I was alone.
Once a good friend was chatting together, and I was distracted by my phone after playing for a while. Then the two of them opened up a topic that I don't know what it was. I wanted to blend in, but they were chatting so well, and I didn't think I understood what they were saying.
So the two of them had a lively conversation, and I could only listen.
At that time, I would have doubted that they really considered me a friend. I felt that I should have been very lonely at that time.
But then I thought about it, I just thought about it too much. After all, everyone's lifestyle is different, and there will always be some different topics that can't be integrated, maybe because I am short-sighted, if I try to enrich myself like this, no matter what problems others have, I can interject, so I won't feel lonely.
Loneliness is a state of mind, and most people like me can only be called lonely.
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When I was working hard in a big city, at night, I was alone in a rental house, and I didn't even dare to get sick because there was no one to take care of me.
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It is when you need help the most, but there is no one to find, no one to accompany you, no one to help, you will feel lonely, because at this time your mood is very low, a person's ability is limited, and you feel that your ability can no longer face the situation you are currently facing. When you're dealing with everything by yourself, you can feel lonely.
Whenever there are some incidents of abduction and trafficking of women and children or violence in society, I will feel that this society is so complicated and chaotic, and I feel that I am very small, so I must be vigilant, keep an eye on strangers, and protect myself.
A girl in our dormitory is very powerful, every time I buy something, I ask people if they look good, say it's not good-looking or keep silent, she can always find you a thorn, say it's good-looking and it's too against your will, and a dormitory doesn't want to make too much trouble, so it's so tiring to be a pretender like this every time.
Everyone feels lonely at times, and loneliness is actually the normal state of life, even if you are in an intimate relationship, there are moments when you need to talk to yourself. Loneliness is not terrible, the most important thing is how to look at it, and being able to successfully coexist with loneliness is the next step in life. Loneliness is always around us, in our daily lives. >>>More
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