Do you know the root cause of your disappointment in your marriage?

A woman who will be disappointed in her marriage must have a lot to do with her husband.

Her husband seems to have deceived himself, because before he got married, his husband promised to be very good to him, but after he got married, his husband's behavior was particularly infuriating, and he came home late every day.

But after going home, I don't do anything, I only let myself do things at home, but I still have to work every day, face a lot of pressure, and cook after I go home, which will make me very tired, and I will be very disappointed in my marriage.

Before I got married, my mother-in-law was very kind to me and obedient to me, and I felt that he would always be very friendly.

But after getting married, she always targeted me everywhere, and once I did something bad, she always said to me, who can stand this kind of life?

Slowly, I really wanted to divorce and give up my family, but looking at my children, I didn't know if it was the right decision.

I am really disappointed in my marriage, and the reason for my disappointment in my marriage is that there is no relationship between the two people, so I feel that my marriage is not happy. When I chose to marry my husband, it was because I had children, and the two of them were together only because they knew each other well enough to know each other well, and they just wanted to find someone to make do with each other.

When I got married, I chose to marry my husband because I was old, but I didn't have a good time after marriage. People say that they should get married on the basis of feelings, but at the beginning, they thought that it was almost the same to marry anyone, and it was better to find someone they didn't know to marry, and they also believed that feelings could be cultivated slowly.

But after living together for a long time, you will get used to each other's existence. In the life after marriage, I can't care about cultivating feelings with each other. So in the end, what disappointed me was that when I chose to get married, I didn't find someone I loved to marry together.

I used to be looking forward to life for a short time, but after three years of marriage, I was extremely disappointed in my marriage. Because I feel that my other half is lazy and gambling, what if this kind of life stays with me for the rest of my life? I always asked myself that question for a while, and then I decided to get a divorce.

I also know that the end of this marriage is actually the root cause of problems for both of us! Maybe it's because he likes to gamble and I like to play with my phone, and both of them have problems. He didn't know the Gu family, and I couldn't learn to be a good wife and mother, and in the end, the two of them separated, I knew that it was the child who suffered, but I couldn't live with him anymore.

Nowadays, many people like to play with their mobile phones, and some people don't want to do housework when they hold their mobile phones, and I am one of them! I know it's not right, but when I get addicted to playing games, I don't care so much at all, I feel that housework is not so important, and I devote myself to mobile games, which is the failure of life and the disappointment of him.

Similarly, when my husband loses money in gambling, I am also very disappointed in him, so that over time, the disappointment of two people in each other will turn into complaining, and complaining for a long time will separate.

The final disappointment in marriage should be that two people go against each other, and their souls are getting farther and farther away! The most important thing for couples is to "understand". When I look at you with knowing eyes, you know what I mean; You know what I look like when I'm happy, and you know how I look when I'm unhappy, and when I'm not feeling well, you do the housework.

When you are not feeling well, I will take care of life; I'm dressed very beautifully, you admire it, you dress up smartly, and I ...... credit for itThis is undoubtedly the most beautiful relationship between husband and wife.

The husband and wife in life are an interactive relationship, heart to heart, and happiness comes from this. And the final disappointment of marriage is that the hearts of the husband and wife are getting farther and farther away, and their hearts are no longer compatible. The souls of the two are far away, and they don't even have each other's hearts, their bodies and minds are no longer close, you go to the east and I go to the west, you say yours, I do mine, the husband and wife go against each other, and the whole family is completely lost.

This is the scariest thing in the marriage chakra! And the most disappointing marriage!

Marriage frustration is the meager feelings that have been paid for decades no one understands, and the youth is no more, how much can I remember. Marriage is a lifelong thing, and only by grasping it well can you be happy for a lifetime!

My view of marriage is that marriage is a major life event that everyone goes through. Some people get happy marriages, and some people suffer from the pain of marriage. Marriage is the marriage of a man and a woman.

In order to achieve true happiness, married men and women must trust each other, tolerate each other, and constantly exchange ideas so that their feelings can be constantly sublimated. This family marriage is his marriage. will get happiness.

After getting married, both parties are busy with their respective jobs, and there has been no ideological collusion between the husband and wife for a long time. When they encounter such and such problems in life, they cannot communicate peacefully, hurt each other's self-discipline, do not fight with each other, and live in pain and loneliness for a long time. Over time, both parties in the marriage develop a cold war mentality, which inevitably leads to the breakdown of the marriage.

My final disappointment in marriage is that I don't get love, understanding, or tolerance in my marriage. I think marriage is very necessary in life, and at the same time, it can also give yourself a strong backing, and a good marriage can make life more warm.

My last loss of hope for marriage is that the two of them are obviously very affectionate, but because of some trivial matters, the two of them quarrel every day, and finally break up. I think marriage is two people who can go through the second half of their lives hand in hand, and marriage is very important for every Liang Hedou person.

There was no relationship after the two Li Xun's personal clusters, and then divorced. I think marriage is actually a hurdle for women, if you bet on rotten oranges, you will be happy for a lifetime, and if you bet wrong, you will be miserable for a lifetime.

If you always feel disappointed in your married life, you should not choose to leave decisively, but should first make a judgment and then choose whether to divorce, because some conflicts can be resolved through communication, while some conflicts accumulate over time and make people choose to leave.

Sometimes, you feel disappointed but the other party does not know, if you bury the disappointment in your heart, you will let yourself become more and more aggrieved, and wait until the moment of the outbreak of the couple's feelings will be profoundly affected, you should first inform the other party of your disappointment, so that the other party knows your psychological activities in friendly communication, and make changes, the person who loves you will self-reflect in order to make you happier, and effective communication can make you feel less and less disappointed, and wait until the two people have passed the grinding source stupid period, Then your relationship will be solid.

But there are always some people who are reluctant to communicate, either because their partner is too sensitive, and they are just some small things, or they refuse to communicate, and they feel very upset and unwilling to change, in this case, it means that your partner no longer loves you, and the reason why he continues to maintain this marriage can be the whole world but it is no longer because of you, at this time, you must not let yourself feel disappointed again, and you can be completely liberated by dying directly to this man, Leaving decisively will give you the opportunity to pursue new happiness and joy.

In addition, the disappointment in married life is big and small, if it is because of family trivial matters and contradictions, so that you feel disappointed, this does not have to choose divorce, you can make mutual changes so that the marriage continues to be happy, if both parties are unwilling to give in then naturally choose divorce, but once you touch your bottom line, such as those events that society will condemn, or contaminated with some vices, once people are infected with these bad diseases, then it can not be changed, at this time you must choose to divorce and accompany marriage, fleeing from such men and marriages.

I think if you always feel disappointed, then you choose to talk to him, and both parties make changes. If he is indifferent and doesn't care about how you feel your chakra, then you choose to leave, because feelings go both ways, not unilateral efforts.

should leave Duan Jikai, but he felt disappointed, indicating that he and the other party were not suitable, and the two Shengran Cave people couldn't satisfy each other's quarrels in life at all, and they couldn't even give each other some feelings.

If there is no love, you can consider leaving Jiliang, first live as your own Xinchang, and then his wife, marriages are equal, but you must think about it carefully and make a decision with a frank attitude.