How to get women to invest in us, or even upside down

<>My wife is from the country, and we got married in May this year.

She and I formalized the relationship between men and women in our freshman year, and at that time we were more willful about feelings, so we have always been divided and combined, and after two years of work, we really couldn't find a suitable marriage partner, so in the end we got together.

My parents didn't agree to this marriage at the beginning, after all, the door is not the right household, and there will be a lot of trouble when they are together, and more importantly, my wife has 3 younger brothers and 2 younger sisters at home, and my wife's family basically doesn't care about her marriage, but only cares about the bride price.

I am the only son in the family, since I was a child, my parents have been responsive to my needs, I was also blinded by her posture at the beginning, most of the men are young and fresh, I am no exception, so after marriage, I am not happy at all.

It is said that a country woman will run a house, and she is shrewd and capable, but she is too lazy to do it, she especially likes small calculations, and she has to watch out for me everywhere at home.

married a wife who couldn't carry it clearly, and every day after marriage was torture.

Last month, my father-in-law was 60 years old, I couldn't go because of work, but I couldn't be less, so I gave 5,000 yuan for my wife to take with me, just to express my heart, but the wife money was given, but in her name to give, it has nothing to do with my son-in-law, and my parents knew afterwards, but also scolded me, and I was worried that the relationship between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was not good, so I carried this matter.

But as a husband, I nag a few words, is that too much?

Wife, you said that we are married now, we are all a family, you do such a thing, do you still have me as a husband in your heart? What do you think of our relationship? ”

After hearing this, my wife was very excited, scolded and smashed, pointed to my nose and said:

You are a useless man, other people's father-in-law is giving tens of thousands of dollars for his birthday, how can you make me embarrassed to take out my hand, keep saying that I love me, I think you just don't take me seriously, your whole family is this virtue, go back and ask your parents to teach you how to honor your elders! ”

After I finished speaking, I directly slapped my wife twice, and hit my wife for the first time, but I didn't regret it, women are spoiled like this, and they will divorce if it's a big deal!

In marriage, if a woman only knows how to blindly ask for it, but does not know that she feels sorry for her husband, she should not be such a wife.

If it were you, would you choose to divorce?

Don't look too much, it's not good for your brain.

Hello, glad you asked.

Women need to be independent. Give yourself the confidence to invest in your body and keep yourself healthy. The body is the capital of the revolution. Invest in your appearance at the same time!

Invest in your inner self while constantly refining your work. Keep learning knowledge, let yourself cultivate both inside and outside, and become a person with temperament, cultivation and brilliance.

Hope it helps!

First of all, a woman must know what she wants and work hard for it. If you have a goal, you won't be confused. Outward appearance will always fade with the passage of time, but wisdom will not.

Secondly, you have to have a career and dreams, and have the ability to earn money to support yourself. Only women who can be independent will not be attached.

The most worthy investment in the world is only "yourself", and investing in anything is not as reliable as investing in yourself. However, there is another type of woman who knows how to invest in herself and work hard to manage herself. She can maintain her charm for a long time, and she can sway confidently and calmly in the world.

1. Invest in your image and health.

The body is the capital of everything, and women who know how to invest in themselves will spare a certain amount of time and energy to exercise and manage their bodies no matter how busy they are. At the same time, I also take care of myself as a big thing, take care of myself, eat and sleep on time, and live a healthy life.

She always has the right makeup and proper clothes to appear in front of people every day, giving people a sense of elegance and sophistication. Such a woman is often more able to withstand the sculpting and testing of time.

2. Invest in your own mentality, be optimistic and calm.

Our daily state is actually determined by ourselves. When your heart is raining, then the world is raining; When your heart is sunny, then everything is full of sunshine.

Many women don't know how to invest in themselves, and they never even think about investing in themselves, especially married women. Their constant pursuit is to earn more money for their families and children, while they live in a simple and simple life, staying in the stage of being fed and clothed. They don't wear makeup, they don't dress up, they don't take care of them, they don't study.

Invest in education or a skill.

We often sign up for various training courses for our children, and we wish that our children have three heads and six arms, and every skill is best learned. But we don't have any investment in skills for ourselves.

For example, do you buy books for yourself regularly, do you plan for yourself for 3 years, do you have a 5-year plan, and do you know how to implement them?

The best example I have ever seen is that I heard a teacher in the MBA class say that there is a student in the president class, she is in a hot pot restaurant, she is in the president class, she said that I just want to have the same investment in education as the child, and she will invest as much ......as the child invests

Hello, women should learn to manage their finances, and they can buy some potential **or**. If you just invest in maintenance, it's not a long-term solution. If you have money in your pocket, you can speak harder.