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I thought it would be miserable for me not to have a girlfriend. It turns out that there are people who are tortured even worse by love.
I see that the problem you describe shows that you are a smart person. If you still insist. Even if you are married. You are simply a slave. And there will be deep family conflicts. You describe it yourself very clearly.
Why do you have such mental characteristics? 1.Dependence is heavy.
She gives you extreme dependence. 2.Shallow consciousness of the mind.
Explain. This is unique to every man. What women don't have.
Not absolutely. The man's mind is that no one loves this woman more than himself. If the woman leaves herself.
The other man who is with the woman definitely does not have the shallow consciousness of being good to this woman. People with a strong sense of inferiority are outward. Girl: I really can't describe the shallow consciousness of girls.
I don't have a girlfriend yet. But I've seen boys give up on girls. Girls don't have this shallow awareness.
Instead, they will grit their teeth with hatred. A situation like yours belongs to her and abandons you. You don't hate either.
I don't know much about girls. So you should fall into the first category of dependency. You described it in such detail and said the advantages and disadvantages yourself.
People who are smarter like you are not too emotionally paranoid.
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Maybe there's a bit of paranoia in your personality Sometimes stubbornness doesn't solve everything Leave this place Change your number Go to a place where no one knows Time can make you forget everything And the best way to forget a relationship is to start a new relationship You need someone to enlighten you.
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You may have gotten used to having her by your side She has become a habit by your side Take your time Time is the best medicine But it proves that you are still a good man Hehe, I hope you get out of the predicament as soon as possible Don't lose a big deal because of small things!
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The human heart is flesh, since she doesn't love you, the long pain is better than the short pain!
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The feelings are cruel, and if you say no, there will be no more. However, the memory is still there, and sometimes, people are very fragile and can't tell what they are afraid of and what they are reluctant to give. Some people say that they will let go of it, and some people may not be able to do it for the rest of their lives, but life is still going on, and there is no right or wrong in attaching importance to feelings, so it can only be said that you are a person who attaches great importance to feelings, and you are a person who misses the old, you have nothing, live bravely.
For the feelings that have passed, if you are so painful that you choose to forget, it is better to choose to overcome yourself, we live in this world, maybe it is to challenge a chasm that we don't want or are difficult to cross. Come on!!
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Angry and impulsive, in fact, you still love her.
You don't need a reason to love someone, love is giving.
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I am currently in good psychological condition, positive and optimistic, very serious about people and things, have a certain understanding and plan for my life, and there is nothing unhappy, and my emotions can be resolved normally.
In terms of personality, I treat people sincerely, kindly, helpfully, delicate and calm, like to cooperate with others, tolerant and understanding, in terms of shortcomings, I do not have strong leadership, I am not decisive enough to do things, and I am not confident enough in myself. I rarely participate in clubs, and when I went to college, I didn't think I liked to do these things, and I preferred to be quiet, which was also limited by my own personality. This can be corrected through practical action.
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The people around me have no psychological problems.
As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.
If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.
As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful; Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this sense of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said: The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected, I only think they are noisy. Source year.
Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.
However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:
1. Most of the time, we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, we may be misunderstood as caring with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.
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1.Know yourself: Knowing yourself is fundamental to maintaining good mental health. We need to understand our psychological conditions, such as whether our emotions are easily fluctuating, sleep quality, etc., and discover our psychological problems in time.
2.Accept your emotions: Recognize your emotions correctly and allow yourself to feel the emotional fluctuations. Learn to correctly express your emotional needs, seek support and help, and refrain from emotional behavior.
3.Take good care of yourself: Maintaining a healthy lifestyle can promote mental health, such as eating a balanced diet, getting enough sleep, exercising in moderation, etc. Pay attention to your unbalanced needs and feelings, and don't use your mental and physical energy too much.
4.Find the right people to ask for help: Getting the right help is not a weakness.
Correctly recognize and treat your own psychological problems, and seek help from professionals such as psychologists or counselors as soon as possible. In addition, we can have a happy conversation with friends and family and share our feelings.
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Hello! I am also a person with low self-esteem and can get nervous easily. But these are not problems, because no one will pay attention to your inferiority complex, and no one will pay attention to whether you are good or not, just talk about it when chatting, everyone has their own things to do, and besides, isn't that how people are?
likes gossip, gossip, good friends and relatives, naturally will not rub salt in your wounds, they will encourage you, accompany you, and treat you badly, what do you care about him, why should you care about them? You just have to do your own thing, work hard without regrets, there are still many things in life, of course, at your current age, or study-oriented, come on! Juvenile!
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First and foremost, remember that grades are not the whole thing that defines a person. People have a variety of different talents and interests, and academic performance is just one of them.
Secondly, recognize that you have potential and can improve yourself through hard work and continuous learning. Seek help, such as talking to a teacher or psychologist, which can help you understand your strengths and areas for improvement.
Finally, remember that everyone has their own pace of progress, so don't compare yourself to others. Your own growth and progress are the most important thing.
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From your description, I can sense that you are very concerned and worried about your body and appearance, even a little excessive. This kind of psychology may affect your mood and daily life and needs to be taken seriously.
First of all, it needs to be clear that physical appearance is only a part of a person, and it should not be the only criterion for evaluating a person. Everyone has their own unique value and charm, and appearance is only part of it. Focusing too much on physical appearance can lead to the neglect of other important aspects such as inner qualities, character, talents, and so on.
Secondly, it needs to be recognized that physical flaws or deficiencies are universal, and everyone has their own dissatisfactions. Focusing too much on your appearance tends to magnify your flaws and make you feel more unconfident and anxious. On the contrary, accepting your shortcomings and learning to appreciate your strengths and strengths can make you more confident and positive.
Finally, if you feel that excessive attention to your appearance has affected your daily life and emotional well-being, consider seeking professional help, such as counselling or **. Professionals can help you recognize and process your own emotions and thought patterns to help you find healthier solutions.
In short, appearance should not be the only criterion for judging a person, we should look at ourselves and others from multiple perspectives. I hope you can recognize yourself from the heart and face the challenges and opportunities in life positively.
Maybe the couple can withstand the wind and waves, and the lack of ordinary, maybe she feels that she has been together for a long time and has a greasy feeling, at this time you need to find a quiet place to talk to each other, don't be so impulsive to say that you break up, and don't let go of your self-esteem and beg her to come back, who would like someone who has no self-esteem? Don't be too sad, if she misses you, she'll come to you!
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